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    What would you do?

    If you found out that your "minor" daughter was having sex with an adult male (18 or older) what would you do? What if she got pregnant? Would it be ok? Would you press charges? Is it ok with you that she is having sex at all?
    I am not saying that kids should be persecuted for having sex, it happens, but what I am asking is, she is a minor and he is an adult.. how you would handle it?
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    With a gun.

    I am still under the impression that neither of my kids will ever have sex..
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    I definitely don't think a man or woman 5, 10, or more years older should be dating a minor ever. But I don't think if two 16 or older teenagers, that are a year or two apart and have been seriously dating, accidentally get pregnant that someone should press statutory rape on one or the other. I believe theres a difference.

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    Depends on both the ages. If she is 17 and he is say 19, well no I would not file charges. But say she is 14 and he is 30, you bet your ass I would. need more info for a definitive answer.

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    Depends how minor and how adult.
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    Quote Originally Posted by magenta View Post
    Depends how minor and how adult.
    EXACTLY! My first "real" boyfriend was 22 & I was 16.
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    Quote Originally Posted by magenta View Post
    Depends how minor and how adult.
    he is 18 and she is 16
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    Truth? I would beat the he!! out of both of them. Real world? Try to be calm and sit them down and discuss consequences...1. pregnancy 2. Do you have an education and a job to pay for a baby and support the mother? 3. Are you mature enough to handle a baby 24/7? 4. Crotch rot!!!!! 5. Penis falls off because of sex with minors. 6. Cauliflower crack...ewww 7. If they are mature enough for sex then get a dang job so they can buy birth control so the state they live in doesn't have to support them. I hope this helps a little. Sorry if it's your child/grandchild. GOOD LUCK!
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    Quote Originally Posted by dv8grl View Post
    EXACTLY! My first "real" boyfriend was 22 & I was 16.
    Are you saying you think these ages are ok?
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    Quote Originally Posted by WVCindy View Post
    Truth? I would beat the he!! out of both of them. Real world? Try to be calm and sit them down and discuss consequences...1. pregnancy 2. Do you have an education and a job to pay for a baby and support the mother? 3. Are you mature enough to handle a baby 24/7? 4. Crotch rot!!!!! 5. Penis falls off because of sex with minors. 6. Cauliflower crack...ewww 7. If they are mature enough for sex then get a dang job so they can buy birth control so the state they live in doesn't have to support them. I hope this helps a little. Sorry if it's your child/grandchild. GOOD LUCK!
    This isn't about anyone in particular, I am just asking is all.
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    Well, my brother would have gone to jail instead of getting married and now having three grown children and 11 grandchildren after 44 years of marriage.

    The jails would be full if all these guys were put in jail. Let them marry and if it's love it will last.

    The talk needs to come before your girl starts dating.

    OH, the ages were 17 and 20.
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