Thread: Am I crazy??
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12-06-2010, 07:43 PM #1Meet my Grandson
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Am I crazy??
Some of you might remember last year when my husband ran out on me, and like an idiot I ran after him. Well, he is gone again. This time I threw him out!
It felt sooooo good! I feel like a thousand pounds have been lifted. Made it even better that its 20 degrees outside and he had no money and no place to go.
He was a worthless piece of s*&%, that would not work. He made one house payment in the last 2 years.
He hated that I am going to college, trying to better myself and earn more money.
Finally I can have friends! Finally I can go out dancing! Finally I can think about me!
I am a beautiful, smart woman that is going places. And without the dead weight, I am sure I will soar!
Am I crazy to be so relieved? After all these years shouldn't I be upset? Please don't tell me that I am just in shock lol.Grandma
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12-06-2010, 08:02 PM #2Looking for the Freebies
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Good for you!! I'm sure you'll be much happier now! Good luck in college!
WE LIVE IN THE LAND OF THE FREE, ONLY BECAUSE OF THE BRAVE
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12-06-2010, 08:16 PM #3Big Big Jeep Girl!
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good for you knowing how much power you have with your OWN life!! no need to depend on a piece of dead weight in the relationship! i'm PROUD OF YOU!!!
and as you said, its your time to soar!!
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12-06-2010, 11:41 PM #4Registered User
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No, I say good for you!!
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12-07-2010, 05:03 AM #5Big Candle Freak
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Crazy?? Heck no!! Your like anyone else that was in a dead end relationship, happy to be free, to be yourself, to find out who you are without him. Feeling empowered instead of sulking is a great way to start, I wish you all the luck in the world with the next chapter in your life.
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12-07-2010, 05:47 AM #6BigBig Moderator
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If you're not upset and just relieved, you did the right thing for yourself. You may go through a small "guilt" moment, but let that roll off your back and bask in your life!
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12-07-2010, 06:38 AM #7go ahead....I dare ya
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Congrats! I think you'll be more than fine.....you'll be happy. Keep looking ahead and wear your sunglasses, you future is that bright.
Mrs Pepperpot is a lady who always copes with the tricky situations that she finds herself in....
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12-07-2010, 08:22 AM #8Registered User
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you go girl. enjoy!!!!
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12-07-2010, 08:38 AM #9Registered User
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You were ready this time and took control of your life back. I applaud you. Soar high my friend and then soar higher.
Me
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12-07-2010, 09:51 AM #10Registered User
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Of course you are not crazy for being happy. Let me give you one word of warning though, give yourself time to heal & find out who you are before you get back into dating someone. Enjoy your life, new found freedom & yourself.
DON'T TAKE HIM BACK THIS TIME! Call a lawyer & get separation papers drawn up ASAP. Remember any debt he racks up before you formally file for separation automatically become joint debt.Insanity is hereditary. You get it from your kids.
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12-07-2010, 11:43 AM #11I'm outta here...
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Why would you think you're crazy for kicking your husband out who has done nothing more than drag you down? I see it as an accomplishment. There comes a time in everyone's life where you just gotta do what you gotta do to better yourself, if it means getting rid of a huge burden (husband) than so be it. It's your life, you live it the way you want to....In the end all that matters is YOUR happiness.
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Don't worry about what people think. They don't do it very often.
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