Thread: Last Post, Please do not close my account

as there may be someone on this board that would like to have contact with me...not sure.. and this was my first freebie board ever. I would like to keep my account here, thanks



When I said anyone was a lost cause, I was refering to issues, for instance if someone believes abortion is ok, theres not much that will ever change their minds.
I never meant that any of you were a lost cause. And that is not what he said. Can people never ask what someone means, instead of just jumping on them.
My husband has never told me what I can and cannot do, and he was not implying that any of you woman did not have a good husband.

YankeeMary, you called my husband a horrible christian because of posts he made on a board. You know nothing of my life or his.
My hubby cooks, cleans, does dishes and in fact I have not done dishes since I started school. I stopped posting here not because he started posting, but because people could say absolutely anything they wanted to him or about him and nothing would be done. I also really didnt have time when I started working in Sept.

I honestly dont care what any of you think of me or him, God knows my heart and his. I didnt know whether to post and then have people think I just did cause I didnt want you thinking bad of us, or if I should ignore and then have you all think I was hiding, or afraid. Seemed like a double edged sword either way, so I decided to go ahead and post and not come back as I see this would be the best. I will not read responses, as I know people will get ugly even if I am not.

Kelsey- please dont pity me. I have a great life. I have a hubby that treats me great and two wonderful boys. Save your pity for someone else.
Whatever- I am treated very well by my hubby. See people jumped to the conclusion that I was not posting due to him, or that he does nothing around the house, making all kinds of assumptions.
speedygirl-I did not dismiss an entire group of people. I could care less whether you agree with me or not. Shann and I always got along and we have the opposite opinion most of the time. See what i mean about assumptions?

If any of you really cared, why not pm me and ask? No wonder has ever said, where is bubbles? I have not seen her around, have any of you aked about me? No cause I am not missed. See noone cared about me, until now...when it was convenient. and I think I have already had this convo before.

There are alot of wonderful people on this board and thank you for your kindness over the years, I will miss you.

Shann, you are totally awesome. I loved how we could have different opinions and still be internet pals,lol

Beanie, you are also one that I will miss dearly, thanks for all your kindness and prayers! I also see that you have thanked people for some of the assumptions, that really saddens me. But I love ya beanie, and take care.

I know there are more, so dont feel bad if I didnt mention you!

I think what I find funny about this is that people cant just move on. Why cant someone post something from an email? Atprm I sent it to him, and since I felt this SUBJECT was a lost cause did not feel it necessary to post, but he wanted to. I see people posting emails all the time...

I will end with this, Please if a statement can be taken more than one way, pm someone, ask them what they mean. I am not going to cancel my account, just in case anyone wants to pm me and ask a question. Or if they truly want to know something.

Mods if at all possible could this thread get closed, so there are not any responses? If not that is cool. I would just rather be pm'd as I do not want to post anymore, or be accused of bumping my own thread. I want to be civil, and I do not mind if people pm me and share my answer, I just dont want this thread to get ugly, which I know it will if it is not closed. I really do not have time to read any responses. Took me too long to d write this.lol

God Bless all of you, Have a wonderful year! Also Please know that I am not upset, I do not mean anything to be rude(always keep in mind this is typed and sometimes it is hard to respond without sounding rude). I am just trying to answer some of the last posts.

YNKYH8R- I am so glad God answered your prayers, can I get an AMEN!

Originally Posted by Bubblescc

as there may be someone on this board that would like to have contact with me...not sure.. and this was my first freebie board ever. I would like to keep my account here, thanks



When I said anyone was a lost cause, I was refering to issues, for instance if someone believes abortion is ok, theres not much that will ever change their minds.

I never meant that any of you were a lost cause. And that is not what he said. Can people never ask what someone means, instead of just jumping on them.

My husband has never told me what I can and cannot do, and he was not implying that any of you woman did not have a good husband.

No?? Actually your husband DID say this (the thread from bbs may be gone, but I copied the whole final post):

My wife has stopped posting here because she doesn't really care for anyone here. (just being honest) Why not look and see the last time she posted. She doesn't have anything to say to people here because she feels that most of you are a lost cause. Set in your ways, and NOT open to rational and reasonable discussion.

If he wasn't implying anything about a good husband, then perhaps you would like to write this statement off too:

I would wager that my wife is treated better and her opinions respected more than the great majority of the women here. (you can ask her if you like)

I am Catholic, and I will tell you (along with YankeeMary) -- he is a bad example of a Christian....or Jewish (as he claimed himself to be on another website where he also got banned --pbnation.com )

How he treated fellow BBS members as "lower" than himself ... always quick to incite a hot debate on a forum where debates are not allowed.

I don't think so, please put down the rose colored sunglasses.

I dont know anything about whats going on, but you sound like you could use a hug!

wth?I am lost

Originally Posted by Lild

wth?I am lost

basically, since her husband was an azz and no one liked him, she is going to pout and go play elsewhere...

It's too bad her DH didn't let her tell us how she felt before he outed her opinions of us in a thread...without her knowledge.

Originally Posted by Bubblescc

speedygirl-I did not dismiss an entire group of people. I could care less whether you agree with me or not.

And vice versa. Remember, your husband brought your name up to us and told us how YOU felt. Not the other way around. I would not tolerate my DH speaking up for me unless he had my permission. Unless of course you did permit him to make that statement. I have nothing personal against you nor your DH.

His statement is dismissive and the first sentence throws you under the bus if it isn't true that you don't really care for anyone here.

My wife has stopped posting here because she doesn't really care for anyone here. (just being honest) Why not look and see the last time she posted. She doesn't have anything to say to people here because she feels that most of you are a lost cause. Set in your ways, and NOT open to rational and reasonable discussion.

I still cant see how you can be with someone who has publicly called you a whore.

I hope the very best for you, and really think you need to get some kind of help. I fear with the way he is here that he is that way with you as well, and that cant be good for your self esteem.

I can see you as an abused woman, there is more than physical abuse, there is verbal and for him to use his "religion" as an excuse is uncalled for. Please seek help before it is too late and escalates to physical abuse if it hasn't already.

ETA: here is the link to the post ATPRM is quoting your husband from: Interesting take on Abortion that I got in my email.

Not long after he started posting here, it might have been as "Detroitpunk".