shadowcats
03-02-2009, 07:47 PM
when my son died she came to my home every day got me out of bed and fed me and cleaned my home and drug my sorry butt out of the house for almost six months till my husband came back from england, ya i married a forigener,,,,,,,, lol , well her mother died friday at noon after fever started , she was in a care home two weeks ago and wasnt eating so they put her in the hospital to put a feeding tube in her and she was doing better they were going to send her back to the care home and over nite she started running a fever and the next day she died,,,,,,,,,,, and cheryl is devasted ,,,,,,, and i cant be there for her , we're three states away and ive been sick with the flue and i m going through the hacking period now,,,,,,,, and can barely go to the store,,,,,,,,, she s haveing her wake tonite and the funeral is tomorrow,
i called my sister and told her i was sad and upset about not being there , so she offered to get the flowers for me after i said could she get a local florests phone number for me, she got her a plant with bamboos from the florest and went to the wake tonite for me, and called me from the wake so i could talk to cheryl and tell her we were there in spirit for her if not in person,,,,, i knew cheryls mom and dad , i was there for her when her dad died ,,,,,,,, i was only a state away and drove to her dads funeral but im sad that i cant go for her now,,,,,,,,, ya hers is the family that grew up with mine as is such a pain for me sometimes but , i cant just not be her friend because i dont approve of her life style ,,,,,,,,,,, sigh ,,,,,,,,,, so if you all can say some prayers for her maybe her angel will comfort her tonite somehow,
sharon
i called my sister and told her i was sad and upset about not being there , so she offered to get the flowers for me after i said could she get a local florests phone number for me, she got her a plant with bamboos from the florest and went to the wake tonite for me, and called me from the wake so i could talk to cheryl and tell her we were there in spirit for her if not in person,,,,, i knew cheryls mom and dad , i was there for her when her dad died ,,,,,,,, i was only a state away and drove to her dads funeral but im sad that i cant go for her now,,,,,,,,, ya hers is the family that grew up with mine as is such a pain for me sometimes but , i cant just not be her friend because i dont approve of her life style ,,,,,,,,,,, sigh ,,,,,,,,,, so if you all can say some prayers for her maybe her angel will comfort her tonite somehow,
sharon