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    Quote Originally Posted by pepperpot View Post
    I accepted being treated like this so I guess it's my fault.....
    Not exactly sure how you mean this (and none of my business), but no one deserves to be treated badly. It's NOT your fault.

    What ever it is, keep thinking positive PLEASE.

    I hope it all works out.

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    There's a distinction between something being one's fault and deserving something. We show people what behaviors we will allow from them by accepting them, putting up with them, etc. By allowing this and not addressing it the first time, they think it is acceptable. That is what I meant by being my fault. I should have nipped this crap in the bud, but I didn't and now he's blindsided and nasty that I'm upset by it. I created this situation by allowing it and no, I don't deserve it.

    I internalize so many things and have for a long time. It's not a good nor healthy habit. I'm mad at myself for letting this happen and at him for thinking that it's "just fine". I really hate fighting because I know myself. It will get to a point where I will just blow this crap out of the water and not look back. I am that angry, I let too much build up for too long.
    Mrs Pepperpot is a lady who always copes with the tricky situations that she finds herself in....

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    I'm beginning to think that Dr Phil is right on one thing. He says you teach people how to treat you. I've allowed people to say and do so many things to me that now I have people in my life that will call me a female dog and then just call me up the next day like they didn't do it. And make excuses like its no big deal why are you getting upset. Now when I want it to stop they wont. They do it over and over. Now I just want them out of my life because I resent them so much. And they think I should just get past it and be friendly again.

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    My neice wants a pair of Yoga pants for Christmas.

    She wants the ones from Victorias Secret...$45!

    I can get SAME EXACT THING from Sears for $10 (sale, plus my discount)

    Why should I pay an extra $35 so she can have PINK written on her A$$!!!

    And yes, they are the same. Same material, style, ''made in indonesia''

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    I would get her the Sears pair ... I have a real pet peeve about girls/women walking around with words writen across their butts. You draw attention to the things you think are important ... I am more important then a view of my "azz" - any woman is more then just one "part" of her personality or person. If you wear something like that you are making a statement about yourself. JMHO.
    Laissez les bon temps rouler! Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than standing in a garage makes you a car.** a 4 day work week & sex slaves ~ I say Tyt for PRESIDENT! Not to be taken internally, literally or seriously ....Suki ebaynni IS THAT BETTER ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by 3lilpigs View Post
    Where does the "R" come from??

    Why do people say ''waRsh'' or ''wooRsh'' instead of WASH??

    Why do they say "I have an ideaR?'', (pronounced I Deer), instead of idea?

    Why do they put SplendeR in their coffee instead of Splenda??



    Just exactly where is that R coming from??


    (This post, brought to you by the Letter "R")
    I'm from the south and don't even hear it when ppl say those things anymore. What annoys me is ppl who say uman and uge as if the h is silent.
    Lord, keep your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth.

    An 'eye for an eye' leaves the whole world blind. -Mahatma Gandhi

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    Quote Originally Posted by 3lilpigs View Post
    My neice wants a pair of Yoga pants for Christmas.

    She wants the ones from Victorias Secret...$45!

    I can get SAME EXACT THING from Sears for $10 (sale, plus my discount)

    Why should I pay an extra $35 so she can have PINK written on her A$$!!!

    And yes, they are the same. Same material, style, ''made in indonesia''
    Buy what you can afford(Sears). If she doesn't like them let her return them & let her parents buy her the Pink ones.

    I stopped gifting to extended family years ago & am happier for it. I am fine with birthdays but Christmas...nah. I think everybody is happy we stopped this too.
    Insanity is hereditary. You get it from your kids.

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    Weird mascara day.....ugh.
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    Today I am thanking the good Lord... my daughter had been planning on going shopping at the Clackamas Town Center yesterday but her friend couldn't make it so they rescheduled for friday. Odd thing is, last time I was there, I sat in the food court thinking what a prime spot it would be for some mental case to open fire, sitting at the same table the next time my daughter went, she admits thinking the same thing, the next time she went with a friend, she mentioned something similar around the same area... freaky... I know it's one of those things but I'm just sure I want her going shopping there again - ever... I just am so thankful she was not there and my heart goes out to those who were

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    I read about that. Crazy people.

    I am here venting....have bronchitis...AGAIN. Called the doctor up & got their answering service. They are in the office but not taking calls so I am sitting here at work sicker than an infected pus wart on a monkey's butt bored out of my mind because this is our slow season. I just want them to call me & schedule an appointment or call a 'script in for me so I can get the heck out of here.
    Insanity is hereditary. You get it from your kids.

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    Do you have a "family" member that you wish would just drop down a freakin' hole ?? I have a niece who is married with several children ( and one on the way ) - her husband is an alcholic and pill head who can not seem to keep a job. She keeps leaving him and then going back ... a vicious cycle. JA wrecked his truck last night - flipped it 8 times and alcohol IS being considered a factor. Now she has no money for Christmas ... and the family is pressuring us to "loan" ( aka : give ) them the car we have for Meg. Reasons : 1 ) Meg is 15 and can not ddrive for at least another year. 2 ) they live in a rural area and she is 8 months along. We have tried to help them in the past and it always - always - seems to bite us in the butt. Now *I* am getting heat because I am "mean" "cold" "heartless" and ( my favorite ) "unChristian"
    Laissez les bon temps rouler! Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than standing in a garage makes you a car.** a 4 day work week & sex slaves ~ I say Tyt for PRESIDENT! Not to be taken internally, literally or seriously ....Suki ebaynni IS THAT BETTER ?

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