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I think it's wonderful that you finally caught up, but you know in the mean time others have stepped in and took up your slack. Flowers sent me some things when ryansnana fell through and I'm sure she and others have done the same thing for you.
Maybe if you send these people some things for being so nice for you, it would go a long way to erase you being late. I know the organizers are having a hard time when they organize exchanges and people tell them, don't give me so and so, she's a no-show. Then what do they do?
If two no shows sign up they usually match them up so they can haggle with each other but if only one no-show signs up it makes it hard. No one wants that person, would you?
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06-10-2003 11:04 AM
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Originally posted by Elusive Butterfly
I di thank every one who has said something inmy be half.. and I agree with what some are saying here and disagree with others, but I will not let that bother me...
I fell behind on some exchanges, but I got them out and thats all that matters to me rite now.. and yes I have done more exchanges and got them out on time.
I made a mistake, and I know that for here on out there will be a be a few people who have formed an opinion on me, and that just how life goes... but I can honestly say that I never backed away, and I never hid from what I did, and all I can do is now move forward and and do what I have always done here.. and do the exchanges that I am allowed to do... no biggie....people are always gonna have a postive or negative opinion of you, its how you deal with it .
I know I will stay on the bad traders list, but its just a list after all.all my life, I have always been labled something.. fat, ugly, lazy, boring... but I made it through those names, and I to, will make it through this label.
Bfly~
Have a nice day
Exactly my point! 
You and C_T_I did the best you could do. Some people will agree with you (or me) and others won't. And that is my final reply in this matter....................for now.
A true southern gentleman. Hillary in 2012!!! The new Invisible Man
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Originally posted by dianainaz
well I don't consider C_I_T a bad trader but I do want to make a comment......
if you do business lets say with a business online
business number one is consistent and you recieve what you ordered every time within 3-7 days
business number two is not cosistant and sometimes you get what you ordered in 3-7 days and then sometimes in 2-3 weeks and once in a great while it takes over a month.
who would you prefer to deal with??Business #1 or Business #2??
and this is JMHO but I feel traders who are on the bad traders list should be kept on there BUT with a notation that they have caught up and are currently doing good trades and then maybe a 6-9 month period after current trading is great then be taken off.But just because you hurry and do some awesome trades in a month period to make up for all the others does not erase what had happened in the past...
I agree totally! I apologize to all of you who feel I was bashing. I really didn't mean to come off that way at all. I do believe people deserve a second chance. I commend Cowgirl for being so forthright and honest. I still stand by my quote about " a good trader is what a good trader does". That doesn't mean that a once labled "bad" trader can't make up for past mistakes. Although I have only personally seen ONE person on this board who was once very maliciously labled as a bad trader make a complete turn-around and work really hard at making her trades/exchanges/auction wins successful and has regained the trust of the trading community. I have been taken advantage of and ripped off a lot on here, but would never NOT deal with anyone who was sincerely trying to correct past mistakes, unless of course it was me who they initally made a *mistake* with. Like the saying goes" first time shame on you, second time...shame on me!"
Good luck Cowgirl...and bea, I respect that you are trying to make what was once labled bad...as good!
Be a dream in color...even on a winters night.
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The bottom line is this: There are MANY of us who have been screwed on trades and some for a lot of money. It makes it tough to trust ANYONE but when you have trading in the blood and you have to do it....you want to do it with the most TRUSTWORTHY you can. I no longer send money to a newbie. Sad yes but the fact is I am tired of losing money. I will never probably trade with someone who was on the bad trader list but I am sure there are many who will and thats fantastic...someones gotta take em! LOL
Be who you are and say what you feel, those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
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