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04-20-2012, 06:37 AM #1Registered User
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Smh!
I got a call from my older brother the other day. He told me my EX called him crying. BooHoo.
His life sucks, he hates his job, his live-in g/f doesn't work, cook, clean or do laundry. All she does is sits on the couch watching TV, smoking & drinking beer. He lives on fast food & can't remember the last time he had a real cooked meal.
Now all of a sudden he misses me & wants to talk to me so he asked my brother for my phone number. Of course he told him no.
Why would I ever consider talking to an abusive drunk who I divorced 8 years ago???Insanity is hereditary. You get it from your kids.
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04-20-2012, 07:33 AM #2GRITS Rule!!!
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Good for your bro with not giving out your number... Glad you moved on---too bad the ex did not--But not your problem....
Let my haters be my motivators!
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04-20-2012, 07:55 AM #3...............
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Originally Posted by sunniekiss
Is he living in the 1950's?? Get off your a$$ buddy and cook your own food.
(Not the point of your conversation, I realize.
... I just had to say that though. I hate hearing men say things like that)
Good for you for moving on, and not wanting to go back!
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fftopic: What does "Smh" mean ?
Laissez les bon temps rouler!
Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than standing in a garage makes you a car.** a 4 day work week & sex slaves ~ I say Tyt for PRESIDENT! 
Not to be taken internally, literally or seriously ....Suki ebaynni IS THAT BETTER ?
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04-20-2012, 08:35 AM #5...............
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smh=shaking my head. Originally Posted by Jolie Rouge
OT -fftopic: What does "Smh" mean ?
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04-20-2012, 09:19 AM #6Registered User
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He must still be drunk to think you'd want to talk to him. I'm glad you are rid of him for good. I had to lol about what 3lilpigs said about him cooking his own food. I agree 100%.
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04-20-2012, 09:44 AM #7'Emma' to my grandkids
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He doesn't miss you...he misses having a maid. Good for you for moving on...and good for your brother for keeping your information private.
Never argue with an idiot. It will bring you down to his level and he’ll win because of experience.
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Thank you .... Originally Posted by 3lilpigs
Laissez les bon temps rouler! Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than standing in a garage makes you a car.** a 4 day work week & sex slaves ~ I say Tyt for PRESIDENT! Not to be taken internally, literally or seriously ....Suki ebaynni IS THAT BETTER ?
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Oh he moved on & on & on & onnnn. I can't count the number of girlfriends he has had. When we first separated he used to call me to ask how to start the dishwasher, the washing maching, the dryer. This guy can't figure out how to boil water. I ended up having to get an order of protection from him.
Let me add...he wanted a momma. I was that for 25 years. Momma may still live in that house but my name is Joy & not your mamma. We would have been married 32 years next month. It took him that long to realize how good he had it....Sorry I support myself, take care of myself & don't need him for anything. The only thing I would like him to do is man-up & become a father to our boys. He hasn't seen/spoken to either of them in 8 years. He is missing out on the best thing he ever did.Last edited by sunniekiss; 04-20-2012 at 10:52 AM.
Insanity is hereditary. You get it from your kids.
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04-20-2012, 11:38 AM #10Madie
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Geesh - that's some balls after 8 years! Glad you brother told him no!!!
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04-20-2012, 02:15 PM #11BIGBIG SMILEY HEAD!
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Sounds like he's crying in his booze, still! If he calls anyone else, i'd get another restrainig order,
as i'm sure the last one is expired. He just might find someone who will give in and give out your
number...you know how cunning and coniving active alcoholics can be. Take care my friend.
Smiles and peace of mind wishes for you!
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