Thread: small irrelevent vent ... just ignore.. lol..

oh no

That was not appropriate at all. At the very least, she should have said she was sorry that happened, no matter whose fault it was!

If you feel like she belittles your son in any way, then ask for a conference. Tell her. I hate confrontations, and it doesn't sound like you relish them either, lol, but you could bring it up in a nice way. Just play up the fact that you're concerned about your son. He seems sad that he's left out, that she doesn't seem to like him, or ignores him. You feel that things are disorganized when there's special events, etc. Those are legitimate concerns. Kids that young - there's no reason that during a party things can't be more organized and the kids won't still have fun. The kids can all be sitting in their desks until the adults pass the treats out to the class members. And if the parents bring their other babies, then of course they can't help the teacher with those tasks, and there's no reason for them to be there.

No, there was no reason for her to blame him! He did nothing wrong - he passed out treats to everyone - did she specify - just to the kids? In that case, that's what he did. There were just too many kids in the classroom, and she should have prevented that too. Not his fault at all.

I think the TEACHER should be more attentive, she is the one responsible for what goes on in the classroom, she should have made sure that things were passed our correctly. And I don't think that actually any toddlers should be in the classroom for this type of activity. They wouldn't be allowed to run all over on a normal school day then why on a party day. Sorry JMO

The teacher needs her head examined. Why should a 5 year old be responsible for making sure he gets a treat that his mom made?

If the parents are going to bring their other children, then it should be made clear to them that the treats are for the students in the class room and if there is anything left over then they can have some.