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    I just need to talk...

    Lets see how i should start this..


    Recently in my life I have realized how totally unhappy I am.
    I lost my job in October and things have been going down hill sense.
    No money to buy things I need. No money to live.
    I had to move back in with my parents, and I feel so bad because they struggle as well. My car broke down and i recently found out my license is suspended as well from a ticket for a no tail light.

    Im the kind of person who is always trying to be positive, bc i know dreading on the bad wont ever change things. And i'm the only one who can change my life.

    But I live in the middle of no wheres ( literally the nearest store is 15 miles away) and with no car or license that means no way to get a job.

    I just feel stuck. I'm going to be 23 in march and i feel like my life is nothing.

    I guess what i need is just some one to talk to....


    and now on top of everything else.
    I just found out im pregnant.
    I just dont know what im gonna do
    But I gotta be strong..
    Last edited by june5917; 01-18-2009 at 03:57 PM. Reason: now on top of everything else..
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    You are more than welcome to pm if you want. I have sooooo been there and I'm not happy with my life right now, but I am in the works to change that. My best friend is also having a REALLY rough time right now. So pm me if you want.....we can talk or I can listen. ((((HUGS)))) to you! Things WILL get better!!!!

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    Im really sorry your life is in the pits right now....Been there and its not fun..Do alot of prayin and he will answer..Keep your chin up and were all here for you....

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    sent you a PM
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    I know what you're going through. It seems like everything keeps piling up on you. But don't give up. It takes too much time sometimes but it will change for you.

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    Have you thought about going back to school? If you have a low income and your parents do too you probably could appy for and get grants to pay for it. I hope thing work out for you. I think we all go through periods of unhappiness but things do get better.

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    I also sent you a PM, I will be keeping you in our prayers!

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    Any chance you have a friend who could work on your car for you?
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    Maybe an option???
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    for a relatively small, emergency expense on behalf of an individual
    or family suffering from short-term unemployment due to the current
    economic downturn.

    In making a Bridge Grant, our goal is to allow a person who has
    recently become unemployed through no fault of his or her own AND who
    has yet to find a new position OR to begin receiving the unemployment
    benefits to which s/he is entitled to continue to look for work
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    It just kills me that our young kids are having to go through things like this

    I truely hope that things look up for you soon.
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    Put your head up straight and that beautiful smile on and think think think positive. There is something out there for you these things stink but they also make you appreciate things you have more. Could you babysit in your area, clean houses, (Yuck I know not fun)shovel snow if you are in one of these lovely places with all the snow. Just things like that to get enough money to fix the car. Would it be cheaper to trade your car in for a used car--I know money is tight or maybe just not there at all. We just went thru all this stuff with my son losing his job--Michigan jobs are disappearing, car problems etc and we were able to help him out which he was lucky about that. He had to move back home too--he wasnt to thrilled about that either. He was out of a job almost 6 months he just started before Christmas. I as his mom prayed a lot because us parents worry about our children making it these days. It is tough but keep positive.

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