sunniekiss
10-25-2010, 09:11 AM
Real quick: my ds is living back home since he graduated this Spring from college & will be until he finds a job in his field. He does have a full time job but doesn't make enough to live anywhere else. He doesn't pay rent & I have never asked him to(I want him to save & move). I trust him 100%.
Back to my issue: have you ever gone into your home & just know something is just not right? Small things like knowing I took garbage out before I went to work only to come home to stuff being in the trash can or knowing you just put a full roll of toilet paper on the holder only to come home & it is half gone? I was really thinking I was half losing my brain.
On Friday my son mentioned that his g/f stopped off to see the kitten. Okay. I thought she stopped off AFTER my son came home from work. Then he mentioned that she had fallen asleep with the kitten for over 2 hours. Hmmmm but he only got off of work at 3 & it was now 3:30 so two hours????? I thought he took the kitten over to her house, which I don't want since she IS only 8 weeks old (hey his cat but I foot the vet bill if she gets sick). Nope...she was at my house ALONE all day & has been coming over without anyone being home for months. OK not thrilled with that but I do 99% trust the girl however I am not so sure about her sister & the sister's boyfriend. See the thing is, last month my son gave me his car insurance money which I KNOW I put in my dresser drawer which I can't find & have some jewerly missing. I took this as I must have forgotten spending the money & just lost the jewerly.
There are 5 keys to my house. I have 2, he has 2 & one was hidden very well which only he & I knew where. No one could see where anything is hidden in my backyard.
Is this considence or am I being paranoid?
Back to my issue: have you ever gone into your home & just know something is just not right? Small things like knowing I took garbage out before I went to work only to come home to stuff being in the trash can or knowing you just put a full roll of toilet paper on the holder only to come home & it is half gone? I was really thinking I was half losing my brain.
On Friday my son mentioned that his g/f stopped off to see the kitten. Okay. I thought she stopped off AFTER my son came home from work. Then he mentioned that she had fallen asleep with the kitten for over 2 hours. Hmmmm but he only got off of work at 3 & it was now 3:30 so two hours????? I thought he took the kitten over to her house, which I don't want since she IS only 8 weeks old (hey his cat but I foot the vet bill if she gets sick). Nope...she was at my house ALONE all day & has been coming over without anyone being home for months. OK not thrilled with that but I do 99% trust the girl however I am not so sure about her sister & the sister's boyfriend. See the thing is, last month my son gave me his car insurance money which I KNOW I put in my dresser drawer which I can't find & have some jewerly missing. I took this as I must have forgotten spending the money & just lost the jewerly.
There are 5 keys to my house. I have 2, he has 2 & one was hidden very well which only he & I knew where. No one could see where anything is hidden in my backyard.
Is this considence or am I being paranoid?