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Just curious.... if you kept feeding the meter, what was the ticket for?
Also, you just said "i would help anyone if i could if it was something i could do for them" You also said that he is in no position to pay the ticket, so why would you expect him to?
Either way, its your ticket and your responsibility. JMHO
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I think you need to pay for the ticket, just because you knew he didn't have the money to pay for anything. In that case, you knew that if you get ticketed, who else would you have to blame for it? If you don't pay for it, you will get late fee charges in addition to the charges you have already. So it is your choice, the car is yours, and whatever happens to the ticket, it is bound to the owner of the car. Since the car is "yours", then you have the responsibility to pay for it. No one forced you to park there and no one said you cannot go out to put money in the meter. Maybe you should of put more money in it the first time from getting this fine.
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Originally Posted by
VALENA-)45
I give him the tikect and tell him it's his to pay not mine.
Perhaps if you had ASKED instead of telling him......Maybe said something like "Is there any chance you can pay at least half of this, since I drove you out here?"
If someone gave it to me and TOLD me I was going to pay for it, I wouldn't pay for it either.
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Well ther ya go. I want to reply to this thread, but I will keep my mouth shut except to say HAPPY HOLIDAYS to every one!!!!
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Originally Posted by
baragabrat
Tell you what, if I was in a bind and had a "friend" with an attitude such as yours, I would lose the "friend." Considering that you had already gotten a ticket and it cost you so much, you should have either been MORE diligent or left and gone back to pick him up. You knew he didn't have the money for it, yet you still gripe. If I were to owe someone for the rest of my life for helping me...then please don't help me because I don't have a need for a 'conditional' friendship....or whatever your relationship is with him...can't be friendship...
I totally agree!
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Originally Posted by
VALENA-)45
I would love your thoughts on the matter. Thanks, in advance.
I bet you wish you changed your mind about posting...lol
I have no advice. Good luck w/it.
Don't worry about what people think. They don't do it very often.
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Originally Posted by
VALENA-)45
the ticket i got with him today is $65.00. in New York state the surcharge for any kind of ticket is very high. the surcharge on that ticket is $40.00, the fine is only $25.00. He already owned the car and i am paying him car payments every month. even if i go to cityhall and ask them to take off the surcharge and the ticket would only be $25.00, he still don't want to pay half of that i am always a responsible person, cause that is what my parents taught me to be.
Did you think about deducting the $65 from the $150 you pay him monthly for the car?
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Originally Posted by
Bliss
I bet you wish you changed your mind about posting...lol
I have no advice. Good luck w/it.
yeah, i sure do. some answers helped me and alot stabbed me. i am going to pay for the ticket today. but, i will never help his a## again.
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Originally Posted by
candygirl
Did you think about deducting the $65 from the $150 you pay him monthly for the car?
your thinking the way i was thinking. going today to see if i can get it reduced to $25.00, if so, i will pay half and he can pay the other half. his rent money was stolen by a crackhead, i was only trying to help him get his rent paid, but hey what do you expect when you let crackheads hang out at your house. but, i wasn't thinking like that, if i was i would have left the problem alone. thanks, to all.
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Originally Posted by
baragabrat
Tell you what, if I was in a bind and had a "friend" with an attitude such as yours, I would lose the "friend." Considering that you had already gotten a ticket and it cost you so much, you should have either been MORE diligent or left and gone back to pick him up. You knew he didn't have the money for it, yet you still gripe. If I were to owe someone for the rest of my life for helping me...then please don't help me because I don't have a need for a 'conditional' friendship....or whatever your relationship is with him...can't be friendship...
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