would it bother you if your SO started posting here?

I agree, I think we should have a place to 'hide out' where we can feel safe, free and not be afraid of putting our two cents in. I have family on, but they don't know who I am. I want it that way.

Her husband doesn't mind if she reads the board he's on. He just doesn't want her posting. I doubt if he has something going with a woman (or even a man) on the board he visits.

It wasn't clear as to why he doesn't want her posting, because he kept saying "nevermind"

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Originally posted by Iluvbears
Her husband doesn't mind if she reads the board he's on. He just doesn't want her posting. I doubt if he has something going with a woman (or even a man) on the board he visits.

It wasn't clear as to why he doesn't want her posting, because he kept saying "nevermind"

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Exactly, that was the weird thing. We did talk, and he never gave me a reason, other than it just makes him uncomfortable. He said he knows it doesn't make sense, that he doesnt care if I go & read everything, and I'm friends with most of the same people from there that he is & talk to them on IM or email or whatever, so I figured, why don't I just actually jion the forums. So, he said he was being stupid, and to nevermind what he said. I was just really hurt by the way he said it.

And he does flirt a lot, so do I, its just the way we are. It doesn't necessarily mean anything.

THanks everyone for your thoughts. Sorry I got b1tchy, I was just in a really bad place at the time.

((((HUGS))))

Everyone needs a place to vent, whine, complain, neener or just know someone's there. Sorry, I side w/your husband.

Aggie belongs to several military message boards. We've been there and done that and I don't want to go back. He can post to his hearts content. I'm secure in knowing where he is, what he does, where he goes, how he does it.

As for here. Aggie could care a less. Aggie really isn't much of a talker so if I have something I need to get off my chest and Aggie's not in the "mood" I come here.

Now, if it were a secret thing that you didn't know about that's another thing. He's telling/letting you know what he's doing. That to me says a lot. At least he's being honest w/his feelings and what he wants to be private.

Besides, there are things we will say on here that we wouldn't dare say to a friend, coworker, family member. Here we can and no one is the wiser.

I hope it works out for you...............Don't be upset. Everyone needs space. :)

all I know is that I appreciate the fact that I can come here and tell about my problems. We don't have a home computer, so he doesn't have access unless he goes to his parents. Sometimes, I wish he would so that he could find a place to vent/whine and then I wouldn't have to listen to some of his mess.

Luckily my hubby is COMPLETELY puter illiterate.;) the most he does online or offline for that matter, is ebay and yahoo pool. and that don't happen very often;) he has no desire to get on here. ;) ;) ;) ;) :D :D :D :cool: