What I really want to do but they would arrest me!

**mesue** · 06-05-2003, 01:00 AM

I recently switched from a male gynocologist to a female gynocologist and had surgery related to gyn problems and now I am reflecting on the last 10 years of care with this male gyn who everytime I told him my problems would just pat me on the tummy and smile and say that just comes along with getting older and being a girl, see ya in 6 months. Now I want to march into his office and kick him well you know where and say that just comes along with being a boy and a really bad doctor.

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**kelblend** · 06-05-2003, 01:04 AM

No kidding. My mil ended up have surgery on her breast after finally switching to a female gynocologist. The male gyno before just said what was happening with her was no big deal and we'll just watch it. Big dumb#$$!! She didn't switch for about a year due to ins. probs and then ended up having to have part of her breast removed. Perhaps if HE had been a little more of a doctor he would have really checked it out. I don't understand when something is still a problem after let's say 6 weeks, why some doctors don't start testing to find out!!
Sorry to vent in here. (((mesue)))

**mesue** · 06-05-2003, 01:13 AM

That makes me so mad I hope she sued his butt so he thought twice about making someone else wait and watch. I bet that lousy b@$**d would have demanded treatment instead of waiting had it been one of his body parts possibly having a problem.

**Kyla Kym** · 06-05-2003, 04:26 AM

It's scary to get sick anymore, between the HMO's & Doctor's being afriad of law suits they won't take care of you right anymore. And when they do they want your life savings for the co-pay part.

**kelblend** · 06-05-2003, 04:28 AM

Originally posted by mesue
That makes me so mad I hope she sued his butt so he thought twice about making someone else wait and watch. I bet that lousy b@$**d would have demanded treatment instead of waiting had it been one of his body parts possibly having a problem.

She didn't, but I wish she had. That is a case where I believe negligence was huge factor and do think she should have sued. It wouldn't have gotten anything back for her, but possible reprimand for so called Doc.

**mlathroum** · 06-05-2003, 04:46 AM

I had a male gyn for about 6 years. After my 2nd miscarriage he told me it was just part of being a female. I insisted on seeing specialist. His secretary had to make a copy of my complete records and Hubby had to drop them off a week before my appointment. He stopped at work on his way there and made another copy. After seeing the specialist who was as much an @ss as my GYN. I changed to a femal GYN. Lover her to death.

**rain_cries** · 06-05-2003, 05:37 AM

I had bleeding in between my cycles and when I called my dr he said wait and see. After six months and three changes of BC pills and I was still having problems getting steadily worse - now had pain, I called to make an appt and the NURSE said, I can't understand why you are making an appt for unexplained bleeding. I said to her, I bet if I were a man with unexplained bleeding from my privates, you can bet I would have been seen months ago.

**~MK~** · 06-05-2003, 06:08 AM

I'm in the minority, I'll keep my male ob/gyn. I JUST LOOOOOOOOOOVE DR. HOTTIE.

~*DROOL*~ Especially when he wears his frog bandana.

**twinkiesmom** · 06-05-2003, 06:25 AM

My 'perv' doc is really down to earth too. He's an older guy, but he's very funny.

**~MK~** · 06-05-2003, 06:26 AM

Mine is 37

**mlathroum** · 06-05-2003, 06:51 AM

MK if I had a HOttie I think I might just stay. Mine was in his 60's and an @ss.
My new one is a little Indian lady. Really tiny hands.
When I had my youngest. Hubby was holding my hand while she sewed me up. SHe looked at him and said "I make her a virgin". He loves her.
I just went to her and told her about my depression and she let me cry for half an hour on her shoulder.

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