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    Unhappy I guess I am a bad person

    According to my parents anyways.

    Thats fine if yall want to think that. But when was the last time yall said "I love you" to me? What was that? Never? Thats right.


    Sorry just needed to say that..now back to more important threads.
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    My mother thinks I am the devil incarnate.. OK maybe she is right but I am sure I am a much worse daughter than you are..Trust me I am... *evil grin

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    "Parents aren't always right when it comes to their grownup children"

    So true!I have had my own issues with my mom.I gotta say though,that I think both of you are great and I don't just say that about anyone.

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    I'm sorry you're not a bad person
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    (((Mini))) I am sorry.

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    Oh Mini that is just awful...we always love to hear we are loved and appreciated. Your parents are missing out on a lot. (((Mini)))
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mini View Post
    According to my parents anyways.

    Thats fine if yall want to think that. But when was the last time yall said "I love you" to me? What was that? Never? Thats right.


    Sorry just needed to say that..now back to more important threads.
    You know...this thread is just as important as any others. I'm sorry your parents treat you like this. You are not a bad person!
    Never argue with an idiot. It will bring you down to his level and he’ll win because of experience.

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    I don't know you Mini, so I can't say with any certainty.

    I DO know that your parents aren't good people, I am not a good person etc.

    There is only one man who was EVER good according to the Bible.

    Jesus.

    We are ALL sinners. Even if your parents are born again and try to live according to God's word, they will STILL make mistakes.

    Instead of telling you how bad you are, maybe they should try to help you understand WHY they feel that way.

    OR explain what part (if any) they bear in the person you turned out to be.

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    When I was growing up, I NEVER heard "I love you". I seriously think that is one of the big factors in how I acted as a teen. I know how I acted and I feel like I have watched you grow up on here.....you can not be a "bad person" in any shape, form or fashion. I can imagine, whatever you did, there is someone here who has done WAY worse.



    I am 39 and have heard my dad say "I Love You" more in the last 5 years than the 34 years before that. I dont think I have ever heard my mom say it to me. My kids hear it at least once a day, usually several times. The little one hears it constantly(shes 4 and doesnt get embarrassed yet), the 14 yr old hears it before I leave in the morning and before bed at night(and NEVER EVER in public, OMG!) and the 19 yr old hears it everytime we talk on the phone(hardly see him in person, he works seconds, Im on firsts). I knew when I grew up that hearing "I love you" was important to me and I make sure my kids hear it too. They may swing the other way with their children, but I will make sure and tell my grandchildren I love them consistently, too. You cant change YOUR childhood, but you can make sure your children dont have the same childhood you did.

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    I have learned over the years that some people just should have never became 'parents'. I know that my Mom, many many years ago, had us because my dad really wanted kids, as did the grandparents... and those are no reasons to have children, although those are the main reasons a lot of women do.

    Mini........ you rock !
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