Feeling VERY anti-social

**cpbaby** · 05-01-2008, 08:15 PM

Just not a good week at all....and am feeling very highly anti-social. I am sick of my job, sick of my low pay, sick of gas prices, sick of house payments, sick of grocery prices, sick of people........and I am sick of not getting enough sleep. I need to start giving Sophie Nytol or something.

PLUS, we are moving furniture out of my MIL's house and my DH is so hateful I want to kill him......MIL died last June and since he(or me) was not named executor, he has avoided "dealing". Now we have to move the furniture to temporary storage(not fun when we are getting along) and he is dealing with his mom's death by being hateful.....well, I guess that isnt HOW he is dealing with it, but it is coming across that way.

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**suprtruckr** · 05-01-2008, 08:19 PM

hugs, hide the iron skillet

**Char** · 05-01-2008, 08:41 PM

Originally Posted by suprtruckr

hugs, hide the iron skillet

It certainly is a stressful time we live in... I can't believe the difference just 10 years have made.

Just try and hang in there... I know it's hard.

**Shann** · 05-01-2008, 08:49 PM

I know how you feel

**gmyers** · 05-01-2008, 09:17 PM

I know how you feel too. I hope it gets less stressful for you.

**BeanieLuvR** · 05-02-2008, 05:19 AM

(((cpbaby))) I hope things get better for you soon.

**dv8grl** · 05-02-2008, 05:23 AM

ARRGHHHhhhh!!!! Just let it out girl!

It'll get better soon!!!

**Unicornmom77** · 05-02-2008, 06:02 AM

I am sorry you are having a low time, I hope and pray things look up soon! HUGS!

**Lild** · 05-02-2008, 06:12 AM

I hope you start feeling better, I can totally relate right now..

**mosdata1** · 05-02-2008, 08:18 AM

Just curious, who is the executor of the estate? Shouldn't they make arrangements for her belongings? If you are having a hard time financailly, bill the estate. The Executor should pay you for your labor. DH was the executor of his father's estate, and any work we needed to get done that we could not be there to take care of ourselves initally (his dad was in NYC, we were in FL & trying not to have to pay an extra month's rent), like moving his furniture out of the apt (we had 2 days to get this done), we hired some friends to pack it all up & move it to a storage facility for 1 month. We paid them each about $12/hour & took it out of his father's estate.

**cpbaby** · 05-02-2008, 09:49 AM

Originally Posted by mosdata1

Just curious, who is the executor of the estate? Shouldn't they make arrangements for her belongings? If you are having a hard time financailly, bill the estate. The Executor should pay you for your labor. DH was the executor of his father's estate, and any work we needed to get done that we could not be there to take care of ourselves initally (his dad was in NYC, we were in FL & trying not to have to pay an extra month's rent), like moving his furniture out of the apt (we had 2 days to get this done), we hired some friends to pack it all up & move it to a storage facility for 1 month. We paid them each about $12/hour & took it out of his father's estate.

Oh, no, these are the things he inherited. I dont feel that the estate should have to pay for us moving things he inherited. Especially since it was our choice to put them in storage for the time being.

Its just the fact that he was able to ignore it so he could stay in denial for right at 10 months but now he has to deal with his momma being dead. We are from KY and men and their mommas have this weird bond....especially when the men are only children.

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