Dang !

[muffinmom]

I hope I don't offend or tick anyone off , not my intention . But I've been on and off this site since gosh I think 2000 or later . And I know all things change with the times but , It seems that freebies are fewer, folks on here get mad at you easier , when u don't intend that to happen , mods tell you to read the rules , when as I said been here along time have read the rules and the new rules , and the new ,newer rules gosh i know every forum has to have rules , but how many, this is not a gripe or an insult on any former mods or new mods, anyhow I ask a ? and get an email and get blasted for asking a ? , in my opinon if you don't know the answer then ask a ? right ? Why be blasted for asking. With all the new changes and folks yall I'll just stick with i'm :withstupid: . Again I hope I did not offend of insult anyone or step on anyones toes.

[April78945]

I don't know what your referring to but I hope your day gets better :)

[dangerousfem]

:hugs

[freeby4me]

I've noticed the freebies going down the last couple of years. As far as anger issues, I do put some of it on the election season. Its so tense and frustrating.

I couldnt tell you anything about the email thing.

[muffinmom]

Thanks I guess it's just me, I don't know , as some are all new here to me as I am to you , or screen names have just changed, I've gone through alot in the years that i've been in and outta here or just lurking , anyway for the new folks , I've had lupus since 2001 been on meds tons of them and had my gallballer out and spleen and appendix all at the same time in 2002 and then the day ca, had that dang earthquake I had and ultrasound and told the person doing it that I had this and that out and she's like oh , I see it right here , and I'm like what the H$$ , I showed her my surgical reports , I keep all my medical records with me not all the time but like for things like this and DR's appts. Er's and stuff , so anyway she's like it's right here even though I showed her I had it out , I told her I don't think a doctor would write in a medical report that he took something out if he didn't . SOooooooo I'm thinking the worst , cause the doctor said my labs were all abnormal and a host of other stuff , so I feel like great whats next . I'm still fighting the lupus and to add to that fibro and all the great mental crap, the meds . Who wouldn't want to fly off the handle , not at yall but in general. God I could write a novel , i feel like. So many things , I'm supposed to do . and can't . My mom lost her home , and moved to Texas , and told me in an email , I feel bad , but I also feel like gee , couldn't she just pick up the freaking phone and tell me , she moved , I mean how would that make some of you feel ? My first daughter hate's me, because of the way I live my life ,and that I married a mexican and got two tatoo's on each side of my shoulder blade, one with his name , I know some will think , that's stupid , and the other side with my three adult kids name , and she's the one inked up and calls me crazy amoung other names. I think about the way I raised them and all and all I can say is I know I did the best I could and tought them to be loving , honest individals , and now I just don't know if I did anything right. I guess I"m just having one of those days . Forgive meeeeeeeee If I don't ! Please see Avatar . Ok that one I was trying to be funny , sorry if it wasn't .

[freeby4me]

You do the best that you can with your children, but they are their own person and they make their own decisions, and are responsible for them, you are not.

All of that stuff is very hard to deal with, im sorry to hear you have to go through all of that. (((HUGS)))

[ahippiechic]

I don't know anything about any emails, but if you're referring to the thread in the ref section, I had edited the same post 3 times and deleted another post and it all could have been avoided if you had read and followed the rules that are stickied at the top of the forum. So I don't see anything wrong with telling someone to read and follow the rules after all that. But it's nothing personal, I would have done the same no matter who it was.

[muffinmom]

no it wasn't that about the editing , i just thought i'd done something wrong on the post , it's just this whole week has sucked !