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    Issues like gun control, abortion, capital punishment and elections often lead us to resort to snarl-words and purr-words. It is usually fruitless to argue such statements as "Reagan was the great Teflon - president," "She's anti-life," "Wagner's music is just a cacophony of hysterical screeching," "People who don't want to control the purchase of handguns are nuts." To take sides on such issues phrased in such judgmental ways is to reduce communication to a level of stubborn imbecility. But to ask questions relating to the statements (Why do you like ordislike President Reagan? Why are you for or against gun control?) is to learn something about the beliefs of others. After listening to their opinions and their reasons for them, we may leave the discussion slightly wiser, slightly better informed, and perhaps less one-sided than we were before the discussion began.

    Language in Thought and Action - S. I. Hayakawa

    More about snarl-words and purr-words
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    One cannot but wonder at this constantly recurring phrase "getting something for nothing," as if it were the peculiar and perverse ambition of disturbers of society. Excerpt for our animal outfit, practially all we have is handed to us gratis. Can the most complacent reactionary flatter himself that he invented the art of writing or the printing press, or discovered his religious, economic and moral convictions, or any of the devices which supply him with meat and raiment or any of the sources of pleasure as he may derive from literature of the fine arts? In short, civilation is little else than getting something
    ffor nothing.

    James Harvey Robinson

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    26 Secrets of Happiness: Quotable Quotes
    Find inspiration and joy from these leading thinkers.


    The Dalai Lama

    "If you want others to be happy, practice compassion.
    If you want to be happy, practice compassion."

    Brad Pitt, actor

    "I think happiness is overrated.
    Satisfied, at peace—those would be more realistic goals."

    John Barrowman, actor

    "I've always thought people would find a lot more pleasure in their routines
    if they burst into song at significant moments."

    Drew Barrymore, actress

    "I think happiness is what makes you pretty.
    Period. Happy people are beautiful.
    They become like a mirror and they reflect that happiness."

    Joan Rivers, comedian

    "People say that money isn't the key to happiness,
    but I always figured if you have enough money,
    you can have a key made."

    Gretchen Rubin, author

    "I think self-knowledge is a key to happiness.
    We can build happy lives only on the foundation
    of our own natures, our own values, and our own interests."

    J. K. Rowling, novelist

    "Personal happiness lies in knowing that life
    is not a checklist of acquisition or achievement.

    Your qualifications are not your life."

    Stephen Fry, actor and writer

    "Stop feeling sorry for yourself
    and you will be happy."

    Richard Bach, author

    "If your happiness depends on what somebody else does,
    I guess you do have a problem."


    Marianne Williamson, spiritual teacher

    "Children are happy
    because they don't have a file in their minds
    called 'all the things that could go wrong.'"
    Rita Mae Brown, feminist author

    "One of the keys to happiness is a bad memory."


    Paul Simon, musician

    "I've got nothing to do today but smile."


    The Dalai Lama

    "I find hope in the darkest of days,
    and focus in the brightest.
    I do not judge the universe."

    Sarah McLachlan, musician

    "Happiness is like a cloud — if you stare at it long enough, it evaporates."

    Harrison Ford, actor

    "Being happy is something you have to learn.
    I often surprise myself by saying,
    'Wow, this is it. I guess I'm happy. I got a home I love.
    A career that I love. I'm even feeling more and more at peace with myself.'

    If there's something else to happiness, let me know.
    I'm ambitious for that, too."

    Keira Knightley, actress

    "Be happy in your body.
    It's the only one you've got,
    so you might as well like it."

    Steven Kloves, screenwriter

    "Happiness can be found,
    even in the darkest of times,
    if one only remembers to turn on the light."


    Daniel Gilbert, social psychologist

    "The good news is that going blind is not going to make you as unhappy as you think it will.
    The bad news is that winning the lottery will not make you as happy as you expect."

    Leslie Caron, actress and dancer

    "In order to have great happiness,
    you have to have great pain and unhappiness
    — otherwise, how would you know when you're happy?"


    Audrey Niffenegger, writer

    "Don't you think it's better to be extremely happy for a short while,
    even if you lose it, than to be just okay for your whole life?"

    Ann Brashares, author

    "Maybe happiness didn't have to be about the big sweeping circumstances,
    about having everything in your life in place.
    Maybe it was about stringing together a bunch of small pleasures."


    Joanne Harris, author

    "Happiness.
    Simple as a glass of chocolate
    or tortuous as the heart.

    Bitter.
    Sweet.
    Alive."


    Jodi Picoult, author

    "A mathematical formula for happiness:
    reality divided by expectations.

    There were two ways to be happy:
    improve your reality
    or lower your expectations."

    Steve Maraboli, speaker and author

    "Happiness is not the absence of problems,
    it's the ability to deal with them."



    Lauren Oliver, author

    "You can't be really happy

    unless you're unhappy sometimes."


    [QUOTERussell Baker, hunmorist

    "A solved problem creates two new problems,
    and the best prescription for happy living
    is not to solve any more problems."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eddie View Post
    Citizens of a modern society need [...] more than that ordinary "common sense" which was defined by Stuart Chase as that which tells you that the world is flat.
    Stuart Chase in S. I. Hayakawa (1949) Language in Thought and Action. p.29-30
    They need to be systematically aware of the powers and limitations of symbols, especially words, if they are to guard against bring driven into complete bewilderment by the complexity of their semantic environment.

    The first of the principles governing symbols is this: The symbol is not the thing symbolized; the word is not the thing; the map is not the territory it stands for.
    Language in Thought and Action. S. I. Hayakawa (1949) p.18

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    A LITTLE COMMON SENSE FROM AN OLD COWBOY ...

    Your fences need to be horse-high, pig-tight and bull-strong.

    Keep skunks and bankers at a distance.


    Life is simpler when you plow around the stump.

    A bumble bee is considerably faster than a John Deere tractor.

    Words that soak into your ears are whispered… not yelled.

    Meanness don’t jes’ happen overnight.

    Forgive your enemies; it messes up their heads.

    Do not corner something that you know is meaner than you.

    It don’t take a very big person to carry a grudge.

    You cannot unsay a cruel word.

    Every path has a few puddles.

    When you wallow with pigs, expect to get dirty.

    The best sermons are lived, not preached.

    Most of the stuff people worry about ain’t never gonna happen anyway.

    Don’t judge folks by their relatives.

    Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

    Live a good, honorable life… Then when you get older and think back, you’ll enjoy it a second time.

    Don ‘t interfere with somethin’ that ain’t bothering you none.

    Timing has a lot to do with the outcome of a Rain dance.

    If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop diggin’.

    Sometimes you get, and sometimes you get got.

    The biggest troublemaker you’ll probably ever have to deal with, watches you from the mirror every mornin’.

    Always drink upstream from the herd.

    Good judgment comes from experience, and a lotta that comes from bad judgment.

    Lettin’ the cat outta the bag is a whole lot easier than puttin’ it back in.

    If you get to thinkin’ you’re a person of some influence, try orderin’ somebody else’s dog around..

    Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God.

    Don’t pick a fight with an old man. If he is too old to fight, he’ll just kill you.

    "Most times, it just gets down to common sense."

    ~ Michael Traveler
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    The Fence

    There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily, gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.


    Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.

    The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said “you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.” You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there. Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later.

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    10 compliments your husband needs to hear

    Pull out one of these 10 compliments and make your husband's day.



    The things we say have a big impact on our marriages. Men sometimes get the reputation for being the less communicative sex, but that doesn't mean they don't thrive on affirming words from their wives. Whether or not your husband is begging for verbal affection, here are ten compliments that your husband needs to hear.


    1. I'm so glad I married you

    Men need to feel secure in marriage, and the fastest way to let your man know he's still the one is to tell him outright. This is a great compliment because it can come completely out of the blue, without him having to do anything to earn it. Spontaneous compliments feel genuine and sincere.


    2. I love how you provide for our family

    Men hold themselves to a high standard when it comes to providing, and they need you to acknowledge their efforts. Let your husband know that he doesn't have to make millions to still make you happy.


    3. I'm so proud of you

    You'll get far in marriage being your husband's greatest cheerleader. In a world that continuously knocks him down, be the one to always lift him up.


    4. You're such a great daddy

    If you have kids, praise your husband for his involvement with the family. Modern society often tells dads that they come second to mom, so let him know he's a valuable asset to your family.


    5. You're so hot

    Your husband needs to know you love the way he looks, even after a few years and a few extra pounds. Many men send and receive love through touch and physical intimacy, so complimenting his body is one of the fastest ways to show him love in a way he understands.


    6. Thanks for fixing the broken dryer

    Whenever your husband plays Mr. Fix-It around the house, compliment his efforts. He needs to feel capable, especially when he's taking care of you.


    7. Thanks for the help around the house

    Helping out can be a little scary for the man of the house. Chances are that you have your own way of doing things and he may be afraid of messing up your system. Thank him sincerely when he helps out, regardless of whether he folds the sheets the "right" way.


    8. You can always make me laugh

    Let your man know that he lightens up your day and brings positive energy into your household. Even if your husband isn't the ha-ha funny type, you can still compliment his stellar smile.


    9. You're so strong

    The next time your husband lifts a heavy load of laundry, bat your eyelashes a little and compliment his Superman-like strength, even if you could have done the task yourself. Husbands need to know they're good for something, and they certainly need to know they're good for you.


    10. I love spending time with you

    We all get caught up in the business of everyday life, so let your spouse know that you still love to simply hangout with him. After all, you'll be his best friend and constant companion forever.

    Take a little time today to thank the man in your life for all he does. It doesn't take much to make your husband's day, boost his confidence and make him want to lift you up in return.

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    Nine important facts to remember as we grow older:

    Number 9 - Death is the number 1 killer in the world.

    Number 8 - Life is sexually transmitted.

    Number 7 - Good health is merely the slowest possible rate at which one can die.

    Number 6 - Men have two emotions: hungry and horny, and they can't tell them apart.
    If you see a gleam in his eyes, make him a sandwich.

    Number 5 - Give a person a fish and you feed them for a day.
    Teach a person to use the Internet and they won't bother you for weeks, months, maybe years.

    Number 4 - Health nuts are going to feel stupid someday, lying in the hospital, dying of nothing.

    Number 3 - All of us could take a lesson from the weather. It pays no attention to criticism.

    Number 2 - In the 60's, people took acid to make the world weird.
    Now the world is weird, and people take Prozac to make it normal.

    Number 1 - Life is like a jar of jalapeno peppers. What you do today might burn your butt tomorrow.

    ...and as someone recently said to me don't worry about old age; it doesn't last that long
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    "I'll kill a man in a fair fight. Or if I think he's gonna start a fair fight. Or if he bothers me. Or if there's a woman. Or if I'm gettin' paid. Mostly when I'm gettin' paid."

    SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY
    Let's*go*be*bad*guys
    you*can't*take*the*sky*from*me you*can't*take*the*sky*from*me

    you*can't*take*the*sky*from*me you*can't*take*the*sky*from*me you*can't*take*the*sky*from*me you*can't*take*the*sky*from*me
    I*aim*to*misbehave
    Big*Damn*Heros Big*Damn*Heros Big*Damn*Heros Big*Damn*Heros Big*Damn*Heros Getting*awful**crowded*in*my*sky
    too*damn*pretty*to*die
    "Ah,*curse*your*sudden*but*inevitable*betrayal *!"
    "If*anyone*gets*nosy,*just...you*know...shoot*'em. *Politely" "I*brought*you*some*supper*but*if*you'd*prefer*a*l ecture,*I've*a*few*very*catchy*ones*prepped...sin* and*hellfire...*one*has*lepers."
    "Time*for*some*thrilling*heroics."
    "Do*you*know*what*the*chain*of*command*is*here?It' s*the*chain*I*go*get*and*beat*you*with*to*show*you *who's*in*command."
    "I aim to misbehave
    "Yessir,*Captain*Tight*Pants."
    "...if*your*hand*touches*metal,*I*swear*by*my*pret ty*floral*bonnet:*I*will*end*you."
    "...a*very*special*level*of*hell.*A*level*they*res erve*for*child*molesters*and*people*who*talk*at*th e*theater."
    "Ship*like*this,*be*with*ya*'til*the*day*you*d ie."
    "The*Bible*has*some*pretty*specific*things*to*say* about*killing*It*is,*however,*somewhat*fuzzier*on* the*subject*of*kneecaps."
    "Were*I*unwed,*I*would*take*you*in*a*manly*fashion ."
    "She*is*starting*to*damage*my*calm."
    "I'm*a*leaf*on*the*wind...watch*how*I*soar."
    "I'm*a*leaf*on*the*wind...watch*how*I*soar." "I'm*a*leaf*on*the*wind...watch*how*I*soar." "I'm*a*leaf*on*the*wind...watch*how*I*soar." "I'm*a*leaf*on*the*wind...watch*how*I*soar." "I'm*a*leaf*on*the*wind...watch*how*I*damn*you*Jos s."
    "Love.*Can*know*all*the*math*in*the*'verse*but*tak e*a*boat*in*the*air*that*you*don't*love?*She'll*sh ake*you*off*just*as*sure*as*a*turn*in*the*worlds.* Love*keeps*her*in*the*air*when*she*oughtta*fall*do wn...tell*you*she's*hurtin'*'fore*she*keens...make s*her*a*home."

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    SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY you~can't~take~the~sky~from~me
    Let's~go~be~bad~guys you~can't~take~the~sky~from~me you~can't~take~the~sky~from~me you~can't~take~the~sky~from~me I~aim~to~misbehave I~aim~to~misbehave I~aim~to~misbehave I~aim~to~misbehave
    Big~Damn~Heros Big~Damn~Heros Big~Damn~Heros Big~Damn~Heros Getting~awful~crowded~in~my~sky
    too~damn~pretty~to~die "Ah,~curse~your~sudden~but~inevitable~betrayal !"
    "If~anyone~gets~nosy,~just...you~know...shoot~'em. ~Politely" "Time~for~some~thrilling~heroics." "Yessir,~Captain~Tight~Pants." "...if~your~hand~touches~metal,~I~swear~by~my~pret ty~floral~bonnet:~I~will~end~you." "Ship~like~this,`be~with~ya~'til~the~day~you~d ie." "The*Bible~has~some~pretty~specific~things~to~say~ about~killing~It~is,`however,~somewhat~fuzzier~on~ the~subject~of~kneecaps."
    "Were~I~unwed,~I~would~take~you~in~a~manly~fashion ." "She~is~starting~to~damage~my~calm." "I'm~a~leaf~on~the~wind...watch~how~I~soar." "I'm~a~leaf~on~the~wind...watch~how~I~soar." "I'm~a~leaf~on~the~wind...watch~how~I~soar." "I'm~a~leaf~on~the~wind...watch~how~I~...DAMN~you, ~Joss!" "I'm~a~leaf~on~the~wind...watch~how~I~...DAMN~you, ~Joss!"
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    SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY
    Let's~go~be~bad~guys

    you~can't~take~the~sky~from~me

    I~aim~to~misbehave

    Big~Damn~Heros

    Getting~awful~crowded~in~my~sky

    too~damn~pretty~to~die

    "Ah,~curse~your~sudden~but~inevitable~betrayal ~!"

    "If~anyone~gets~nosy,~just...you~know...shoot~'em. ~Politely"

    "I~brought~you~some~supper~but~if~you'd~prefer~a~l ecture,~I've~a~few~very~catchy~ones~prepped...sin~ and~hellfire...~one~has~lepers."

    "Time~for~some~thrilling~heroics."

    "Do~you~know~what~the~chain~of~command~is~here?~It 's~the~chain~I~go~get~and~beat~you~with~to~show*~y ou~who's~in~command."

    "Yessir,~Captain~Tight~Pants."

    "...if~your~hand~touches~metal,~I~swear~by~my~pret ty~floral~bonnet:~I~will~end~you."

    "...a*very*special*level*of*hell.*A*level*they*res erve*for*child*molesters*and*people*who*talk*at*th e*theater."

    "
    "Ship*like*this,*be*with*ya*'til*the*day*you*d ie."

    "The*Bible*has*some*pretty*specific*things*to* say* about*killing*It*is,*however,*somewhat*fuzzier*on* the*subject*of*kneecaps."

    "Were*I*unwed,*I*would*take*you*in*a*manly*fas hion ."

    "She*is*starting*to*damage*my*calm."

    SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY Let's~go~be~bad~guys Let's~go~be~bad~guys Let's~go~be~bad~guys Let's~go~be~bad~guys Let's~go~be~bad~guys you~can't~take~the~sky~from~me you~can't~take~the~sky~from~me you~can't~take~the~sky~from~me you~can't~take~the~sky~from~me you~can't~take~the~sky~from~me I~aim~to~misbehave I~aim~to~misbehave I~aim~to~misbehave I~aim~to~misbehave
    I~aim~to~misbehave Big~Damn~Heros Big~Damn~Heros Big~Damn~Heros Big~Damn~Heros Big~Damn~Heros Getting~awful~crowded~in~my~sky too~damn~pretty~to~die
    "Ah,~curse~your~sudden~but~inevitable~betrayal ~!" "If~anyone~gets~nosy,~just...you~know...shoot~'em. ~Politely" "I~brought~you~some~supper~but~if~you'd~prefer~a~l ecture,~I've~a~few~very~catchy~ones~prepped...sin~ and~hellfire...~one~has~lepers." "Time~for~some~thrilling~heroics." "Time~for~some~thrilling~heroics."
    "Do~you~know~what~the~chain~of~command~is~here?~It 's~the~chain~I~go~get~and~beat~you~with~to~show*~y ou~who's~in~command."
    "Yessir,~Captain~Tight~Pants." "Yessir,~Captain~Tight~Pants." "Yessir,~Captain~Tight~Pants."
    "...if~your~hand~touches~metal,~I~swear~by~my~pret ty~floral~bonnet:~I~will~end~you." "Ship~like~this,~be~with~ya~'til~the~day~you~d ie." "I'm~a~leaf~on~the~wind...watch~how~I~soar." "I'm~a~leaf~on~the~wind...watch~how~I~soar."
    "I'm~a~leaf~on~the~wind...watch~how~I~soar."
    "I'm~a~leaf~on~the~wind...watch~how~I...damn~you~J oss."

    "Love.*Can*know*all*the*math*in*the*'verse*but*tak e*a*boat*in*the*air*that*you*don't*love?*She'll*sh ake* you*off*just*as*sure*as*a*turn*in*the*worlds.*Love *keeps*her*in*the*air*when*she*oughtta*fall*down.. .tell*you*she's*hurtin'*'fore*she*keens...makes*he r*a*home."
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    I was talking to a friend of mine the other day, and she was explaining to me how disappointed she was in people and the things that they do and have done to her. She went on and on about how upset and heartbroken she was, and has been, about some of her family and friends. She talked about how they hurt her and how she wished they would change and be better people. She wanted them to be different than the people they were.


    Halfway through this complaint-a-thon, I asked her to take a walk with me in the backyard. Now, you have to know this particular friend of mine. She hates the heat, and it was a hot day. I said, "come on” so she reluctantly came with me.

    We got outside and it was steaming hot. I could see that she was uncomfortable. Nevertheless, we kept walking around my backyard. As she was still complaining about people, I asked her what she thought of my grass. Mind you, in order to appreciate the grass you had to stand in the direct sunlight. She said “Wow, I love your grass. It’s beautiful, but it’s hot right here. Let’s cool off under that oak tree over there.”

    So, as she started to walk to the tree I said, “No no, let’s stay here in the grass and cool off.”

    She turned to me quickly and said, “We can’t cool off on this grass.”

    Right then, I said to her, “But you just said the grass was beautiful."

    "I did” she replied. Then, I asked her, “Why won’t you stay here?" She said, because she was hot and the grass couldn’t cool her off. So, we walked over to the oak tree and sat there.

    She said, “Now you see? This is what I needed.”

    Then I asked her this question. “The grass was beautiful. You loved it. Why didn’t you get mad with the grass because it couldn’t provide the shade you wanted?

    She was confused, so I went on to explain myself. "People in this world, whether they were created a certain way or became that way through life’s circumstances, are who they are. Stop wishing they will be someone else."

    I said, “The next time you get upset with someone because they can’t do, or can’t be what you want them to be, remember the grass. Never get mad at a blade of grass because it’s not a tree. Appreciate the grass for what it is. Let it provide to you what it can, but don’t expect more. Your life will get so much easier when you start letting people be who they are and stop expecting them to give you what they don’t have or don’t know how to give. Just like that grass couldn’t provide shade because it wasn’t made to, some people are not made to give you what you’re asking for. So, stop looking for it. You will be shocked at how much peace you find when you really get this."

    And the last thing I said to her was this. “You wouldn’t be so frustrated with people who are like the grass if you had more people who are like trees in your life.”


    I could really go deep into this, but I gotta go back to work. Talk to me. What do you think?

    Love y’all. Talk soon.

    ~ Tyler Perry
    Laissez les bon temps rouler! Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than standing in a garage makes you a car.** a 4 day work week & sex slaves ~ I say Tyt for PRESIDENT! Not to be taken internally, literally or seriously ....Suki ebaynni IS THAT BETTER ?

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