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taz69
12-16-2008, 05:27 AM
It has been driving me nuts trying to figure out why he left-he never would give me any reason-just said it wasn't my fault. Well it turns out the thirty-something witch got PREGNANT!!!!!! He thought it was hard to sleep in a house full of teens, their friends, 4 dogs/lol. Wait till baby comes!!!!! LOL. I am working with a lawyer (even more so now, because she will want it all for HER kid) to get my support from him legalized. Have fun EX-now that I know why-I can get on with mine and my kids lives!
April78945
12-16-2008, 05:29 AM
What a douch
SOrry hun
galeane29
12-16-2008, 05:38 AM
Oh Wow! Men can sure be tards and I do mean both of the tards. I'm sorry this is all happening to you but, at least it's all out in the open now and you CAN finally go on.
dv8grl
12-16-2008, 06:09 AM
WoW!!!
tammy77
12-16-2008, 06:12 AM
Awwww hun Im so sorry.I know exactually how you feel."Her" child is 6 months older then my son.When I found out I ended up going into labor and almost lost my son due to all the stress.The funny thing is he ended up finding out that she wasnt me and left her and now wants me back.Sorry but how can I take a man back when there is no trust.How do I know that he wont get tired of being with me and ends up going back to her.
Hun we both deserve better and someday we will get better.If you ever need someone to talk to you can pm me anytime.
pepperpot
12-16-2008, 06:18 AM
:hug :hug for both of you......
dv8grl
12-16-2008, 06:21 AM
What do you think the chances are that its actually HIS, maybe its that dude who she was snuggled up with when you went up there?
Jenefer3
12-16-2008, 07:14 AM
What do you think the chances are that its actually HIS, maybe its that dude who she was snuggled up with when you went up there?

That's what I was thinking.
LuvBigRip
12-16-2008, 07:25 AM
BTDT. Sorry to hear this news.
tarbabie
12-16-2008, 12:35 PM
Stick a fork in him baby- sounds like he is done! Kick him to the curb- you are better than that!
ElleGee
12-16-2008, 12:37 PM
Holy mother of malaysia.. I am so glad you're working with a lawyer.. I'd drop a hint to him that he may need a dna test hehe
fleabones3
12-16-2008, 12:40 PM
I wouldnt drop a hint. Let him pay alimony and child support to taz, then end up supporting his new thing and end up paying more support on the new one that isnt his LOL.. and let him find out YEARS later that its not his ..now thats payback
ElleGee
12-16-2008, 12:41 PM
I wouldnt drop a hint. Let him pay alimony and child support to taz, then end up supporting his new thing and end up paying more support on the new one that isnt his LOL.. and let him find out YEARS later that its not his ..now thats payback

I like you... You're evil :)

hehe
atprm
12-16-2008, 01:01 PM
yup, you definitely want his promised $1800 over agreement IN WRITING IN A COURT.

because the first sign of "omg, I really want something" and hard luck jobs/payments (like layoff etc) will cause him to voluntarily renig on his promisary note! (whereas if it's documented in front of a judge, he can't back out).

wow, that really sucks taz -- but get a GOOD lawyer and you should be very well protected!
Shann
12-16-2008, 03:07 PM
wow what a complete poop head :( What a jerk, definitely get his $1800/mo promise in writing ASAP. At least now you won't be wasting any more of your life on a loser, and like you said you and your kids can move on and find true happiness. :hug
mosdata1
12-16-2008, 04:52 PM
Is he sure they baby is his, not just that she saw him as the one who earned more $$?
taz69
12-16-2008, 07:22 PM
Who knows whose baby it is-but I LOVE the idea of him paying support for years, and then finding out!/LOL
mosdata1
12-16-2008, 07:23 PM
Just make sure you get your $$ up front. He'll want to back out of paying you as much once he gets over his guilt.
Quaker_Parrots
12-16-2008, 10:53 PM
How many more years until your are grown?
gmyers
12-16-2008, 10:58 PM
I wouldnt drop a hint. Let him pay alimony and child support to taz, then end up supporting his new thing and end up paying more support on the new one that isnt his LOL.. and let him find out YEARS later that its not his ..now thats payback

Yeah serve him right to support the baby for eighteen years then find out its the other guys. I'm really sorry you're going through all this. I wish you good luck.
pepperpot
12-16-2008, 11:02 PM
Wouldn't it be great if cheating men's members would shrivel up and fall off?.....:lol

I think that would be nice.....:angel:
gmyers
12-16-2008, 11:30 PM
Or that it would hurt like heck for both the woman and the man when they cheat. I bet they wouldn't do it then. Thats what I wish would happen every time they cheat.
swan0002
12-16-2008, 11:48 PM
Just make sure you get your $$ up front. He'll want to back out of paying you as much once he gets over his guilt.

Been there, done that! They pay at first b/c of guilt but it wears off FAST. get it all in writing. And please remember what i told ya b4... you will get through this and be happier than ever. Good things come to good ppl. GL