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Originally Posted by
ttistin
We talked a little about it. I think some of the things hit him because he did change some of the things he was saying. He told me this morning that he is not going to met her, If she texts him he wont answer. I want to believe him but I am going to have to see what happens before I believe him. I am checking his phone and will keep track of messages to/from her. If it is different then what the bill says then we have a problem.
Ok bash me if you wish but the first thing he really needs to do is change is phone number. If you have to go & check his texts & phone records daily that just proves you don't trust either of them to make contact. You know what, forget that advice, even if he changes his phone number IF they want to be in touch with one another, they will find a way. You just won't know about it. He can get himself a pre-paid cell & you would never even know.
Hun I hope & pray you can work things out & can learn to trust him again, I really, really do. For me though, I knew everytime my (ex) husband would touch me I would just be seeing her face on top of me so I knew there was no working it out for us. That however might have been because she had been a close friend of mine.
Good luck!
Insanity is hereditary. You get it from your kids.
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11-20-2009 09:19 AM
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I think that is great that you are working on your relationship with your husband but have you made a Drs appt yet? You need to look out for yourself first, and if things are meant to be it will work itself out, but if you have a venereal disease you need to get treated right away and even if you don't you need to be monitored for the next several years to make sure you don't. Please dont neglect your health
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Ok, I hate to stick my nose in this... but it seems there are a couple ppl trying to really scare you w/ the testing for STDs. Yes, you DO need to go but you do NOT need to repeat test for several years. Six months is the guidelines from the CDC.
http://www.hivtest.org/faq.cfm
Lord, keep your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth.
An 'eye for an eye' leaves the whole world blind. -Mahatma Gandhi
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Originally Posted by
justme23
Ok, I hate to stick my nose in this... but it seems there are a couple ppl trying to really scare you w/ the testing for STDs. Yes, you DO need to go but you do NOT need to repeat test for several years. Six months is the guidelines from the CDC.
http://www.hivtest.org/faq.cfm
I am not talking about just HIV, there is Trichomoniasis, Crabs,Thrush, Scabies, Molluscum Contagiosum, Herpes, Hepatitis, Syphllis, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, HPV etc. Knowing that your spouse was unfaithful and potentially unprotected sex, why WOULDNT you get tested. In most cases, you can get tested FREE at your local health department. A lot of those STDs can go undetected for a long time causing a lot of problems.
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Where did I say she shouldn't get tested?
Lord, keep your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth.
An 'eye for an eye' leaves the whole world blind. -Mahatma Gandhi
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Okay the op is having a hard enough time with dealing with this-lets not start any arguements.
To protect herself ,she does need to be tested,cause there are alot of std's out there-but she does not have to be tested for years-i know i went through the testing myself,and here's what they had me do,i was tested for everything you can imagine,came back neg(i was lucky),then i had to go back 6 months later and be tested agian-still neg-and then i was tested after a year.it is not a thing you constantly do,unless you have a partner who is constantly unfaithful
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