THAT one probably won't ever end.........
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You know, I read to THIS POST and then had to do a quote and state my take on it...... I have been a member since 2000 and have ALWAYS felt like I was "outside the clique"... You know what? Until a couple of months, I WAS an outsider...and you know WHY? Because I didnt jump in and try to KNOW anyone. People only know what you put out there and unless you are willing to meet them halfway, they cant KNOW you. I have made some friends here and have gotten to know LOTS of people in the past few months that SHOULD have been made years ago, but for my feelings of inadequecy. Wait, let me say that again, MY OWN FAULT.....I held back and for no good reason and projected my feelings onto other people that I had no clue about. They had no clue how I was because I WOULDNT LET THEM....now that they do, apparently, some of them are downright happy they met me. Now, how cool is THAT?
Nobody likes me everybody hates me think I'll go eat worms......
I can gaurantee that dog ain't innocent! There's a reason that ......
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Awww how cute! The gangs all here!! LOL..anyway..umm just cause I've only been a member since May doesn't mean I can't read nor see. It doesn't take a genius to see what goes on here. There is nothing wrong with it, in fact..its all in the name of fun right? Without the occasional person to buck the system it would be rather boring huh? Oh and by the way..I have nothing to do with "that certain soft drink" that you guys like to torture. I don't drink soda at all...so just so you know..I am someone other than that person that can see what happens here. There are others too..they just keep quite about it. I personally don't care who is in what clique or what they do. I was simply stating a point to explain as to why some people either get ignored or harassed. There doesn't seem to really be a happy medium. Oh and ummm you can lurk and read..who knows just how long I was lurking before joining?? No one had much to say until they felt the need to defend themselves. The guilty protest the loudest.