Thread: I am so freakin' mad

OMG my husband's cousin is a worthless POS! He's 25 years old and completely able bodied. He works 2 part time jobs, lives rent/expense free in his dad's(who lives in Kuwait) apartment building. He won't even shovel his freaking driveway. I just got off the phone with Dh's 72 y/o grandmother who did the shoveling because he won't get off his lazy a$$! She's exhausted! I asked her why she didn't call us to bring our snow blower over.....she said it wouldn't have done any good cause he been driving over the snow all winter and it was packed snow and ice.....so she spent all effin' day chopping and hauling.....while get this....lazy a$$ was over at her house taking a effin nap Not only that but she just gave him $3000 to fix something with his vehicle...which is probably a lie on his part because he gambles online....OMG I am going to have to have Dh restrain me when I see this punk next otherwise I am going to ring his freaking neck!!!!!!

Originally Posted by Mom2-3boys

OMG my husband's cousin is a worthless POS! He's 25 years old and completely able bodied. He works 2 part time jobs, lives rent/expense free in his dad's(who lives in Kuwait) apartment building. He won't even shovel his freaking driveway. I just got off the phone with Dh's 72 y/o grandmother who did the shoveling because he won't get off his lazy a$$! She's exhausted! I asked her why she didn't call us to bring our snow blower over.....she said it wouldn't have done any good cause he been driving over the snow all winter and it was packed snow and ice.....so she spent all effin' day chopping and hauling.....while get this....lazy a$$ was over at her house taking a effin nap Not only that but she just gave him $3000 to fix something with his vehicle...which is probably a lie on his part because he gambles online....OMG I am going to have to have Dh restrain me when I see this punk next otherwise I am going to ring his freaking neck!!!!!!

Are you saying that he called his 72 y/o grandmother to shovel the driveway? That is SO jacked up. How can he live for free and not have money to fix his car?

Originally Posted by iluvmybaby

Are you saying that he called his 72 y/o grandmother to shovel the driveway? That is SO jacked up. How can he live for free and not have money to fix his car?

He didn't call her but it's just as bad. She takes care of/watches the building for her son (the one in Kuwait). The cousin is suppose to do the yard work and keep up the sidewalk and driveway. Well he didn't do what he was suppose to over the summer because my husband and sons did it so I don't know why it surprises me that she got a notice from the city that the sidewalks were not cleared and if they were not taken care of with in 48 hours then there would be a $150 charge and the city would do it. I told her next time let the city do it and her son that owns the building can pay for it....his building his worthless son.

OMG.. yep he isnt going to change. He keeps getting a free ride. I would have hubby and sons beat his azz

i think he needs to have his arse kicked to the curb-doesnt he realize grandmother could have had a heartattack or a stroke from over doing it-oh my gosh-some one ring his freaking neck

its only my opinion but lazy good for nothing son would find himself evicted and i would let his dad do it from kuwait via web cam this bum would find himself bouncing like a rubber ball all the way down the road people like this really piss me off ggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

There is no way in hell any 72 yr old woman should be shoveling snow. I'd let his Dad know. I'd take some pics or something. Sorry, but that guys needs to live in the car.

To the OP, you are absolutely right about letting the city do it and then sending the father the bill. He does need a beating. I guess you'd have to wake it up first, though.

As long as everyone keeps doing stuff for him he will never change. Tell Grandma (and your DH) to stop doing the work and let the fallout land where it may. His dad set up the problem so let him deal with the consequences. If they keep doing it they shouldn't complain.