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BBELEAZAHR
07-08-2008, 09:29 AM
Last night my kids were playing in the garage and my youngest daughter started screaming so I put the baby in the crib and ran in there to find my oldest daughter shaking and blood running down her arm. There was blood everywhere and she was shaking so much. I was looking all over her arm to see where the blood was coming from and I saw her finger was just hanging there by a little bit of skin, I was so scared! Ran in the house and put her hand under cold water then I wrapped it up in a towel. She wasnt talking much just shaking so I wasnt sure what happened, but my husband had just got home so we rushed her to the hospital and they calmed her down and she said she fell out of the chair and her finger got caught. They took her back for surgery right away and they attached it, but we are not sure if it will get blood flow back to it to save it. All we can do is hope for the best! She came home this morning and she is just resting now and in lots of pain:( I am so emotional and its so hard to keep from crying in front of her :( Please keep her in your thoughts!

luvcub
07-08-2008, 09:32 AM
ooo how horrible for your dd,poor baby,I can imagine the nightmare you were feeling when you seen the blood,Im so sorry for you,I hope all will work out fine. Hugs to you and dd!

ahippiechic
07-08-2008, 09:35 AM
Oh my goodness! I'll keep you all in my thoughts. Hoping for a fast recovery for her.

Willow
07-08-2008, 09:38 AM
Oh my God! I hope her finger will heal. That must have been so scary. She was probably in shock the poor kid. :(

dangerousfem
07-08-2008, 09:42 AM
oh no.. :grouphug I hope she starts feeling better soon.. and pray that her finger will be fine

galeane29
07-08-2008, 09:45 AM
Oh My God! I pray she will be ok.

Lild
07-08-2008, 09:45 AM
OMG that is horrible! I have chills, I can only imagine what you must be going through as well as your daughter...
Praying for it to work out ok and blood flow to return((())))

YankeeMary
07-08-2008, 09:48 AM
I didn't know. I am soooo sorry. Kids are amazing, she will bounce back. I will keep you all in my prayers. Please hug that little sweetie for all of us.

BeanieLuvR
07-08-2008, 09:51 AM
She is in my thoughts and prayers. :hug

lassss
07-08-2008, 10:03 AM
omg...I hope she is ok. In the blink of an eye, accidents happen. She will back to herself in no time

Vee030473
07-08-2008, 10:06 AM
My goodness,bless yall's bones! I hope everything turns out very well for her!

ElleGee
07-08-2008, 10:11 AM
Oh my goodness! Poor thing :(

sheila_361
07-08-2008, 10:18 AM
Oh poor little thing, hope she feels better soon and heals quickly.. :hug

dispatcher
07-08-2008, 10:21 AM
{{{hugs******

ladybugva
07-08-2008, 10:24 AM
oh my poor thing, poor you. Will pray that she heals quickly and she doesn't have any fears from this.

Kelsey1224
07-08-2008, 10:27 AM
I'm so sorry. I would have been terrified as well. Prayers for a quick and complete recovery for her.

DAVESBABYDOLL
07-08-2008, 10:29 AM
I bet you were all scared. Hope all turns out OK and she feels better soon.

LuvBigRip
07-08-2008, 10:42 AM
Poor little baby (and Mom too) I will say a prayer for a complete recovery.

Beso
07-08-2008, 10:45 AM
Oh my gosh. I hope everything is ok. Tell her, her "Aunt" is thinking about her.

cathych
07-08-2008, 10:49 AM
it is always scary for a mom when a child gets hurt. Sending good thoughts your way.

Renrut
07-08-2008, 10:52 AM
Wow, I hope your daughter is better soon. That is just terrible. Sending love!

Army-Mom
07-08-2008, 11:07 AM
sending fast healing prayers.

cpbaby
07-08-2008, 11:10 AM
:hug

DBackFan
07-08-2008, 11:19 AM
Oh my gosh I am so so sorry. Prayers for fast healing for her.

Kimberly61
07-08-2008, 11:36 AM
oh my goodness! How awful for her and for you as well....We will keep her in our thoughts and our prayers for a speedy recovery:hug

gmyers
07-08-2008, 11:40 AM
That must have really scared you. I hope and I'll pray that it heals fast and everythings ok with it. Poor baby I hope shes better today.

speedygirl
07-08-2008, 11:46 AM
How awful! I hope your baby has a speedy recovery. You must have been beside yourself. Hugs!

JustDoIt
07-08-2008, 12:29 PM
I'm so sorry! How awful for your little one! And you must have been scared out of your wits!

I'm praying everything heals well and fast. Speedy recovery vibes going out to her!

ttistin
07-08-2008, 12:33 PM
Oh my that is terrible. I am praying for her to have a quick recovery. ((Hugs))

freeby4me
07-08-2008, 12:37 PM
Oh my gosh your poor baby, I sure hope her finger gets all better, how incredibly scary. (((HUGS)))

dianepost
07-08-2008, 12:49 PM
There is no greater fear on this earth than seeing your child hurt.
I will pray your daughter does well, Kids regenerate quite surprisingly well.
So sorry this happened.

msginna
07-08-2008, 01:38 PM
:hug I am so sorry, give your baby a hug for me and me and my family have her in our thoughts

cabby92
07-08-2008, 01:49 PM
Give her lots of hugs and she'll get better soon.

marlee
07-08-2008, 01:51 PM
Oh no!! I am so sorry this happened to your daughter. I hope it heals quickly.

socks1211
07-08-2008, 02:16 PM
poor baby i hope it heals quickly

magickay
07-08-2008, 02:56 PM
Prayers for healing and peace of mind

Dorthy
07-08-2008, 03:02 PM
Your daughter is in my thoughts and prayers. I hope everything works out well for her.

MizzouLady
07-08-2008, 03:35 PM
So sorry this happened to your baby! Will say prayers for her complete recovery without too much pain.

PrincessArky
07-08-2008, 04:24 PM
oh poor baby thoughts and prayers for you all

wobblypops
07-08-2008, 04:57 PM
Poor kid, I hope she heals fast.

dv8grl
07-08-2008, 05:06 PM
Awww... WOW! Poor kid! I'm sure shes just been resting all day.
My dad was a butcher & I remember he'd cut a finger off every couple of years or so., they'd sew it back on & it was as good as new.
:crossfingers that she'll heal as good as new in no time! (no pun intended :hug)

andreame70
07-08-2008, 05:21 PM
So sorry to hear about her accident. Hope she is better soon. Poor thing, I know she must have been scared and I am sure you guys were too.

buttrfli
07-08-2008, 05:34 PM
OMG! I hope shes doing better today... and you too! How scary to see that happen to your kids :(

Freebeemom
07-08-2008, 07:46 PM
Wow! I know how fast things like this can happen! I hope she is ok, and you too for that matter!
Is she talking about it? Like, replaying it in her mind?

Wow! Hope she can heal and recover well from this! I know that Ice Cream helps everything!

Hang in there!

BBELEAZAHR
07-08-2008, 07:54 PM
You are all so sweet :) She has been resting all day. I will post what happens at her appt. on Monday. She doesnt really remember exactly what happened and I dont think she has really seen her finger they were very careful at the hospital it keep it covered so she didnt get scared. I think she was is shock , but my youngest daughter (4) saw the whole thing and she is still terrified! She wont leave her sisters side.
(My sister and me both posted pictures on our myspace pages)

jcw
07-08-2008, 08:46 PM
Prayers for fast healing

tngirl
07-08-2008, 09:28 PM
You reacted quickly and did the right things. I will think positive thoughts and prayers. I know how it is to see your child hurting and my heart goes out to you.

Unicornmom77
07-08-2008, 10:53 PM
Oh my goodness! We will be praying for her! I do NOT want to see the pictures!! *shudders*

msmom79
07-08-2008, 10:56 PM
i will be praying for a fast recovery for her.i am so sorry this happened

ma4angels
07-09-2008, 12:31 AM
My prayers are with you and your famliy. I know that it is scary thing when your child gets hurt or surgery. Mine had two major spinal surgeries when she was 14. I was an emotional wreck for about six months. All I did is cry.
One thing I did learn is that you need family and friends support let them help out if you need them. It will help you emotionally and other wise. I pray for her speedy recovery.

janelle
07-09-2008, 12:52 AM
WOW that hurts just to hear about it. Hope she is better soon. Huggs to all of you. Don't know what I would have done if I was there.

peaceluver
07-09-2008, 01:37 AM
Prayers for your family and hugs for you.

YankeeMary
07-09-2008, 08:11 AM
How is she doing today???

Beso
07-09-2008, 08:17 AM
How is she doing today???

Yeah? I hope she isn't in pain or discomfort.

kabcrisp
07-09-2008, 08:33 AM
So very scary. . .I had a huge scare recently as well with my DD.

I hope she and her finger recovers completely and quickly.

My prayers are wth you and your family.

CLARKS4
07-09-2008, 10:59 AM
Oh my Goodnes!! Praying that she has a quick recovery!

maranatha4
07-09-2008, 11:00 AM
Praying for your daughter and for you.

DBackFan
07-09-2008, 05:04 PM
How is she doing today???

Bumping Mary's question so we can see how she is today?

iluvmybaby
07-09-2008, 05:10 PM
It made me dizzy just thinking about it, I hope that she gets to feeling better soon!

magenta
07-09-2008, 08:46 PM
Wishing your daughter a speedy recovery!

BBELEAZAHR
07-09-2008, 09:11 PM
Bumping Mary's question so we can see how she is today?

She was doing okay as of this morning, but tonight she has a fever so we have been watching that really close. She has lots of pain but they gave her good meds to help. Thanks again everyone for all of your prayers :)

CLARKS4
07-09-2008, 09:23 PM
Poor thing. Is her finger showing any signs of blood flow? Or can you see?

MistyWolf
07-09-2008, 09:56 PM
OMG! .. I am just reading this .. I am so sorry and will keep you and your daughter in my prayers. Hope she heals quick.

BBELEAZAHR
07-09-2008, 10:11 PM
Poor thing. Is her finger showing any signs of blood flow? Or can you see?

I havent seen it since before she had surgery and it was completly white then. They put a green splint thing over it so there is no way to see it. I am so scared to see what it looks like when we go on Monday. she is being so brave good thing because Im a wreck!

Pepsi4me
07-09-2008, 10:14 PM
I hope she recovers quickly & her finger is ok. :hug

So do you know what she got hurt on in the garage?

flute
07-09-2008, 10:26 PM
I am so sorry - that had to have been frightening for the both of your girls.

((Hugs Love & Prayers))

fleabones3
07-11-2008, 11:17 AM
Hope everything goes fine.. my prayers are with her

DonnaWV
07-11-2008, 02:24 PM
I am so sorry. I hope she heals fast.

galeane29
07-11-2008, 05:19 PM
How is she doing?

Mom2Shaun
07-11-2008, 05:38 PM
Poor thing!!! I hope she's feeling a little better today. Please keep us posted!

BBELEAZAHR
07-11-2008, 07:49 PM
you all are so sweet I just wanna give you all a big ol hug:grouphug She is doing okay today. She seems to be getting the pains in her hand and arm rather than her finger so not sure what that means. She has been getting all kinds of cards, stickers and little get well things from some very special people on here thanks so much :) It has really helped to take her mind off of what happened. We told her that she might loose her finger and she seemed okay about it, I am thinking that she just doesnt understand what that means. My DH and I are still just sick feeling about it. We both just wish we could have had it happen to us rather than her. That image of what happened just keeps replaying in my head over and over again. Her little sister is taking it the hardest, she refuses to go in the garage and she wont leave her sisters side. I wish she didnt have to see that it really impacted her in a bad way :( Please keep her in your thoughts as we are going to the Dr. on Monday to find out if the first surgery worked or not. I will be sure to post as soon as I get home. Thanks again everyone for your thoughts and prayers, coming on here to read your comments helps me everyday :)

dv8grl
07-11-2008, 08:06 PM
:hug :pray :crossfingers

BlueBerriTerri
07-11-2008, 09:34 PM
Ohhh, I'm so sorry for your daughter! That is awful---so much pain for a little one to have to endure. I know it breaks your heart. Sending good thoughts, hugs, and prayers for your family.

tsquared
07-12-2008, 05:25 AM
keeping your DD in my thoughts and prayers that her finger gets to healing well and things go well at the appointment on Monday.

sheila_361
07-12-2008, 05:42 AM
:hug she's still in my prayers...

mesue
07-12-2008, 09:05 AM
I'm so sorry this happened, hoping you get good news on Monday.

THEpouty1
07-12-2008, 09:42 AM
it's scary when things happen to our kids. I really hope her finger's okay and that she (and her sis) won't be too scarred. :hug

Explorer 4x4'r
07-12-2008, 10:33 AM
Yes read this now;
sorry your baby got hurt and she is in pain.
I hope her little finger will be OK

praying for her

ang in NC
07-12-2008, 11:57 AM
Just read this, my youngest did something very similiar to that onec. Scary. some fever is normal. Saying a prayer for her and youl

Mary_Jo3
07-13-2008, 10:46 AM
I am sooo sorry about what happened.
They didn't want you to change the dressing?
Glad you see the Dr tomorrow.
Hope everything goes ok.

BBELEAZAHR
07-14-2008, 09:48 AM
We are back from the Dr. and he said it looked okay to him( I thought it looked horrible) There was no black spots so that was good :) We are going to keep seeing him every week for the next 3 weeks and see if it will heal on its own. He took all of the bandages off and she just has to keep a regular bandaid on it. He said that when kids are under 6 they have a better chance of it healing (she is 8) so we will just wait and see. Thanks for all of your prayers they seem to be working!

ElleGee
07-14-2008, 09:50 AM
awesome! :)

MistyWolf
07-14-2008, 09:55 AM
That is great! :dancing: .. Hope she continues to heal well.

BeanieLuvR
07-14-2008, 10:35 AM
I am so happy to hear that. :)

maranatha4
07-14-2008, 11:40 AM
Thats good news. Hope she doesnt have much pain as it heals.

galeane29
07-14-2008, 11:42 AM
Great News! Praying all goes well and she keeps her wittle finger :)

CLARKS4
07-14-2008, 11:49 AM
:dancing: That is great!! Will continue to pray for you all.

sunniekiss
07-14-2008, 03:27 PM
Great news!

lymi
07-14-2008, 06:02 PM
oh my, I just read this. I'm so glad things are going better. It hurts so bad to see our little ones in pain. By heart goes out to you and yours. We always want to take their pain away so very bad, but can't. It sounds like you were cool and collected (at least on the surface) I know you were dying inside. But you did good. You are a great mom

dv8grl
07-18-2008, 05:02 AM
Thinking about how she's doing? Any good news?

mosdata1
07-18-2008, 06:19 AM
Oh my goodness, I just read this. I am so sorry to hear what happened. I pray that your DD continues to heal quickly, and that her little sis can forget her terror of what she saw.

fleabones3
07-18-2008, 03:21 PM
Its great to hear she is doing good, and that her finger is healing good. Little kids heal exceptionally well, even past the age of 6. (because they have a higher chance of hurting themselves ).

Will keep up the good thoughts and prayers for both of your girls.