just wondering... who has your kids.. you said that you can't have custody of them for 3 months.. so who has them..
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just wondering... who has your kids.. you said that you can't have custody of them for 3 months.. so who has them..
Well my weekend went ok in regards to no contact with my husband.
My mother on the other hand is driving me insane. She has NO idea what i'm going through. I got a nasty e-mail from her and then a phone call. That wasn't what I needed. She just doesn't understand my emotional state of mind. She just needs to stick her head in where it doesn't belong.
The children were with MY family, but they will be going to live with their father for a while. I don't believe he will will hurt them. I realize anything is possible though. I'd rather trust him with the children then strangers.
I made the decision over the weekend that I'm going to find a part-time job to keep me a little busy. I realize I'm not suppose to do that, but I know I will get crazier in a different way sitting here all alone. Besides, the cash flow would be nice. I have to learn not to depend on anyone for anything.
One step and one thing at a time.
[QUOTE]Originally posted by VQ
The children were with MY family, but they will be going to live with their father for a while. I don't believe he will will hurt them. I realize anything is possible though. I'd rather trust him with the children then strangers.
[/QUOTEI'm sorry.. I know you have alot on you.. but I think the last place the kids need to be is with your hubby... he is terrorizing you.. is that what you want your kids to learn?.. Rather he would actually hit them or not.. he will teach them that it is ok to control another person with fear.. and if he is like this with you.. then the chances are he is like this with them.. you really may want to rethink leaving them with him... jmho