Sweetie got me a new singer sewing machine, for Christmas...

[VALENA-)45]

Are there any sewing sites I can go to, and learn how to make things. I tried to make him a Valentines card, and i messed it up big time. So, I cut it out again, and I am still working on it. I can hem pants and alter clothes by hand, and it takes me a long time to do it and hurts my hands like crazy, so he got me the sewing machine. Now I need help finding websites I can learn from. Thanks in advance.

[DonnaWV]

Congrats on your new machine. I just bought me one also.I looked a lot for sites to learn, and came up with nothing. I found that just play around with it, and learn just how every thing works. I made new covers for the camper cushions, did pretty good for my first time. If you find any sites please post them.

[Kyla Kym]

I just did a quick search and this is the first thing that popped up. :)
http://sewing.about.com/od/freeprojects/Free_Sewing_Projects.htm

There is a bunch of links in the search I just did, but I have to go to work now. If you need more let me know I will look tonight for you when I get home. :)

[VALENA-)45]

I just did a quick search and this is the first thing that popped up. :)
http://sewing.about.com/od/freeprojects/Free_Sewing_Projects.htm

There is a bunch of links in the search I just did, but I have to go to work now. If you need more let me know I will look tonight for you when I get home. :) Thanks an awful lot, and if you can find something else I would appreciate it. Have a great day.

[VALENA-)45]

Congrats on your new machine. I just bought me one also.I looked a lot for sites to learn, and came up with nothing. I found that just play around with it, and learn just how every thing works. I made new covers for the camper cushions, did pretty good for my first time. If you find any sites please post them. Congrats, on your new machine, too. I have sewn a few little things, I even took apart one of Sweeties, hankie caps to learn how to make it, and I can't put it back together, I look at it and laugh.

[DAVESBABYDOLL]

Are there any sewing sites I can go to, and learn how to make things. I tried to make him a Valentines card, and i messed it up big time. So, I cut it out again, and I am still working on it. I can hem pants and alter clothes by hand, and it takes me a long time to do it and hurts my hands like crazy, so he got me the sewing machine. Now I need help finding websites I can learn from. Thanks in advance.


I thought you split up with him? :confused:


congrats on sewing machine.

[tngirl]

I thought you split up with him? :confused:


congrats on sewing machine.

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y233/displacedtngirl/AVATARS/scared0018.gif

[DAVESBABYDOLL]

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y233/displacedtngirl/AVATARS/scared0018.gif

What???? LMAO...didn't she?

[tngirl]

What???? LMAO...didn't she?

DBD, you know how it goes...lmao. Actually, when I saw the thread, that was what went through my head, but thought better of saying anythinghttp://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y233/displacedtngirl/AVATARS/sign0053.gif, but you read my mind. If I recall, he is a drunk or drughead cheating on her with a crack ho...correct me if I am wrong. Ah, the drama!

[evrita]

Actually he was cheating on her with a white crackhead but maybe it is a different sweetie

[DAVESBABYDOLL]

DBD, you know how it goes...lmao. Actually, when I saw the thread, that was what went through my head, but thought better of saying anythinghttp://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y233/displacedtngirl/AVATARS/sign0053.gif, but you read my mind. If I recall, he is a drunk or drughead cheating on her with a crack ho...correct me if I am wrong. Ah, the drama!


I remember now,he was a drunk/drugie and evrita is right..was a white crack ho


Hey, had to ask. :D

[Pepsi4me]

http://www.bigbigforums.com/vent-whine/520506-he-wont-give-me-my-things.html



Yes, you all are right.

[DAVESBABYDOLL]

I see it was never updated after September..he must have gave her her things back.

[tngirl]

I see it was never updated after September..he must have gave her her things back.

And don't forget, a NEW sewing machine for xmas.

[VALENA-)45]

I see it was never updated after September..he must have gave her her things back. YES, All of you are RIGHT. He gave me everything back and 1 1/2 months later he came back, kissing Ass as usaul. We are back together and I am very causous, and very untrusting, when it comes to Sweetie, and he knows it. I love him, but I don't trust him, and I tell him that to his face. He jumps through hoops, I call the shots, and when he says, "I don't know why I came back to you, to go through so much mess, I tell him, he could have stayed where he was at and not have bothered looking back, in the mean time, you take what I dish out, or you can leave, the same way you came back. I don't need you, I can pay my own bills, without you. Now, you decide." I am not the same little girl he left, she is gone, and a new woman has taken her place, and she is here to stay. He was in the hospital for almost 2 weeks, when he first came back, he made me mad and I cussed him out, and told him "NOW", you think about it, and walked out the room and he didn't see me for 2 whole days, he called me on the 3rd day, to come back and see him. He's mean as sh-t, but I am MEANER, I can't always be nice. I stand my ground. We get along fine this way. What is DBD????

[VALENA-)45]

http://www.bigbigforums.com/vent-whine/520506-he-wont-give-me-my-things.html



Yes, you all are right. I got tired of fighting for my things, I just acted like a cat, sat back and waited. Therapy helped a whole lot, and I still go once a week.

[Kyla Kym]

YES, All of you are RIGHT. He gave me everything back and 1 1/2 months later he came back, kissing Ass as usaul. We are back together and I am very causous, and very untrusting, when it comes to Sweetie, and he knows it. I love him, but I don't trust him, and I tell him that to his face. He jumps through hoops, I call the shots, and when he says, "I don't know why I came back to you, to go through so much mess, I tell him, he could have stayed where he was at and not have bothered looking back, in the mean time, you take what I dish out, or you can leave, the same way you came back. I don't need you, I can pay my own bills, without you. Now, you decide." I am not the same little girl he left, she is gone, and a new woman has taken her place, and she is here to stay. He was in the hospital for almost 2 weeks, when he first came back, he made me mad and I cussed him out, and told him "NOW", you think about it, and walked out the room and he didn't see me for 2 whole days, he called me on the 3rd day, to come back and see him. He's mean as sh-t, but I am MEANER, I can't always be nice. I stand my ground. We get along fine this way.

Why on earth does he want to stay if you are treating him like a dog, and you let him know what a dog he is all the time??? Why would anyone put themselves through that? I'm sure he deserves all your putting him through...but I just can't understand why he would stay with you treating him so poorly??:confused: Sounds like a miserable life for the both of you. :(

[tngirl]

DBD = DAVESBABYDOLL

And Kyla, he probably puts up with it because he doesn't have anywhere else to go at the moment. Me personally, I wouldn't want some worthless peice of crap hanging around that I couldn't trust.

[VALENA-)45]

Why on earth does he want to stay if you are treating him like a dog, and you let him know what a dog he is all the time??? Why would anyone put themselves through that? I'm sure he deserves all your putting him through...but I just can't understand why he would stay with you treating him so poorly??:confused: Sounds like a miserable life for the both of you. :( I talk to him and do him like that when he opens his mouth and says mean and nasty things to me and it makes me mad. He is not a dog, cause I don't beat on him or hit him, even though I know words, can hurt worse then being hit or beat on. He is good and nice sometimes and do really nice things for me, like take me to visit my Mother's grave, on Staten Island, for my bday, and our anniversary, and do surprising and thoughtful things. Sometimes I have to fight back, and give him back what he gives me. Sometimes Love is: deaf, dumb, and blind, but sometimes Love makes you see what is in front of you, ether you work on it or you lose it all. I am trying to work on it and save what I have, and it is not easy. p.s. I read y'alls post and they make me see how mean i am really being to him, sometimes i can't help it, the hurt and pain from the past comes back when he says the wrong things to me, and i say bad things to urt him. i'll try to be nice and hold my tougne and see what happens.

[nightrider127]

DBD = DAVESBABYDOLL

And Kyla, he probably puts up with it because he doesn't have anywhere else to go at the moment. Me personally, I wouldn't want some worthless peice of crap hanging around that I couldn't trust.

I don't think I could live that kind of life either. I would never be able to trust him and to me, if there is no trust, there is no relationship. Besides, I would worry about catching some STD from him. Who knowes who he has been with.

[Pepsi4me]

I agree,that's no way to live.

[DAVESBABYDOLL]

truth be told....If there isn't any trust,there ISN'T any love. You have to trust someone to truly love them.

I too wouldn't be with a peice of crap,that's why he's my EX and the gal he's with now can have it..his pecker sure isn't made of gold and he'll start his shit with her soon enough. They ALWAYS do.

And my veiw of this is, if you're with him ...Therapy DIDN'T help. Get your money back.

[MistyWolf]

Sounds like a very destructive relationship. If you are going to be with him, your going to have to let bygones be just that .. you have to move on (keep your guard up), but move on. Go past where you were and start a new future together.

I personally don't think I would have done it, but that is me. He wants you back but is still saying mean things to you that make you retalliate back to him. And if he isn't doing drugs anymore, the way you are treating him may push him back into that addictive behavior and where is that going to get either one of you?

Anyway, good luck with the sewing machine and the man.

[freeby4me]

I just want to wish you the best of luck with the man and the sewing machine. Even if they both came with an instruction booklet, it dont mean that they could be understood :p :D