Thread: mad at hubby about my weight
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06-20-2007, 12:57 PM #56Registered User
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I'll just be blunt,who does he think he is,he sounds like he has
Low Self Esteem,if your happy with yourself,who gives a s..t
what anyone thinks,so sorry you have to hear that from him,
what does he look like.If mine would ever make a comment like
that,I would go off on him,I was a size 10 before and after my first
son,my second son,I was then a 12\14,I'm overweight now,but
I'm happy the way I am,and that is what matters.
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06-20-2007 12:57 PM # ADS
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06-20-2007, 02:13 PM #57Registered User
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I'd tell him to eff off, but I'm bitchy like that. I'm sorry he's making you feel so badly. Remind him that what he's doing is abusive, and tell him, calmly, that you're through taking it from him.
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06-20-2007, 06:58 PM #58Registered User
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Well, I'm 5' 2" and weigh 140. I am grateful for it, because when I went through chemotherapy last year I lost too much weight (if you can believe that). I made up for it though when I started eating and haven't stopped LOL
Seriously though, I don't think your weight is bad at all. I am sorry he makes you feel that way. I think that most of the time, people put other people down because it makes them feel good.In memory of my friend Becky B. who died from breast cancer. I can still hear her say "early detection, early detection, early detection"..........
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06-21-2007, 06:12 AM #59BigBig Steeler Fan
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omg, don't even know how to respond to this/him. So Sorry!
One thing, you could tell him you could easily lose (insert his weight here)lbs if you kicked his arse to the curb!
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06-24-2007, 05:06 AM #60Registered User
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If my hubby even thought something like that, he'd better have his divorce lawyer on speed dial.
Yes, I would divorce him over that - it shows his level of respect and love. Nil.
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06-24-2007, 07:17 AM #61LADYB
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i know what it feels like for your weight to go up and down..i have had that problem since having my 3rd child..mine is up right now and i cant seem to lose it..its horrible dealing with weight.it makes everyday life harder and people dont treat you the same when you are overweight, i only need to lose 35 lbs to be my normal weight but its very hard to do. im sure your hubby has flaws himself lol so maybe when hes sayin you are fat.....bring his flaws into the spotlight... that will help.
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06-24-2007, 09:15 AM #62YankeeMarys sister
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If you will give me your address I will gladly help you find and make the cheapest funeral arrangements
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06-24-2007, 10:52 AM #63Puff the Magic Dragon
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Aren't you brilliant!!!
Originally Posted by WVCindy
If you will give me your address I will gladly help you find and make the cheapest funeral arrangements
The more you complain, the longer God makes you live.
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06-24-2007, 11:17 AM #64Member of the MOB
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Originally Posted by suprtruckr
when he starts this chit look him square in the eye smile a big pretty smile wink and say "you have to sleep sometime"
he may not take it as a threat but it will give him something to think about
AMEN, Brother James, AMEN!
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06-24-2007, 02:44 PM #65braindead
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LOL i thought you'd like that Originally Posted by cpbaby
AMEN, Brother James, AMEN!
CONFUSED AS A BABY IN A TOPLESS BAR
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