freecycle/terrible thing happened

[buglebe]

I offered a wheelchair to someone for her mom on freecycle. She hasn't come to get it yet and this is what I got back from her today. I searched the obituaries and I found him. OMG how terrible!!
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My husband was killed on sunday and my son was air lifted to UAB I am not in my right mind right now if you have sent a prior email I am just now checking on some of my email the funeral is in a few hours I am sorry please give me some time with my husbands death I am not going to be able to drive alot of anywhere my son freaks out when I leave and drive anywhere we just bought a home we have no insurance we have only made one payment my kids are so lost and don't want to loose the house their daddy was so proud to get we are all devastated he was my soul mate my everything I am a stay home mom with 4 boys to raise now I just can't think about alot please bear with me thank you Lisa

[JKATHERINE]

OMG! That is so sad and terrible! Those poor people! :(

[galeane29]

Oh Lord.

[ladybugva]

how sad. Not to be nosy but I am guessing the were in a accident? She has 4 boys and one was in the accident w/ her husband? poor lady. Saying prayers for her and her family.

[Kimberly61]

wow that is extremely sad, gave me chills

if she doesnt live to far you should offer to take the chair to her to save her the trouble and show your kindness.

[buglebe]

After reading the obituary, her husband was 48. Her saving grace I guess could be that she has one son who is 21, married, with a wife and child. Plus the 4 younger boys . So maybe this older boy is mature enough to help her. Yes I take it one son is also hurt. I wish I could help her. But I don't know what to do. I know from previous email about the wheelchair that she helps take care of her parents though they are not much older than me. This is so tragic. It makes us know, no matter how bad off we are, there are always others worse off. I only found the obit by looking for a man about her age, who worked where she had told me her husband worked and with 4 boys and a wife named Lisa.

added: oldest married son is 25, other boys are 17, 16, 13, 7. She is 46. Yes we will take the wheelchair when I get the address. It is about 45 miles from here.

[gmyers]

Thats so sad. I feel so sorry for her, she must feel lost right now.

[Shann]

how very sad, maybe if not too far you could offer to take it to her considering the circumstances.

[ang in NC]

that's sad, bless her heart

[magenta]

How sad.

[Freebeemom]

It is interesting how people end up connecting. I am very sad for her. I would offer to bring it to her. She could probably use the kindness now.

[flute]

Oh. My. God. That is truly tragic.

[dangerousfem]

that is so very sad... I would be devastated...

[earnhardt1]

this made me cry i hope she has a son who is willing to help her