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Inlaw's suck
Yes they are still at it causing drama
Yesterday stupid sil and mil
I took all your advise ignored them
But yesterday they took it to an all time low
Well I know some of you know my dd is
Devlopmenly disabled
Well to long story short my mil and sil
Told me that everything that happens is my daughters
Fault and because she is an embarrassment
She could not even finish school beacause they did want her and no one ever will
Wtf she my daughter did nothing to them
I feel like beating the crap out of both of them
Any more advise
Should I just pretend they don't exits or what
Please help before I do something dumb
Thanks
Ps I'm a happy person and I wish to stay that way
DONT FORGET WHERE EVER YOU ARE YOUR THERE.
OR ARE YOU?
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08-30-2011 07:37 AM
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Since they are stooping this low, your ignoring them is working. Just keep it up, let it go and continue to ignore them. Go be happy and give your dd a kiss and an extra big hug. They are the true embarrassment to humanity. Let it go.
Mrs Pepperpot is a lady who always copes with the tricky situations that she finds herself in....
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Go on ignoring them.... clearly it is getting to them. Someone who would "pick" on a disable child ... especially one of their own family ... are not worth the breath to curse them. I have a niece that is autistic... she is 26, can not feed herself, barely communicates... she is a member of our FAMILY - she has a special place in our family and in our hearts. Anyone who can not understand or appreciate this does not have a membership in our family. I have neices and nephews that dumped boyfriends/girlfriends because of their reaction to their cousin. I can not fathom what is going thru your inlaws "minds" or what passes for a "heart". You are better off just letting them stew in their own misery.
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People like that don't deserve someone special like your daughter in their family. Just know that people that pick on someone like your daughter are nothing but bullies and cowards. I'd ignore it unless they said something to her face then we'd have a real problem.
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Well if I was your DD I would be embarrassed to have them as a Grandmother and Aunt. They figured going after your DD would piss you off and they are wanting a reaction and by not giving them one it is going to drive them crazy. You have obviously found a way to torture them by ignoring them. Just sit back and watch it will get worse before they finally figure out that they are not important in your families world. It will drive them nuts and I would just kick back, grab a coke and some popcorn and watch the show and give your DD a big hug since she is not an embarrassment they are!!
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My advice hasn't change. Keep ignoring them. Don't stoop to their level. Honestly, I'm not sure why you even care what they think or do. As others have said, anyone who could say that about a disabled child is pretty pathetic themselves. They must not think much about themselves to be so hateful toward a disabled child. Obviously putting you down isn't working...so now they have moved on to your child.
Walk away. They are not worth the air they breathe. They are certainly not worth your time or concern or effect.
I read the following recently and reposted it on Facebook. I think these words might apply to you.
If you're not being treated with love and respect, check your price tag. Perhaps you have marked yourself down. It's YOU who tells people what you're worth by what you accept. Get off the clearance rack and get behind the glass where they keep the valuables! LEARN to value yourself more! If you don't, no one else will!
Last edited by Kelsey1224; 08-30-2011 at 03:33 PM.
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Maybe it is time to reevaluate your relationship with your husband, he allows his mother and sister abuse you and mentally abuse your disabled daughter?!?!
Work like you don't need money, love like you've never been hurt, And dance like no one's watching
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As the saying goes " Misery Loves Company" ,obiviously they want you to be miserable along with them,I would continue to ignore them and let them see who has the last laugh.
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Originally Posted by
iluvmybaby
Maybe it is time to reevaluate your relationship with your husband, he allows his mother and sister abuse you and mentally abuse your disabled daughter?!?!
I agree with that. People can only hurt you or your loved ones if YOU allow it. Not really sure why you continue to be around them. Its hard to feel sorry for someone who continues to put up with this crap. I can tell you one thing, if anyone (relative or not) said something like that about my DD, there wouldn't be any question that they would be on their a$$ and out the door before they knew what hit them. Put your big girl panties on and get them out of you DD's life.
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They only start the drama after he is at work
So he knows
Nothing unless I call and tell him
Or I wait till he gets home
I wait till he is home and him this way
When they call to ask him to do them a favor
He won't do anything for the unhappy old cows
My hubby is a good man he does not let them get away that crap
Mil called and wanted to speak with my
Son he got on the phone and I will not be speaking to you both grow a brain and stop being such Bit<¥
Well my son yelled them both and my hubby won't speak to them any more
He said they are about has useful has a fart in a wind storm
And I keep on using your good advice
Thank you my friends
DONT FORGET WHERE EVER YOU ARE YOUR THERE.
OR ARE YOU?
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Ok have you heard of this simple little thing called call block? Call your phone company if you don't know how to do it and block their calls. Simple easy and effective or you can just forward their calls to me and I will tell them about themselves in a not so nice manner.
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