ElleGee
03-30-2009, 06:38 AM
Yesterday was my mother's birthday. I called her to wish her a happy birthday and she tells me how her day is going..
She said that my sister, her 2 boys and my ex made her a birthday cake. How lovely....
Now my ex and my sister are friends. My dipshiz ex want to be more than friends with my sister, which does not bother me in the least. They are both adults and quite frankly I don't give shiz.. however...
The ass calls me and asks me if I called my mother to wish her a happy birthday. What the....Well what's it to him? It's MY mother. I don't need you calling me to ask me if I called MY mother. And then he has the balls to ask me if my mother mentioned the cake they made.. He has this way of gloating and patting himself on the back if he does the slightest nice thing. I'll be hearing about this cake for months .. it' freaking annoying..
So I told him she mentioned it and that's as far as that went.. So he asks me "She didn't say how it was?" Nope, I didn't ask.
On top of that annoying the piss out of me he hangs at my mother's house all the damned time. My sister lives there and he is all up in MY family.. He wasn't all up in MY family when it was HIS family as well when we married..
He is at every family function my family has and calls me up to dump my uncle on me for a ride to my mother's when he already said he would give him a ride since they live close to each other. Now when I say "dump my uncle" I do not mean it in a bad way... I love my uncle, I just don't like having the responsibility my ex gave himself dumped on me kwim?
And if I say something I am automatically an ahole or jealous.. And it's neither. I divorced his ass for a reason... I don't need him monitoring MY family. I don't need him hanging around MY family. Oh and on top of all this shiz he is being a 'father' to my sister's boys when he has a son here I need help with.. He tells me that my son is MY problem...Jerk
Anyway I just needed to vent because I can't vent to anyone around here without it becoming a major problem and nothing will get done about it anyway..
She said that my sister, her 2 boys and my ex made her a birthday cake. How lovely....
Now my ex and my sister are friends. My dipshiz ex want to be more than friends with my sister, which does not bother me in the least. They are both adults and quite frankly I don't give shiz.. however...
The ass calls me and asks me if I called my mother to wish her a happy birthday. What the....Well what's it to him? It's MY mother. I don't need you calling me to ask me if I called MY mother. And then he has the balls to ask me if my mother mentioned the cake they made.. He has this way of gloating and patting himself on the back if he does the slightest nice thing. I'll be hearing about this cake for months .. it' freaking annoying..
So I told him she mentioned it and that's as far as that went.. So he asks me "She didn't say how it was?" Nope, I didn't ask.
On top of that annoying the piss out of me he hangs at my mother's house all the damned time. My sister lives there and he is all up in MY family.. He wasn't all up in MY family when it was HIS family as well when we married..
He is at every family function my family has and calls me up to dump my uncle on me for a ride to my mother's when he already said he would give him a ride since they live close to each other. Now when I say "dump my uncle" I do not mean it in a bad way... I love my uncle, I just don't like having the responsibility my ex gave himself dumped on me kwim?
And if I say something I am automatically an ahole or jealous.. And it's neither. I divorced his ass for a reason... I don't need him monitoring MY family. I don't need him hanging around MY family. Oh and on top of all this shiz he is being a 'father' to my sister's boys when he has a son here I need help with.. He tells me that my son is MY problem...Jerk
Anyway I just needed to vent because I can't vent to anyone around here without it becoming a major problem and nothing will get done about it anyway..