I'll pass on being educated by the likes of you, but thanx anyways.....
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I'll pass on being educated by the likes of you, but thanx anyways.....
You appear to be trying to justify yourself. I NEVER NEVER said this was acceptable and I teach my boys that there is NO SEX before marriage. My 14 year old son had a 16 year old girlfriend that he broke it off with because SHE had been lying to him about her prior experiences. I do not condone sexual immorality in ANYONE.
You have obviously CHOSEN to intentionally misinterpret my words I said that the girl who gives it up is a SLUT just as the guy who takes it is a WHOREDOG or male slut. I never implied at all that It was more or less either sides fault. THEY are BOTH to blame. If daughters were properly taught about men and relationships and respecting themeselves they wouldnt give it up so freely even if a guy said all they wanted to hear (LIED).
My wife is GORGEOUS and was by far the hottest girl in my high school. EVERYONE wanted her, sometimes guys AND girls. She had guys with their own houses and cars after her when she was 15. She NEVER believed whatthese guys had to say. SHe was a virgin when she and I got together. I will be honest we did have relations before marriage.
But we were both VERY careful and VERY smart about it. We didnt do it til we were in a relationship. This wasnt a second date wow you get me hot thing. We really thought it out and KNEW that there was something special between us. According to my religion we were wrong, but neither of us was religious at the time. So maybe this is what had to happen for us to get together? We had PLENTY of opportunities to maek hook ups, but we never took them seriously.
Today people champion mediocrity. I think you should never settle. You should look for someone that is your ideal and that you have such chemistry with that you literally can barely breathe without them. We have been together ALMOST 17 years and known each other for 21.
Today people are just looking for hook ups and a good time and then they wonder why they cant find someone who will love them.
I'm not misinterpreting, you just fail to see how one sided your comments are.....
Sounds like men get the gold card for their behavior!Quote:
If daughters were properly taught about men.......
It is we (females) who are at fault because we can be bamboozled by men, *wink* you know how they are *wink*. It is 'sluts/whores' and they are 'whoredogs' (BTW never heard that term) and the major degrading, again, goes upon the female.....'whoredog'.
You seem to mouth the word 'unacceptable' and say you teach your children differently however, I still hear in your comments an 'acceptance' of the 'stereo-typical' male mentality....and the major 'fault' remains on the female....after all, don't they know not to trust what comes out of a male mouth! :yikes
give'em an attaboy!
BTW I do not have to justify myself for anything I have or have not done or anything that I am ashamed of. FYI, I have a clear heart and a clear conscience. I also have sons and daughters....
I also do not see what your seeing, he said both parties were responsible. I dont see him accepting anything...He called MEN WHOREDOGS, not woman...
maybe I missed something, but I did not interpret his comments as you did.
looks like lots of people in this thread have a problem with this being a man that started this thread..this is just my opinion though.
MOst of this is not worth a response as you have CHOSEN to misrepresent or misinterpret what I have said. BUT... IF I refuse to accept that the sky is blue, does it change the FACT that the sky is blue? Men MOSTLY are this way wheteher We accept it or not. MY sons and MY own conducts are the only ones that I can influence and Control and believe me I do.
and you say that a "baby" or "fetus" is not part of your body...... last I checked it was part of the female body.
We have to feed and carry it, it is a part of us for the 10 months that it is carried.
and if the baby puts its mothers life in danger, thus sucking the life from the mother and then either killing her or almost killing her??
Maybe you would understand if you were stuck in the hospital fighting for you life and your childs life and then finding out that the child you are carrying is killing you....... maybe we should ask my cousin this since it happened to her...... oh wait, no we can't because she died, because her pig headed husband didn't want have an abortion so that she could live. Both she and the baby died.
While she started bleeding really bad, she was around 5 months along she went in the hospital fighting for her life, the doctors told her that the baby was killing her so she told the doctors to abort the "baby" when her husband heard this, he left and went to a lawyer to stop the baby from being aborted. The judge granted "His wish" and she and that baby died.
That is all I have to say......
I really need to stay out of this thread.
I have a scientific question for ya....according to you, you dont believe in science so how would you explain this...
100,000 year old human DNA found in tooth
Scientists have recovered DNA from a Neanderthal that lived 100,000 years ago, the oldest human-type DNA so far! The scientists decoded the sequence of 123 DNA “letters” (base-pairs, or bp) and compared it with other known Neanderthal DNA sequences from specimens dated between 29,000 and 42,000 years old.
“The Scladina sequence has revealed that the genetic diversity of Neanderthals has been underestimated,” a team led by Dr Catherine Hanni of Ecole Normale Superieur in Lyon, France, wrote in the journal Current Biology. “Thus, more Neanderthal sequences than the six presently available and longer than 100 bp are needed to fully understand the extent of the past diversity of Neanderthals.”
The findings suggest that genetic diversity was greater in earlier Neanderthal history than in later times, when humans started to arrive in Europe.
Such changes are thought to reflect fluctuations in the population, caused by disease or environmental change, as well as random genetic mutations over time.
“Diversity tells us about how old a population is and its demographic history,” said Dr Robert Foley, an expert in human evolution at the University of Cambridge, UK.
Neanderthals lived between 230,000 and 28,000 years ago in Europe, Central Asia and the Middle East (Neanderthals died out about 29,000 years ago).
They were skilled hunters and well adapted to living during the ice ages; but they started to die out after modern humans (Cro-Magnons) appeared on the scene in Europe.
The reason for their sudden demise is unknown, but various theories have been proposed, including biological, environmental and cultural factors.
The DNA studies conducted so far suggest little, if any, interbreeding between Neanderthals and modern humans took place.
Now according to everyone I have EVER come across who reads the bible, nobody (humans) existed prior to Adam and Eve...so how would this come to be??