Thread: I need advice!

I agree with everyone above. Yes I think you should leave him alone and do not answer his emails or calls. You already feel a little for him or you wouldn't even be giving him a second thought. Yes he is lying and you caught him. You called his house, when for what ever reason he told you he would not be there , and his sister hollered for him because he was home. So you have caught him lying about 1-a flight that didn't exist 2-being home when he said he wasn't 3-purchasing a car he didn't purchase. And now he is trying to make you feel guilty. Don't let him do that to you. Forget him.

Originally Posted by buglebe

I agree with everyone above. Yes I think you should leave him alone and do not answer his emails or calls. You already feel a little for him or you wouldn't even be giving him a second thought. Yes he is lying and you caught him. You called his house, when for what ever reason he told you he would not be there , and his sister hollered for him because he was home. So you have caught him lying about 1-a flight that didn't exist 2-being home when he said he wasn't 3-purchasing a car he didn't purchase. And now he is trying to make you feel guilty. Don't let him do that to you. Forget him.

Very well said, good luck to you.

Originally Posted by gmyers

I wonder if that was indeed his sister or a girlfriend or wife that answered when you called. Maybe thats why he was so upset.

Thats about the only thing that is true. His sister. I met her.

I totally agree run as fast as you can, you don't need someone like that..

Run!!!!!!!

Okay, my advice. You did the right thing to break off with him because if you felt you could not trust him then you did not need to be with him. But also, it should never have gone so far as you checking on him. Calling his house when you thought he should be gone, going to a car dealership to see if there really was a car. How do you know that sales person or whoever knew what they were talking about? I just don't think you should have spied on him. You should have left it alone and if you thought he was lying to you and not a trust worthy person then you should have just gone your seperate ways because he was not the man for you.

Originally Posted by tngirl

Okay, my advice. You did the right thing to break off with him because if you felt you could not trust him then you did not need to be with him. But also, it should never have gone so far as you checking on him. Calling his house when you thought he should be gone, going to a car dealership to see if there really was a car.

A detail I left out. The man asked me to marry him. I am looking for a husband and do not have time to waste. You would not check into some ones past or present if you were considering marriage and you have children? And the last guy you dated you had to get a restraining order against because he was stalking your children! I didn't want to have to be so blunt about it but, thats what my trust issues are!