Thread: Sick of paying ALL the costs for raising our son!

AND then..if you get remarried..DANG...the ex shouldn't have to still pay anything extra for HIS kid should he?? When I remarried...when something big came up..I would ask my ex if he would pay half..HE always says..You are married again..have your husband help.. DUH..Your the dad.. GRRRR
I never say anything in front of haley..but it really gripes me. When haley wanted to do guitar lessons..I asked her dad if he would go half. For the last 10 years all I have heard is.. I pay child support..use that ... GRRRR

I went back to court because of my ex snapping on my 9 year old. He pays child support on his terms and doesnt pay half of the medical bills either. The judge just looked at him and said you have to pay your child support. That cost me $1,500. He took a small amount of visits away for snapping at my son. He told my boy that he was done with him because he wont play sports. My ex will pay for it one day. My son already sees some of his bad ways. He also smokes around him and it is court ordered not to. My son has very bad allergies and he sounds like Darth Vader when he gets back. I do good to get my ex to give him the allergy meds that I pack.