Im crying hysterically

**MamaFairal** · 02-28-2005, 07:14 AM

I am beside myself crying with grief today.
Something is wrong with my cat(Sam'e) and he has to go in the hospial and have surgery..........i will take him after i type this all.
I am so upset.

He appearantly srcatched his ear(lobe) and has a hematoma(sp?) the Drs says. It requires surgery or else it fills up , burst and his ear shrivals up and deforms his ear.

I know he is uncomfortable because he is hiding and wont lay with me like he does............so in debt i go...but hes like one of my kids.

At first the vets said they wouldnt work with me on a bill and i called back crying hysterically asking them questions like, "is he in pain?" "will this kill him?".....they finally let me speak to the vet himself who said to bring him in and he'll look at him for me....i told him i am disabled, low income and this cat just adopted us a yr ago and i cant let this happen to him....he's like a kid to me(i couldnt catch my breath while talking to the vet and he knows what this cat means to me now i think)I told him i could give him $100 down towards all this and would make payments on the rest....He says it runs $250--$500 total
Now this means my truck registration which expires today will have to go unpaid and i will have to drive an unregistered vehicle till god knows when to save my cat but i love him to death and its not like i drive anywhere but therapy anyways

Please send good vibes and prayers for Sam'e while he is at the vets the next couple days and throw a couple extra i never get stopped

Thanks people

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**freebielover** · 02-28-2005, 07:17 AM

Oh my goodness, I can't imagine how that must feel. At least they are working out a payment plan, I hope everything goes OK. How much is your registration? Good luck, you are in my thoughts! ::Good vibes going your way::

**JewRican** · 02-28-2005, 07:26 AM

I am so sorry about your cat, those buggers purr until they get into your heart, huh?

Don't you have any money left from your Support Kids check to help cover this? You may want to look into pet insurance. I hope your baby feels better soon.

**MamaFairal** · 02-28-2005, 07:30 AM

registration is $92 and its up today and i have to get an inspection sticker again(have someone working on that)but my cat is more important

***buttrfli*** · 02-28-2005, 07:38 AM

Oh no

I am so sorry .. is this the grey kitty you posted in V/W??

I would do the same thing and pay for the surgery.. pets are like your children! I hope things work out for you!

**MamaFairal** · 02-28-2005, 07:38 AM

Originally Posted by JewRican

Don't you have any money left from your Support Kids check to help cover this?

OK Nana...give me strength here!

Ok people lets just say i got screwed outta my supportkids check....i ended up getting just a bit over $3000 outta all that money because NH seized it as back pay for all the yrs i was on TANF there.....dont go saying its not fair i had to pay this as it wasnt "me" paying it.This money came from "him" as child support and they seized it as him paying it back...all legal and done with now...Trust me i fought it for months and even had an attourney look into

sad but true!

So i am penniless and broke again and living bill to bill..stop laughing now ok
Nana has been the only one i confided this too and i thank her for listening when i needed it

**HumblePie98** · 02-28-2005, 07:48 AM

Originally Posted by MamaFairal

..stop laughing now ok

I really hope no one would even laugh at that. That's a shame you lost out on all that money- you deserved it.

I hope your kitty is okay. Have you checked into any free care?? Another good idea is to call cat rescues.Sometimes they can help you if you expalin the situation.

**dangerousfem** · 02-28-2005, 07:49 AM

I'm so sorry... I know you probably don't want to do this.. but maybe your BF could pay for your truck as an Easter present... instead of buying you something or goind to dinner... he sounds like a nice guy.. I bet he would.

**MamaFairal** · 02-28-2005, 07:51 AM

Originally Posted by buttrfli

Oh no

I am so sorry .. is this the grey kitty you posted in V/W??
I would do the same thing and pay for the surgery.. pets are like your children! I hope things work out for you!

Yes Sam'e is the one whos pic i posted and i will do whatever for him thats needed

**MamaFairal** · 02-28-2005, 07:52 AM

Originally Posted by dangerousfem

I'm so sorry... I know you probably don't want to do this.. but maybe your BF could pay for your truck as an Easter present... instead of buying you something or goind to dinner... he sounds like a nice guy.. I bet he would.

As much as Matthew is a nice guy...i wouldnt expect him to do this for me

**MamaFairal** · 02-28-2005, 07:52 AM

gotta get to the vets be back later ok

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