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    Quote Originally Posted by cathych View Post
    actually, that is part of the problem, he is not a kid. He should have his own family by now, not having his mom take him into work because he got a ticket.
    I only took him because I was going home in that direction but today he has to be at work for noon & I can't take him so how he gets there is his problem.

    If I wasn't already going that way I never would have taken him. I just happened to be going to the mall to use my Penney's $10 coupon & where he works is across the street. He walked from the Penney's parking lot. I did not give him curbside service.
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    I really don't mean to make you mad or anything, but it really sounds like your son (whether he has gotten a dui or not is beside the point) doesn't have too much responsibility. I am sure your mom means well, but I bet that he doesn't have to worry about much staying with grandma. I had this exact same situation happen in my family, and when grandma died, the son became homeless.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cathych View Post
    I really don't mean to make you mad or anything, but it really sounds like your son (whether he has gotten a dui or not is beside the point) doesn't have too much responsibility. I am sure your mom means well, but I bet that he doesn't have to worry about much staying with grandma. I had this exact same situation happen in my family, and when grandma died, the son became homeless.
    Oh Lordy I am not mad at you I am more ticked off that neither my mom nor my son gets it. She thinks she is helping him out by allowing him to live there & he is only too happy to take advantage of her genersoity. I am fed-up with the entire situation. Like have told him numerous times, life isn't all about watching sports & having a good time. You can do that when you are a teenager but not when you are an adult & capable of taking care of yourself. I refuse to entertain fools.

    My youngest son is 5 years younger, is a Dean's List student & will graduate next spring with his second degree, WORKS, has a great girlfriend & looks out after me!
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    there nothing more aggravating than a man that won't leave his momm's nest (well, I guess grandmas in this case LOL)~~ I put up with that schit for over 2 years(amongst other probs...), I finally told him, you like being at your "mommy and daddys" all the time, take your crap with you and go.... And the worst, is when his mom just let him!! Wouldn't tell him to go home to his family or nothing!!

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    What do woman think of him living with grandma--thats if he dates. At that age it would have been a big turn off to have a guy I date living with parents or grandparent. Doesnt he want to have a life of a young man on his own?

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