any ladies here from the Fl,TX, CA coast??? - need help with a Hoax.

**MsLynn** · 03-03-2012, 08:59 AM

this is what i need and why...... need someone from where its warm now... later on i wanna do other parts of the country...PLEASE!!!!

I need a post card mailed to me in an envelope, i'll write on it and address it, and put postage on it, and mail it back to you in an envelope to mail so it has a post mark from there... It's to the married man i dated and was practically addicted to for almost 9 years... i moved. but told him i'm leaving the area when taxes and my back pay come in, just following warm weather and sleeping in my blazer, lol....he's been seen around my old house several times, and i'm hoping if i send him a few post cards from different places, then he'll believe what i said..he told me i'd never be able to let him go and he'd always be able to get me back. almost a year and a half ago, i finally met a wonderful man, who finally made me want to let go.... i'm so happy now and just need him to leave me alone..

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**pepperpot** · 03-03-2012, 09:18 AM

IMO bad idea. His receiving a post card only tells him that you are still thinking of him and will encourage him.

If you want him "gone", then get him out of your mind and ignore him. Do not let him think that he takes up any space in your thoughts.

**MsLynn** · 03-03-2012, 11:05 AM

i want him to think i'm in another state, so he will quit going bothering everyonefrom where i used to live...they tell him they don't know where i am.but he keeps coming back

**pepperpot** · 03-03-2012, 11:28 AM

Then whoever he is bothering needs to tell him to stop harassing them and threaten to call the police for harassment, etc..

Eventually he will tire; a "word" from you and he's encouraged.

"Silence" from you is the best discouragement, if that's what you want.

**Jolie Rouge** · 03-03-2012, 03:56 PM

Originally Posted by pepperpot

Then whoever he is bothering needs to tell him to stop harassing them and threaten to call the police for harassment, etc..

Eventually he will tire; a "word" from you and he's encouraged.

"Silence" from you is the best discouragement, if that's what you want.

DITTO. Have dealt with some stalker types before ... even "nagative attention" from you is ATTENTION and will only encourage him.

**wobblypops** · 03-03-2012, 05:08 PM

Call his wife. That may stop his drive bys & asking your old neighbors about your whereabouts.

**MsLynn** · 03-03-2012, 07:43 PM

I know this man, and i know what will work and what won't.. and trust me his wife has known about me for years.. but its fine if no one wants to help me....thought this would be the one place i could count on help from. but oh well..

**Jolie Rouge** · 03-03-2012, 07:48 PM

We want to hep you .... I just don't think this is a help. How about a flood of postcards from assorted "honey's" from all over the country ... that might get him in dutch with the wifey ...

**gmyers** · 03-03-2012, 09:16 PM

I'd just tell him or I'd tell the people he's bothering to tell him you're with someone else now and ain't interested in hearing from him.

**MsLynn** · 03-04-2012, 07:00 AM

again his wife knows about me, and has for almost 9 years... and he would know they were from me so it wouldn't be assorted honeys..... i just want him to think i'm in another part of the country...and will tell him not to bother them, cause i'm not around.. he knows i'm done, and just wants to be able to prove that he can get me back, he doesn't like that he wasn't the one to dump

but thank you ladies for your imput...... i just how how his brain works...

**gmyers** · 03-04-2012, 07:47 AM

This guy sounds like a jerk. I would just ignore him unless he winds up finding you. Then I'd tell him to get lost you've found a good guy now and ain't interested in losers. I would put it just like that too so he gets the message loud and clear.

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