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Originally Posted by
cpbaby
Just not a good week at all....and am feeling very highly anti-social. I am sick of my job, sick of my low pay, sick of gas prices, sick of house payments, sick of grocery prices, sick of people........and I am sick of not getting enough sleep. I need to start giving Sophie Nytol or something.
PLUS, we are moving furniture out of my MIL's house and my DH is so hateful I want to kill him......MIL died last June and since he(or me) was not named executor, he has avoided "dealing". Now we have to move the furniture to temporary storage(not fun when we are getting along) and he is dealing with his mom's death by being hateful.....well, I guess that isn't HOW he is dealing with it, but it is coming across that way.
You need to deal with wath id doing on in YOUR LIfE YOUR kids need no DRUGS to deal with things, you need to talk to them and see what happens! I don't reacall my parentd, but at my age I have asked them if they argued and they said yes, but they did it a wildly as possible, Please don't have confront actions in ear shot of them or they will repeat them with their outside confilicts
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05-08-2008 09:33 PM
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Originally Posted by
zeno
You need to deal with wath id doing on in YOUR LIfE YOUR kids need no DRUGS to deal with things, you need to talk to them and see what happens! I don't reacall my parentd, but at my age I have asked them if they argued and they said yes, but they did it a wildly as possible, Please don't have confront actions in ear shot of them or they will repeat them with their outside confilicts
What? The Nytol remark was toungue in cheek......I do believe almost anyone with a kid that doesnt sleep has thought something along the same lines......sort of like when I have a bad day at work and I threaten to stop at the liquor store that in two doors down from my work..and I dont drink!
As for fighting with my DH, WHAT? #1. The only time he is this hateful is when we are dealing with his mom's stuff and the kids are with MY mom then and #2. Is it REALLY better for the kids to grow up thinking that we never fight or have conflict? How will that teach them to deal with differences with their spouses when they grow up? At the first sign of discord in their marriage, they will think that they are not supposed to fight and throw in the towel.
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Originally Posted by
zeno
You need to deal with wath id doing on in YOUR LIfE YOUR kids need no DRUGS to deal with things, you need to talk to them and see what happens! I don't reacall my parentd, but at my age I have asked them if they argued and they said yes, but they did it a wildly as possible, Please don't have confront actions in ear shot of them or they will repeat them with their outside confilicts
I'm having a hard time even understanding this post.
"I have asked them if they argued and they said yes, but they did it a wildly as possible, Please don't have confront actions in ear shot of them or they will repeat them with their outside confilicts"
What?
I hope you have a better day today cpbaby! (I've made lots of comments to myself regarding my kids and various "ways" to make them behave, lol. Never meant any of them or ever followed through. Geeze, people can say things in a joking, stress relieving manner.)
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Originally Posted by
zeno
You need to deal with wath id doing on in YOUR LIfE YOUR kids need no DRUGS to deal with things, you need to talk to them and see what happens! I don't reacall my parentd, but at my age I have asked them if they argued and they said yes, but they did it a wildly as possible, Please don't have confront actions in ear shot of them or they will repeat them with their outside confilicts
I am sure you made her day with your uplifting comments.
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cpbaby I sure things well get better after the moving of your dh moms things are done I understand the nyquall remark I used to threaten my kids I was gonna sew there lips shut if they werent quiet . I hope thing get better for you and your familey
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If DH and/or you weren't named executor of MIL's estate, why are DH and/or you responsible for moving her belongings to temporary storage? Does he have sibling(s) that were named executor? This makes no sense to me and it seems that DH has some "anger issues" with his deceased mother. Anger doesn't solve anything, trust me on that.
IN MEMORY OF "CINNAMON" 10-31-90 / 11-11-07,
"KITTY" 07-95 / 12-19-08 AND "MAX" 5-98 / 4-26-11
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Originally Posted by
cpbaby
Oh, no, these are the things he inherited. I dont feel that the estate should have to pay for us moving things he inherited. Especially since it was our choice to put them in storage for the time being.
Her DH inherited these things, that's why they have been moving them.
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Hey cpbaby,
Are things any better for you?Hoping things are looking up!
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MIL died last June (going on 1 year now) and DH inherited some of her furniture, you have bills and anger coming out your ears, DH doesn't want to deal with it, okay. Why don't you donate the furniture to Goodwill or the Salvation Army? You can get a tax write-off, help someone in need and save the cost of a storage facility. Anger seems to be the big issue here and counseling can help. You CAN find free places for this. If not for your marriage or children, do it for YOU. Believe me, it can save your life!
IN MEMORY OF "CINNAMON" 10-31-90 / 11-11-07,
"KITTY" 07-95 / 12-19-08 AND "MAX" 5-98 / 4-26-11
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[QUOTE=MERE CHAT;95893066]MIL died last June (going on 1 year now) and DH inherited some of her furniture, you have bills and anger coming out your ears, DH doesn't want to deal with it, okay. Why don't you donate the furniture to Goodwill or the Salvation Army? You can get a tax write-off, help someone in need and save the cost of a storage facility. Anger seems to be the big issue here and counseling can help. You CAN find free places for this. If not for your marriage or children, do it for YOU. Believe me, it can save your life!
No offense but it sounds like she was just venting(as we all need to do from time to time)Doesn't mean her life is in danger.lol
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Originally Posted by
MERE CHAT
MIL died last June (going on 1 year now) and DH inherited some of her furniture, you have bills and anger coming out your ears, DH doesn't want to deal with it, okay. Why don't you donate the furniture to Goodwill or the Salvation Army? You can get a tax write-off, help someone in need and save the cost of a storage facility. Anger seems to be the big issue here and counseling can help. You CAN find free places for this. If not for your marriage or children, do it for YOU. Believe me, it can save your life!
WTF? How did him being grumpy about moving his mom's furniture turn into my life being in danger? #1, there is no way in HE|| I would donate any of this furniture yet because A. His great uncle made some of it. B. His grandaughter and my oldest son are both getting married in the near future(NOT to each other) and can use some of the rest to set up their respective houses and C. part of it is an antique bedroom suite that was left to me for our 4 yr old. #2, There is no way in HE|| he would EVER touch me in anger...ever...if for no other reasons than A. he knows my 19 yr old DS would hunt him down and make him regret it...BADLY and B. He KNOWS if he ever went to sleep around me after touching me in anger, his odds of waking up are nada.
He is NOT the executor(and neither am I) and we are THRILLED. The executor was the perfect choice for taking care of the financial decisions since my MIL was not great with her finanaces....she was really in a mess, bless her heart. We have bills, of course, but nothing that isnt OURS every month. We are going to do some home repairs with part of his inheritance and the rest will go in the bank. Not a big deal at all.
We got it all moved last week and he was in a MUCH better frame of mind. It was the first initial round of dealing with everything that made him so grumpy.
I am still anti-social, but I think that is just how I am hardwired. Either that or I need to start taking my Zoloft again.......
Last edited by cpbaby; 05-25-2008 at 11:48 PM.
Reason: Either the keyboard has a short, or my brain does.....
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