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    I'm sick of lies!

    Why can't they just send the email to me and be done with it. Theres so many reasons and excuses why they can't. Either you have it or you don't. And if you can't show it to me then you're lieing. You can forward it to other people in the family but you just can't send it to me. Bull crap it doesn't exist then. I think I know when I send someone an email and its kind of hard when I don't have your email address. Either put up or shut up because I'm sick of the lies. And why can't you just call, read it to me and ask if I sent it before spreading it around. Man do ya'll ever get tired of the lieing and spreading crap.

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    unfortunately some people thrive on it... i'm sorry you're going through this

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    So pick up the phone and call them and tell them to read it to you. Go to the source and ignore the crap everyone else is spreading around. You have been through this crap with them enough that I want to call and tell them off. You have to put your foot down on their mouth or ignore it. They are not going to stop as long as they know they are tying you up in knots.

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    I can't call them or email them or even write them because no one will give me their phone numbers, email address or address.. They just keep saying they're not going to tell me because I know whats in the email because I sent it. Its real convenient that they wont send it and the other family members wont either but they've sent it to just about every other family member though. I don't see what the big deal is with someone at least giving me the email address that it came from. I know I didn't send and I want to know who did.

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    And they know you want it, they sucked you in. Walk away and let it go. That will drive them nuts, knowing that you refuse to be sucked into it anymore.

    If not for satisfaction of knowing you will drive them crazy.....do it for your own sanity.

    Walk away, YOU know it's all lies. You need to prove it to no one, and anyone who would belive it...is no one to you.
    Mrs Pepperpot is a lady who always copes with the tricky situations that she finds herself in....

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    I agree. They thrive on upsetting you. Try not to give any reaction. I know it is hard but that is what makes them feel good is knowing they have hurt and upset you. I personally would like to be able to tell them what I think of them. They really need to find something better to do than stirring the pot.

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    Walk, no run away from it. Opinions & lies are like butt homes; eveyone has one but no one really wants to see it.
    Insanity is hereditary. You get it from your kids.

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    Oh they have an answer for everything. Now my oldest brother told them to delete it and not keep it so now they can't send it to me. At least thats what my sister told me.
    Last edited by gmyers; 04-02-2012 at 04:47 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gmyers View Post
    Oh they have an answer for everythig. Now my oldest brother told them to delete it and not keep it so they can't send it to me. At least thats what my sister told me.
    Stop giving them the POWER over you. NO ONE can take advantage of you unless YOU allow them to. Stand up for yourself and hang up or hit delete it will free you. You are a very nice person and they know that and they know they can twist you into a knot. Trust me my Brother will tell you if he tries to start crap with me I will hang up on him or just walk away. I can tell you first hand it does work.

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    I caught the sister thats telling me thin in two lies today. She told me they sent the email to my brothers wife yesterday and then today said they didn't. Then she said my other sister had it but wont send it. Now today she said she doesn't have it she just saw it. Which is it do they have it or not or are you making this stuff up.

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    Ok you need to really let this go for your own sake. Trust me this is coming from someone who has dealt with family crap ever since I filed for divorce from my EX.
    Change your phone number & email address. Let them gossip all they want to, you are powerless to stop them but you are powerful enough to not allow them this power over you.

    I deal with anxiety & depression. I take medications for it. Now I take 1 xanax at night while before I was on 4 plus an antidepressant. I spent thousands on therapy.

    Last week I kind of got angry at my youngest ds, yes the one who still lives at home rent free...sigh. He accidently blurted out something that was said about me by my sister & her family. I would lay 99.9% odds that what he said was true. This cut my heart like a knife. I cried for 2 days over it. I was back on 4 xanax, my antidepressant & ambien. Then all of those sessions of therapy kicked in because I realized I was giving others power over me. I basically said screw it I am not dealing with their crap anymore. I can only control ME & MY actions & reactions.

    My advice is to take control back & stop giving your family power.
    Insanity is hereditary. You get it from your kids.

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