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taz69
06-07-2005, 08:26 AM
Was anyone else offended by the ad for the romance page that is on the freebie page for BBF? It has a girl bending over a car - and she has on a thong or something - shows EVERYTHING! My daughter comes on here to look for teen freebies - that ad is just a bit too much!

Bud_Girl76
06-07-2005, 08:33 AM
I agree I was mad about it also.. Right now I see one where a girl is in a bra or bikini top.. Stupid ad's

Willow
06-07-2005, 08:37 AM
Was anyone else offended by the ad for the romance page that is on the freebie page for BBF? It has a girl bending over a car - and she has on a thong or something - shows EVERYTHING! My daughter comes on here to look for teen freebies - that ad is just a bit too much!


I was just thinking the same thing a few minutes ago. It's not a very nice ad to have on a site that is "allegedly" a family site.

justme23
06-07-2005, 08:46 AM
Yeah, I was thinking the same thing... I don't have kids, but as soon as I saw it I thought 'some family site this is'. However, I'm fairly certain that Alex really couldn't care less what we think, he is, afterall, part owner of bluetime or whatever that company is that hosts the banners... so I'm pretty sure as long as he gets his money off clicks that he's gonna keep staying away... I think even the mods got sick of it... isn't mom2jal the only one left now?

Oh well, I guess we just have to deal w/ it or stop coming around.

Willow
06-07-2005, 08:52 AM
Yes, I think mom2jal is the only mod left now. A couple of them left and won't even come to BBS because of problems they have had with their computers due to the trojans. Even if we all complained to Alex I don't think it would do any good because like you said he's making money off of it and that's all he cares about.

schsa
06-07-2005, 09:08 AM
She's a desperate woman looking for love. She has a great tush but you don't want to see the face. That's why they took the picture like that.

Ok, it is offensive and I doubt I would sign up with any website that used that look to lure people to join.

buttrfli
06-07-2005, 09:14 AM
I love fillergate.. I don't see any ads lol :D

3lilpigs
06-07-2005, 09:46 AM
WHAT THE ... :eek:
That ad just popped up while i was reading this post.

alex wont be making any money off of me for clicking on that site.
just tacky if you ask me. (even if you dont ask me, its still tacky :D )

guess that'll teach me to turn off my ad blocker.

Bubblescc
06-07-2005, 10:38 AM
what about the halfnaked chick with I'm lonely tatooed on her stomach.. What is going on here, this site has changed so much since I first registered..

Bud_Girl76
06-07-2005, 11:22 AM
WHAT THE ... :eek:
That ad just popped up while i was reading this post.

alex wont be making any money off of me for clicking on that site.
just tacky if you ask me. (even if you dont ask me, its still tacky :D )

guess that'll teach me to turn off my ad blocker.


Won't be making any money off me either as I don't click on his SPAM ad's.. They are nothing but spyware.. No thank you :rolleyes:

catdance
06-07-2005, 12:32 PM
I was floored and just "pissed" at this, if Alex want's this sorta thing why doesn't he invest in PARIS HILTON and we can all scream.."AARRUUGGHH"
As women and no offense to the male's on board this is outrageous after all we MADE this guy to making alot of money and to be this disrespectful, is just that.
Shoot I can bend over in a thong in my bathroom and see the damn same thing..GIVE US A MAN, I say!
Like the foxy Coca Cola dude, or whatever commerical that was.
Of course you know he is laughing his hienie off to bank on this one and more I am sure to come..
P.S. the ad is obscene..and in terrible "taste" if Alex had any at all to begin with.

BBBunny
06-07-2005, 03:48 PM
Was anyone else offended by the ad for the romance page that is on the freebie page for BBF? It has a girl bending over a car - and she has on a thong or something - shows EVERYTHING! My daughter comes on here to look for teen freebies - that ad is just a bit too much!

That same nasty ad was on the religious content page, someone is asleep in the ad-approval office :mad:

Kyla Kym
06-07-2005, 04:16 PM
I love fillergate.. I don't see any ads lol :D
DITTO!!! :D

tracyb
06-07-2005, 05:37 PM
i just logged on and that nonsense was there....and my 8 yr old girl was looking at the computer..I hurried up and scrolled down so she would not see such filth...yes it is total filth...public board shouldnot have that on...go to a private board and look at that nastiness....sorry I am jsut soooo fumed right now with the trash

CJOV
06-07-2005, 05:56 PM
I agree. It takes away from the enjoyment of searching the freebies that's for sure! :mad:

kimmylg
06-07-2005, 06:02 PM
For those who may not know, if you use Firefox Browser, and see a picture in an add you don't want to see again, you can right click on the picture, and in the menu that pops up, click on "Block Images from ....". You will no longer have to look at any more pictures from any ads from that website.

Pretty nifty, huh? :p

Bubblescc
06-07-2005, 07:53 PM
what is fillergate and how can I get it!lol

sdb_ngc
06-07-2005, 07:56 PM
I have Firefox and don't get any ads or pop ups from this site anymore. I love it.

buttrfli
06-07-2005, 08:03 PM
what is fillergate and how can I get it!lol

This is filtergate (sorry my typo above lol) http://filtergate.com/

It isn't free, but if you have your own webpage, you can link to them and they send it to you for free.. thats what I did :D

I have firefox as well and it gets rid of a lot of the ads, but the ads change so much, I hate having to click on each one to git rid of it... filtergate does it automatically.

I can't remember who posted it initially (I think it wa you kim) but thanks for turning me on to it! :D

Bubblescc
06-07-2005, 08:44 PM
thanks for the info!

justme23
06-07-2005, 08:52 PM
This is filtergate (sorry my typo above lol) http://filtergate.com/

It isn't free, but if you have your own webpage, you can link to them and they send it to you for free.. thats what I did :D

I have firefox as well and it gets rid of a lot of the ads, but the ads change so much, I hate having to click on each one to git rid of it... filtergate does it automatically.

I can't remember who posted it initially (I think it wa you kim) but thanks for turning me on to it! :D

This was my problem w/ firefox... but, I finally got sick of it and went to tools/adblock/preferences and put in my own thingie... I put in http://images.bluetime.com/bluetime/* and it effectively blocks them all from this site so I no longer have to click.

ahippiechic
06-07-2005, 08:59 PM
NIS blocks all the ads automatically and the popups too.

Aloha from paradise
06-07-2005, 10:20 PM
I keep my ad shield on at all times so I've never seen the photos you are talking about. :)

june72
06-07-2005, 10:24 PM
You all wasn't the only one..........It is such a shame when you can't walk out of the room and leave your comp on........afraid what might show up......Thank God my boys were asleep. How come this is a family board and we have to deal with that??????? Such junk :confused:

lassss
06-08-2005, 03:32 AM
the ads don't bother me at all..as a matter of fact I never even seen it until someone mentioned it.

I would much rather see that ad then go outside and see obese people wearing belly shirts, short shorts and think that looks good with rolls of fat hanging out... yuck :eek:

Willow
06-08-2005, 03:52 AM
I would much rather see that ad then go outside and see obese people wearing belly shirts, short shorts and think that looks good with rolls of fat hanging out... yuck :eek:


That's too funny. lol I was thinking the same thing yesterday when I was at the mall. The things that some people will wear. :eek: I am not making fun of them because I am also over weight. I guess I'm a people watcher and I have always been told that I'm very observant. lol When I see someone dressed in a certain way I say to myself I would never wear something like that. I would never go up to the person and say hey your fat you shouldn't dress like that. It's just something that I think to myself. Unless you have the figure for it there are certain things that you just shouldn't wear. I won't even wear shorts in the summer because I'm over weight. I prefer long skirts. I wear a size 18 which isn't as big as some of the people I have seen that dress very skimpy. I know it's summer time now and you need to dress to stay cool but you don't need to have your fat hanging out for all to see.

VALENA-)45
06-08-2005, 03:53 AM
That ad is disgusting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Who wants to wake up and look up somebodies tail, first thing in the morning, or at anytime for that matter. Alex should withdraw that ad, it is offensive and obsecne, and very demeaning to women!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was wondering what y'all were talking about, until I happen to go to the free pages for some free shopping, and up came that ass, mooning me. What in the world is wrong with Alex, money ain't everything!!!!!!!!!!!!! Alex, you need people on your board to make money!!!!!!!!!!

3lilpigs
06-08-2005, 04:00 AM
at the bottom of every page, it says CONTACT US.....
there is an email address there.....
i suggest we all use it and complain.
i doubt very much that 'alex' is sitting at his desk reading these posts. :rolleyes:

hey, if we cant use obscene language here, then obscene photos shouldnt be allowed either!

justme23
06-08-2005, 04:25 AM
at the bottom of every page, it says CONTACT US.....
there is an email address there.....
i suggest we all use it and complain.
i doubt very much that 'alex' is sitting at his desk reading these posts. :rolleyes:

hey, if we cant use obscene language here, then obscene photos shouldnt be allowed either!


That email address doesn't work anymore... and even when it did, Alex never read them, just the mods...

lassss
06-08-2005, 04:31 AM
That's too funny. lol I was thinking the same thing yesterday when I was at the mall. The things that some people will wear. :eek: I am not making fun of them because I am also over weight. I guess I'm a people watcher and I have always been told that I'm very observant. lol When I see someone dressed in a certain way I say to myself I would never wear something like that. I would never go up to the person and say hey your fat you shouldn't dress like that. It's just something that I think to myself. Unless you have the figure for it there are certain things that you just shouldn't wear. I won't even wear shorts in the summer because I'm over weight. I prefer long skirts. I wear a size 18 which isn't as big as some of the people I have seen that dress very skimpy. I know it's summer time now and you need to dress to stay cool but you don't need to have your fat hanging out for all to see.


hhehe I could stand to lose a few pounds myself but I call it like I see it. Before anyone jumps on me, I am not making fun anyone either. I would just rather look at a nice body (like the ad) then someone who should not be wearing those kind of clothes lol :)

Willow
06-08-2005, 04:54 AM
hhehe I could stand to lose a few pounds myself but I call it like I see it. Before anyone jumps on me, I am not making fun anyone either. I would just rather look at a nice body (like the ad) then someone who should not be wearing those kind of clothes lol :)


Oh I agree. I know I wouldn't look good dressed in skimpy clothing so I choose not to wear it. Even if I had the shape for it I wouldn't wear some of the clothes that I've seen some of these big girls wearing. lol

june72
06-08-2005, 06:14 AM
That's too funny. lol I was thinking the same thing yesterday when I was at the mall. The things that some people will wear. :eek: I am not making fun of them because I am also over weight. I guess I'm a people watcher and I have always been told that I'm very observant. lol When I see someone dressed in a certain way I say to myself I would never wear something like that. I would never go up to the person and say hey your fat you shouldn't dress like that. It's just something that I think to myself. Unless you have the figure for it there are certain things that you just shouldn't wear. I won't even wear shorts in the summer because I'm over weight. I prefer long skirts. I wear a size 18 which isn't as big as some of the people I have seen that dress very skimpy. I know it's summer time now and you need to dress to stay cool but you don't need to have your fat hanging out for all to see.

Overweight or skinny.........don't matter cover up!!!!! I hate seeing anyones but.......fat or skinny :eek: People don't have respect for themselves or others.............don't mean to sound rude........I am just giving my opinion! :)

Johnslambchop
06-08-2005, 08:27 AM
I'm glad to see that i'm not the only one who thinks this is inappropriate and disgusting...

LuvBigRip
06-08-2005, 09:19 AM
My ad blocker is always on, so I haven't seen it. I do know that in the time I have been coming here things have changed dramatically.

Alex didn't care about the trojans, the loss of his Moderators (some of whom had been here for years), the loss of good members, the pop ups, he certainly isn't going to care about people being offended at some lady's butt. Especially if it is earning him money. From some posts I read here and at other sites, Alex may have been behind a huge spamming scheme. This, would just be another in a long line of money making schemes. Alex is not a friend, he is a entrepeneur with all that it entails.

lassss
06-08-2005, 09:39 AM
My ad blocker is always on, so I haven't seen it. I do know that in the time I have been coming here things have changed dramatically.

Alex didn't care about the trojans, the loss of his Moderators (some of whom had been here for years), the loss of good members, the pop ups, he certainly isn't going to care about people being offended at some lady's butt. Especially if it is earning him money. From some posts I read here and at other sites, Alex may have been behind a huge spamming scheme. This, would just be another in a long line of money making schemes. Alex is not a friend, he is a entrepeneur with all that it entails.

I think the reality of it is ...no matter what the ads show, people are still gonna come here for their freebies. It's like the price of gas....yep we complain about it but we still pay it in order to drive our car. Same thing here, this is a great site for freebies and people are still gonna look here for the freebies

Katt
06-08-2005, 03:03 PM
That email address doesn't work anymore... and even when it did, Alex never read them, just the mods...

Yep, exactly.

And, I'll go out on a limb and say, I don't think Alex gives a rats butt if people want to leave because of the ad. At least, he never cared before so I don't think he is going to have a sudden change of heart. :rolleyes:

firechic
06-08-2005, 06:03 PM
Not saying I am for it, but if you don't like it, don't click it. Move on, there are other freebie sites.

mojo1991
06-08-2005, 06:11 PM
:( Yeah, that IS obscene.The tattoo one is too, really. What is WRONG with some people?? I have a hard enough time yelling at my husband about his porno crap-I don't need my kid seeing ANY of it!

Willow
06-09-2005, 03:50 AM
Not saying I am for it, but if you don't like it, don't click it. Move on, there are other freebie sites.


I think the point that a lot of people are trying to make is that this board is "supposedly" a family site. An ad like that should not be on a family site.

3lilpigs
06-09-2005, 04:33 AM
my Nortons anti virus scanner also has pop up blocker, and ad blocker. if you have Nortons, see if you can activate that too.

Chunk
06-09-2005, 04:36 AM
If he really wanted to, he could disable that ad. I run a site/forum and have accounts with most of the major ad companies. Nearly all allow you to deselect "offensive" ads.

lassss
06-09-2005, 04:40 AM
:( Yeah, that IS obscene.The tattoo one is too, really. What is WRONG with some people?? I have a hard enough time yelling at my husband about his porno crap-I don't need my kid seeing ANY of it!

have you seen MTV, VH1 or even cartoons today with all the violence, language, nudity and sexual inuendos? That ad is tame compared to what your kids and hubby are watching on tv :D

I think everyone is really making a mountain outta a mole hill with this ad..the woman is clothed...scantily..but no parts of her genitalia are showing.... :confused: ...everyone is acting like there is porn being shown here with penetration....there isn't any of that....as the mods always say..if ya don't like what is on the page..hit the back button...go to another site etc :rolleyes:

harloo
06-09-2005, 04:54 AM
The solution is very simple. If you don't like the ads their are ways to block all of them.

I have been here for awhile, and seen the board change for the worse with a bunch of pop-ups. However I also realize that since the internet boom has decreased considerably over time site owners have had to resort to banners.

This site was pop up banner free for a long time which was enjoyable, but if the site owner is not making any money from referrals and deals like before then what does everyone expect?

Does everyone think that this site is a free operation just because they send away for freebies? Let's be realistic. So if you are offended by the picture just download one of those programs suggested in this thread.

3lilpigs
06-09-2005, 04:59 AM
I think the point that a lot of people are trying to make is that this board is "supposedly" a family site. An ad like that should not be on a family site.


i think this is the whole point of the post.
yes, we realize that this site is not free to run.......but lets have a little better taste and class in what kind of advertisers they choose.
the people who get offended, whether it on here, or tv, shouldnt always have to be the ones to 'look the other way' or change the channel.

jeez! let us vent/whine! thats what this is here for!

harloo
06-09-2005, 05:08 AM
i .
the people who get offended, whether it on here, or tv, shouldnt always have to be the ones to 'look the other way' or change the channel.



As an adult you have a choice. You can block the offending ads or leave? It's up to you. :rolleyes:

harloo
06-09-2005, 05:11 AM
If people are going to be going to a new or different forum, would someone please, PLEASE PM me and let me know. I would be happy to patronage a different forum that does not conduct this type of biz.

Until then, I will be posting on a few different forums and at my own group, Freebie_Fantasy at yahoo groups.

Please, someone, keep me updated.

Krista

Their are many different free site forums that are out that don't have these types of ads at all. If you would like a list of some you can send me a pm. ;)

123taffy
06-09-2005, 05:11 AM
this is a family site accessible to anyone. ads such as these are porn plain and simple,surely alot of people here agree.nudity in this fashion is porn. why would ALEX 'OK' this type of ad knowing that children access or can access as well as adults? to me there is separation between child material and adult material. this does not belong here, and ALEX should pull this immediately. it should not have been here in the first place. everyone is extremly angered because you do not mix children with porn. it is perverse and sickens alot of people. children have a right to safe surfing on family sites. i'm sure ALEX has read these posts. whats the hold up on the removal?
shouldn't be a matter of protests to remove anyway, it should be a sickening of the stomach to which audience this ad will bring.

harloo
06-09-2005, 05:15 AM
i'm sure a mod has read these posts. whats the hold up on the removal?

Katt(a moderator) posted, here is what she stated:

And, I'll go out on a limb and say, I don't think Alex gives a rats butt if people want to leave because of the ad. At least, he never cared before so I don't think he is going to have a sudden change of heart.

Bonbonely
06-09-2005, 05:19 AM
Ok, yes, it's disrespectful, yes, it's in poor taste, yes, it's uncalled for, but it's just a butt (a very nice one that I wish mine looked like, but just a butt all the same), kinda like Janet Jackson's boob, it's just flesh. We all have them even our children. They see the same things walking down the street, riding in the car, heck even in WalMart every day. Just don't click on it, I won't. Like the subject line says it's 'almost obscene...', but not obscene.

Bonbonely
06-09-2005, 05:21 AM
For those who may not know, if you use Firefox Browser, and see a picture in an add you don't want to see again, you can right click on the picture, and in the menu that pops up, click on "Block Images from ....". You will no longer have to look at any more pictures from any ads from that website.

Pretty nifty, huh? :p

That is neat, I have it on my computer, but I've never used it. I usually use IE, but maybe I'll give FF a try.

Bonbonely
06-09-2005, 05:27 AM
I think the reality of it is ...no matter what the ads show, people are still gonna come here for their freebies. It's like the price of gas....yep we complain about it but we still pay it in order to drive our car. Same thing here, this is a great site for freebies and people are still gonna look here for the freebies


There you go!! That is the whole truth, right there. I know I'll still be here.

LuvBigRip
06-09-2005, 05:31 AM
Katt(a moderator) posted, here is what she stated:

And, I'll go out on a limb and say, I don't think Alex gives a rats butt if people want to leave because of the ad. At least, he never cared before so I don't think he is going to have a sudden change of heart.
I do not believe Katt is a Mod anymore.


have you seen MTV, VH1 or even cartoons today with all the violence, language, nudity and sexual inuendos? That ad is tame compared to what your kids and hubby are watching on tv


As for what people watch on TV, believe it or not, some people actually censor what they do and do not watch on TV.

123taffy
06-09-2005, 05:34 AM
in stores and other places, parents can see and usually remove their kids, before the trash is visible,,thats the difference. finding any reason this is acceptable for our children is just a reflection of our values. because its out there, does not mean we cave. some people do great jobs keeping their children from such material and thats great! takes a strong person to do this. not everyone is. any nudity in front of our children is wrong. period.

lassss
06-09-2005, 05:42 AM
I do not believe Katt is a Mod anymore.




As for what people watch on TV, believe it or not, some people actually censor what they do and do not watch on TV.

That is exactly my point...you can either choose to come here or not. You can only change yourself, not others....meaning you cannot make Alex take off the banners

Bonbonely
06-09-2005, 05:50 AM
in stores and other places, parents can see and usually remove their kids, before the trash is visible,,thats the difference. finding any reason this is acceptable for our children is just a reflection of our values. because its out there, does not mean we cave. some people do great jobs keeping their children from such material and thats great! takes a strong person to do this. not everyone is. any nudity in front of our children is wrong. period.

No you can't. You can shield what they see on this computer better than you can in public. My children didn't see that ad, because they don't get on the computer unless I'm standing over their shoulders, I can't be over their shoulders in public all the time.
Also she's not nude, they'll see a lot more at any beach, pool or like I said just people walking down the street or in the stores.
BTW I'm not saying this kind of stuff should be put on this kind of site, I'm just agreeing with the 'mountain/molehill' idea.

BigLyd1
06-09-2005, 07:55 AM
There's something really stupid about this. I mean I know Alex is probably making money from posting this ad. But it would be more money-generating if it was something that appealed to women and families.

Bonbonely
06-09-2005, 08:04 AM
There's something really stupid about this. I mean I know Alex is probably making money from posting this ad. But it would be more money-generating if it was something that appealed to women and families.

That's very true. I'm not implying its right, just that I can't see getting all worked up over something that we can't do anything about anyway.

janelle
06-09-2005, 08:23 AM
All those who want to know where people are going cause of all the trouble on here PM me for the info. Lots of people from here have gone elsewhere and are building up a good clean site. I can direct you to it.

Willow
06-09-2005, 09:29 AM
Anyone can join here also.
Unfortunately, BBS doesn't allow the links to Yahoo Groups to be listed.
So go there, and then look up Freebie_Fantasy.
It's a super BUSY group.

or connect the below lines together. :)
http://finance.groups.

yahoo.com/group

/Freebie_Fantasy/


It's also against the rules to try to get around it by posting the link the way you did. lol

GlitterBug
06-09-2005, 11:14 AM
Does anyone know a good banner blocker I can use? I have Ad-Aware, but it only blocks pop-up ads (that I am aware of anyway), I want something that will block banners as well.

Willow
06-09-2005, 02:53 PM
I was just over in the rc forum and the ad to the left of the page was for a free lap top. It said punch out George W. Bush and win a free lap top. lol

justme23
06-09-2005, 03:15 PM
If he really wanted to, he could disable that ad. I run a site/forum and have accounts with most of the major ad companies. Nearly all allow you to deselect "offensive" ads.

He is part OWNER of bluetime (according to recent posts)... he isn't going to turn them off, not when a lot of the ppl here aren't aware that he's been tricking them and are still clicking on the ads (a couple of months ago, they even had trojans embedded in them)... that wouldn't line his pocket if he did that.