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ahippiechic
06-17-2007, 06:09 PM
Seems I'm bitching here a lot lately but....my handfasting is the 22nd. And due to a problem with the engraving, my rings won't be here til the 23rd. Nice, huh? :getyou

kyswpgrl
06-17-2007, 06:13 PM
What is handfasting? And can you have the shipping expedited?

freeby4me
06-17-2007, 06:22 PM
What is handfasting? And can you have the shipping expedited?

Agreed and so sorry things arent going good lately, it will work out!!

okie
06-17-2007, 06:23 PM
I was going to ask the same question.

Val1
06-17-2007, 06:36 PM
Handfasting, in the way I've seen the term used, is often the pagan celebration of marriage, or joining two lives together.

Hippiechick, if there is one thing I learned from my wedding, it was to tell the jeweler, dress makers, program printers, basically anyone who was contributing something that needed to be there ahead of time, that the wedding was A FULL WEEK before the actual date.

Thank God I did this with the bridesmaids gown - as it turned out, the dresses were not done being altered until late the night BEFORE they thought was my wedding day. If it had really been the night before my wedding, I'd've been even more stressed out than I already was!

Is there any way the jeweler can overnight express the rings to you? I hope you get them in time, but look at it this way - in twenty years, it will be one of those stories that you and your DH laugh about as you tell your kids "well, our rings were a day late to the wedding!"

Hope you have a great handfasting, in spite of the ring arrival time!

PrincessArky
06-17-2007, 06:40 PM
ah man that stinks maybe you can just use something else on the 22nd???

okie
06-17-2007, 06:47 PM
Oh okay, congrats hippie!

LuvBigRip
06-17-2007, 06:51 PM
Oh man, you have got to be kidding me. How is Leif handling this? :getyou

ahippiechic
06-17-2007, 09:08 PM
Oh man, you have got to be kidding me. How is Leif handling this? :getyou

The jeweler delivered his last week and then mine on Friday. Mine were inscribed wrong, so even with expetited delivery, it's gonna take a while to get new ones and do the inscriptions. Val1 is right, handfasting can be legal or not (ours won't be) but it's like a marriage ceremony.

Leif was thinking about just going to walmart and get one to use on Fri. Bet he'll have a hard time trying to find a size 3 band tho.

mosdata1
06-17-2007, 10:46 PM
When I was skinny (many, many moons ago), and got married, my ring size was a 4. We bought our rings from Sears & didn't have to get them sized They had a 4 1/2 in stock, which was fine for me. Even better now that I have gained weight - I just can't take the thing off.

PrincessArky
06-18-2007, 06:21 AM
The jeweler delivered his last week and then mine on Friday. Mine were inscribed wrong, so even with expetited delivery, it's gonna take a while to get new ones and do the inscriptions. Val1 is right, handfasting can be legal or not (ours won't be) but it's like a marriage ceremony.

Leif was thinking about just going to walmart and get one to use on Fri. Bet he'll have a hard time trying to find a size 3 band tho.

OMG you got some little fingers lol

hey are you guys gonna take some pics??? sure would like to see them :)

ahippiechic
06-18-2007, 06:26 AM
When I was skinny (many, many moons ago), and got married, my ring size was a 4. We bought our rings from Sears & didn't have to get them sized They had a 4 1/2 in stock, which was fine for me. Even better now that I have gained weight - I just can't take the thing off.

I usually wear a size 4 on that finger, but have lost some weight recently that I hope to gain back, so maybe a 4 will be easier to find. As long as I have one for the ceremony it'll be ok, I guess, doesn't have to be the exact size. I'm still hoping I'll get them in time tho, anything can happen, right?

pepperpot
06-18-2007, 06:28 AM
OMG you got some little fingers lol

hey are you guys gonna take some pics??? sure would like to see them :)

Agree! I am not a large person but my fingers are like sausages! :p I think my wedding ring is a 7 or 8! I never liked my hands....I always wanted pretty looking hands....:(

LuvBigRip
06-18-2007, 06:41 AM
Agree! I am not a large person but my fingers are like sausages! :p I think my wedding ring is a 7 or 8! I never liked my hands....I always wanted pretty looking hands....:(

My ring finger is a size 9.5. I have big man hands

pepperpot
06-18-2007, 06:45 AM
My ring finger is a size 9.5. I have big man hands

lol

Sausage fingers run in our family. At our family gatherings it looks like an Italian Sausage Fest! :rofl: (Not the breakfast links neither lol )

ahippiechic
06-18-2007, 06:57 AM
My ring finger is a size 9.5. I have big man hands

Your hands don't look big to me!

xtrememom
06-19-2007, 11:47 AM
Congrats on the Ceremony !!!

Sorry about the ring.

I used to wear a size 6 and now I think its a size 10 from all the swelling and weight gain.

I just inherited some family heirlooms and got wedding rings and boy are they tiny !

queenangie
06-19-2007, 06:50 PM
May you have many years of happiness as a couple!

Could you borrow a ring?

"Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue?"
Not certain if this applies to your celebration,
but you gotta love traditions.

ahippiechic
06-23-2007, 07:36 AM
We decided to postpone the handfasting until July 13th. besides my rings not being here in time, a med that I am on caused my face to swell up and no way I'm getting handfasted looking like this!

ahippiechic
06-23-2007, 09:56 AM
Now we've just changed the date of our handfasting again....to August 4th. July 13th is the day that one of my friends passed away and I really rather not get married then. So august 4th is the next friday he'll be able to take of work.

I swear, sometimes I wonder if we should even be trying to do this, seems like something is always preventing us from it!

Shann
06-23-2007, 10:24 PM
:hug I'm sorry about your ring being inscribed wrong that would upset me as well. Congrats on your handfasting and I hope august 4 works out as your date. :)

I feel for ya ladies... my ring size is 5 and I feel that I have sausage fingers... I want long slender hands, my hands are so tiny in length w/ sausages on the end. :(

Tasha405
06-24-2007, 08:25 AM
(((((Hippie))))) I hope everything works out for ya!

kyswpgrl
06-25-2007, 05:58 PM
I'm glad you were able to move the date back and hope everything falls into place before then. Good luck!