Thread: Can I trade him in for a new model?(long vent)

Grr! Sometimes I really dislike my DH to the point that I just wish he would go away(is that bad?) . This morning he gets all ticked off at me because he had gotten a speeding ticket while we still lived in MN and all he had to do was pay the ticket due Aug.11th. Well tomorrow is the 11th and he asked me if I mailed it for him, ummm no, it's your ticket, your a big boy.

So he gets all bent out of shape over it and starts getting on my case about why didn't I do it. I told him that he has had since June to take care of it. He could have paid it before we left MN as we lived up the street from the courthouse. He told me that he has no time to do that as he has to work and I dont.

It'll probably take about 4 days for it to get there now. The post office is open on saturdays and there are lots of mailboxes ect. around he could have taken care of it, but didn't. And it is not like he works 24/7, he is able to find the time to go fishing and do whatever else he wants to do.

I am stuck at home with the 3 kids and no vehicle right now because we sold his truck before we moved and he has been using my van to go to work. He thinks that I should pack up the kids and walk 2 miles or so to go get the money order and then walk to the post office wherever the heck that is.

He complains what do you do all day besides sit on your computer? I work all day and you do nothing. YEAH RIGHT!!!!! He should try taking care of a 5yr old, 2 and 1 yr old all day and night and then tell me that I do nothing.
He complained that the house isn't spotless when he comes home so therefore I must not be doing anything all day.

HELLO!! We have 3 small children and I vacumn 2x aday (at least), mop the floor at least 1x, I wash and fold laundry all day, I cook , and wash the dishes by hand at least 3x a day. I am not going to run around after them every minute they are awake picking up everything they may lay on the floor it is pointless I tell him. Like shoveling snow while it is snowing as soon as you pick it up there is more there in the same place. I start cleaning at 8 am and I dont usually stop until 3pm, should I spend my every waking minute cleaning?

He doesn't do a darn thing around home~ I take out the garbage to the street on pick up day, I work in the yard, he won't even mow the grass. His reason is that he has to work to support us and on his days off he wants to relax. Fine, I understand that you work and I appreciate that you work so hard so I can stay home with the kids but you can still help out. Other men do things around the house on their days off why can't you? When do I get some time off?

I love him to death but I cant stand the fact that he thinks that because he goes to work that he shouldn't have to do anything else. I do absolutely everything for this man with the exception of him going to work and wiping his behind What does he do for me besides go to work? NOTHING!!!!