Help me find my son - may be in Bridgeview IL

[NL1720]

Hi, I'm Monika (his Mom), his little sister, his little brother, my husband and my Mom all miss him so badly. We haven't seen him since 1998 because he lives with his dad who keeps moving on us and we can't find him. Yes - I have joint custody and I am supposed to know where he is, but everytime I track him down, he up and moves away. My son is 16 now and his name is Keith, rumored to be in Bridgeview IL, his dad rumored to be driving a tow truck also making and selling bootleg dvd's. My attorney is of no use. He says I need to locate him again so he can issue him court papers. I've also heard that my son is failing dramatically in school. And yes, I have called all the schools in that area. Either they are lying to me or he's really not attending there. We so desperately need to find him. I've tried directory assistance, no listings, probably has a cell or has a phone under another name. His dad was married but like I knew, he got divorced, again. if there is ANY way you can help me out, please PM me or send an email to [email protected]

My son's name is Keith Rohm II and his birthday is August 12th, he was named after his father. He has previously lived in Evergreen Park, Palos and Worth IL. His dad's birthday is February 19. He was previously married to Nanci Rae, they divorced in 2001.

[janelle]

Do you know your ex's SS#? He has to use it doing lots of things. Can't the authorities track him down using his number?

I watched the Dr. Phil show today and it was on this very topic.

Go to www.drphil.com and see what they are doing to track down two children for a woman. Her ex kidnapped them and hid them. He was caught and is in jail but won't say where he left the children.

[Fred12]

Good luck in your search

[janelle]

Fred, have your friend contact a Father's group in his area. They are good in giving advice since lots of them have been there, done that kind of thing and good support.

My hubby used them after his divorce and they helped them. Just a warning, it may be a cripe group and not a knowledgable about law group so he needs the ones who have knowledge about the laws surrounding divorce and his situatioin. Lawyers are good but very expensive. They are needed but others can help.

[NL1720]

yes, I know his SS# but he's been known to "work under the table", he's been crooked for years.

[YankeeMary]

http://www.nettrace.com.au/resource/search/people.html

This link has been posted on here several times, hopefully you can find this. I will pray for you. God Bless!!!

[queenangie]

Good Luck!

[Freebeemom]

Sorry this is happening to you. Actually, I live in that area. I can ask around.

Have you been to the Alsip Swap o Rama???Many DVD sellers up there...check outside...the flea market is only on weekends.

[YankeeMary]

The more this weighs on my mind the more I want to tell you to contact the police in that area. You have LEGAL RIGHTS to your son. Its their duty to uphold the law. Call the station in your ex's last known town, explain your situation, see what they say. IMO it should be considered kidnapping. If the police are not or are not willing to help you, I say call your ex's local TV station, with all these Amber Alerts, missing and murdered children, someone will eventually listen. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling. HUGS!!!

Added: If nothing else maybe the police can investigate his boot legging and bring charges against him?!

[lassss]

have you tried the county courthouse where he lives? The have public records on him if he was in any civil court ( like divorce), maybe the county even has a website you can search. I would also contact the courts and police and get them involved. I can't imagine not being able to see my son for that long..heck I miss him when he goes to his dad's for the weekend..am so sorry you are going thru all this..keep hunting and never give up. Also he is at that age that he can decide if he wants to live with you...I hope he hasn't been brainwashed and told bad things about you by his father :(

[NL1720]

Sorry this is happening to you. Actually, I live in that area. I can ask around.

Have you been to the Alsip Swap o Rama???Many DVD sellers up there...check outside...the flea market is only on weekends.


Good idea, but what the heck do I do if I see him?

[JKATHERINE]

Good idea, but what the heck do I do if I see him?


Call the cops? If they can't do anything to get your son back immediately, can they at least serve him with the papers that you need him to have?

[buttrfli]

Good idea, but what the heck do I do if I see him?

Grab on to him for dear life and don't let go! At the very least the police will be called and you can let them know what is going on.

My heart aches for you and we will keep you in our prayers.

[tiffya]

I don't have any advice for you that hasn't been given already. I totally agree that you should just hold on to him with all your might, cause a scene, whatever it takes.

I am so sorry you are going through this. God bless you!

[Shann]

This is just so sad, I'm sorry you are going through this. You and your family are in my thoughts and I Hope you are able to find him soon!

[queenangie]

http://www.servicemotor.com/stores/seymour.html

http://blueknightsoh18oh.tripod.com/id5.html

[queenangie]

http://www.wapakdailynews.com/articles/2004/03/28/news/news03.txt

http://www.proagdesigns.com/dealers_wisconsin.htm

http://www.cityfreq.com/il/worth

[NL1720]

This link http://www.cityfreq.com/il/worth has something to do with a scanner frequency, what is that? How do you listen in?

[lassss]

This link http://www.cityfreq.com/il/worth has something to do with a scanner frequency, what is that? How do you listen in?


you need a police scanner to listen to that frequency

[NL1720]

you need a police scanner to listen to that frequency


Ok, who's got a scanner?????

[NL1720]

bump

[MamaFairal]

i have a hand held scanner but i wont get that freq unless i am in IL :(

*why ya looking for him on police freq's?

[lassss]

Ok, who's got a scanner?????

you need to have the scanner in that area so you can listen. You can get them at Radio shack but make sure ya get a programmable one so you can lock in on that frequency

[LuvBigRip]

If you can, forget the attorney for now, and hire a PI.

http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/pkpa.htm

http://www.abanet.org/child/parentab.html

http://www.missingkids.com/

[Denise1972]

http://www.cityfreq.com/il/worth

Did you realize on the bottom of that website it says Keith Rohm? Was that already there, or did you have them put it there?

[Victorious]

Awww, best wishes hun!

[nosamiam]

http://www.cityfreq.com/il/worth

Did you realize on the bottom of that website it says Keith Rohm? Was that already there, or did you have them put it there?


I want to know what's up with that too.

[NL1720]

i have a hand held scanner but i wont get that freq unless i am in IL :(

*why ya looking for him on police freq's?

A previous link that someone posted had scanner links for the Worth IL Fire Dept and his name is listed on there, I'd be curious to see if it's him.

[NL1720]

http://www.cityfreq.com/il/worth

Did you realize on the bottom of that website it says Keith Rohm? Was that already there, or did you have them put it there?

Ya, I see that, that's why I need a scanner now. I just got a hot tip too, may be the place that he currently works at. So help me God if I call there and he comes to the phone - I'm hiring a damn good lawyer.

[janelle]

I thought they had an organization that would trace down deadbeat parents on child support. Have you tried one of them to help? They should be good at finding people through different means like SS# and driver's licenses.

I thought we had a person on BBS who had her ex traced. :confused: :confused:

[laughsalot]

My goodness. My heart goes out to you. I hope that you can find your son. Dont give up! We are all here for you and with all of us praying for you and your son to reunite then something great has to happen.

((NL1720))

[spongebob]

will the ex tell you any thing.do you know what is plate number is or remember. then call the dmv and say hey you found these. and would like to send them to the person.

good luck. i hope you find your son.

[NL1720]

Well he doesn't owe child support so that's not an avenue I can use. Our divorce agreement nullified the child support back then by mutual agreement. It wasn't mandatory then the way it is now.

[flute]

(((NL)))

That bites.

[NL1720]

Update:

Found out through court documents that he has been sued many a time since 2001. Looks like he lost his van, his motorcycle, house, wife (like that's a surprise) and had his cousins sue him over the business that he owned. UGH! What the heck is he putting my kid through!!!!!! :mad:

[lassss]

NL why not jump on the bandwagon and sue him too...go for full custody of your son....He prolly doesn't have the money to fight it and you can get your son...something to think about..

[Blondiex46]

I love to do this, see what I can find out.

[Blondiex46]

What year was he born and you can e-mail your name, were you married? and what was the year of the father's birth

[NL1720]

NL why not jump on the bandwagon and sue him too...go for full custody of your son....He prolly doesn't have the money to fight it and you can get your son...something to think about..

OMG! Never thought of that! BUT I need background information on what's going on in my son's life NOW to prove him an unfit parent. DARN GOOD IDEA THOUGH!!!!!!! Hmmmmmmm...

[TX_Cowgirl]

please let us know how things are going...

I hope you find your son and soon.....

many prayers for you and your sons safe return....

[NL1720]

I'll have to start searching for a better attorney than the one I got , I'm fed up with his "no help" approach. My whole household is excited and I have told my extended family as well, which brings more well wishes and prayers for me and my son. I miss him so much I could cry right now. :(

[NL1720]

Hi BBS family! I'm going to see a lawyer on Saturday morning and see what my options are. At the very least I could get my visitation restored (if they track him down enough to serve papers.) I'll keep you posted.

[NL1720]

BUMP!

Just trolling to see if anyone has any new information out there. I have received some useful information from some BBS members (who will forever remain anonymous) and I'll be seeing the attorney Saturday. If anyone can give me ANY information, no matter how trivial it may be, it'll help bigtime.

Father: Keith R Rohm born in Feb. 1960
My Son: Keith R Rohm II born in Aug. 1988, is 16 now.

Father may be employed by a towing service around the Alsip IL area and may reside in or around Bridgeview IL. I have had no luck in tracking down what school he goes to either.

Thanks to everyone who has wishes us well and said prayers!!

[sdmay3]

Someone posted this site yesterday
http://www.zabasearch.com

I was able to find every address I have ever lived at. Hope this helps.

[NL1720]

I think I got a good lead! He's residing in Worth IL.

[NL1720]

Update: saw an real good nice attorney today and we have two choices as to how to get my son back. One nice, one not so nice. Wish me luck! I'm going to get him.

[lassss]

Update: saw an real good nice attorney today and we have two choices as to how to get my son back. One nice, one not so nice. Wish me luck! I'm going to get him.

good luck , I wish you the best in getting your son back

[firechick]

I hope that everything works out for the best for you!
{{{HUGS****** I'm so glad you found a good lawyer and where the ex lives.....
Good Luck
Kelly