oh just need a hug

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[DJ88GIRL]

Sending you lots of BIG {{{{{HUGS**********, have you checked to see if there are any parent groups in your area? Just remember God gives special people special children. I found this on the net:Join a Parent Group
When you join a parent group, you will meet other parents who have traveled down the same road. Learn from them. They will help you learn the "rules of the game." To find the right group for you, http://www.wrightslaw.com/archives.htm
I just found this too ;)

Oklahoma Parents Center, Inc.
4700 SE 29th, Suite 115
Del City, OK 73115
405-619-0500 877-553-4332 (Toll Free for Parents Only Please)
Fax: 405-670-0776
Email: [email protected]

[reneep45]

((((hugs)))) my daughter has a friend with a son exactly like yours. my daughter babysits him & she loves him very much.
i wish i could help you, being a mommy is a hard job & i know this is very hard for you and your family.
We are all here for you , if you'd like to talk ,, email me your phone # , i'll call you , i can hook you up with others with what you are dealing with.
[email protected]

((((((((big Hugggsss)))))

[renagade]

HUGGS to you cat!

[cinnamonch]

Catrina,

where in OKlahoma are you?

[catssass]

(((((HUGS)))))....and prayers

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[tracyb]

prayers to you hun....I would love to see a picture of your beautiful baby boy can you post it here i am sure nobody will make a comment on him...he is beautiful no matter what he looks like....God has never made anything ugly....well me of course....lol...but send a picture please if you cant do it your self email it to somebody who can and they will do it for you....I use tsquared....sorry tom...lol
but here is a hug from my family to yours....(((((((((hugs))))))))))))

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[menanamama]

just want to tell you.............your son is perfect and don't ever let anyone make you think differently. having a special needs child myself, i know what you mean and how you feel. there is a reason you were given this child and that is because you can provide him the best care. i would suggest that you talk to cps about respite care. head start has much experience with this and they are great ppl. you may have to have a person come in once a week to go over progress or regression but it is a small price to pay to get a break and you NEED a break every now and again!
hang in there and i am always (nearly always) available if you feel the need to chat or cry on a shoulder. support groups are an excellent idea.

[menanamama]

thankyou prayers and hugs are always needed and welcomed :) (((huggers)))



i dont want to seem like a baby i just want the best for my son like everyone elese does. i am feeling better now i just had a bad moment. Dallas would not eat dinner didnt eat breakfast or lunch and i kept guessing what he wanted but he never guessed right :( he was crying and i kept asking whats wrong ofcource with no answer :( were guessing he had a snack at school so thats why he would not eat. I just hate so much to see him cry so hard and so long and us not beable to FIX IT! :( and him not able to let us know what he wants or needs. we just keep guessing until we run out of guesses :( he did finally take a bath( he loves bath time * its a new thing he likes lol spash mommy!* so he took a bath and went to sleep. were having to break him from naps so thats rough on him also :( its just soooo frustrating when he wants something but we cant tell what he wants or needs. :( its a parents worse nightmare and very hard to live this way. i am so sick of hearing how easy this is. its not easy! at all. financailly it is very very rough ( only certian toys certian food certian sippy cup! certian plates. if it is not perfect for dallas forget it! he wont eat drink or sleep:( certian bedding and bed everything! just wish it could be easy for once . he deserves better!is he autistic? sounds very much like my dd, although she is higher functioning as they call it. if he is he would qualify for disability as long as you two did not make too much money and it would help out financially.

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[joesbaby]

what beautiful children. i love how cute that picture is of the two of them together. its so cute. and she looks like such a little cheerleader, thats what my middle dd wants to be too. people who say evil things to you, have no clue what its like to have disabled family members. and they would be the ones who break if it happend to them. you are a strong woman, and you should be very proud of yourself.

have a good day, dont be so hard on yourself and know you are a good mother.

hugs,
ericka

[menanamama]

(huggers) thankyou so much! Headstart is only to age 3 so we cant have that nomore. we dont qualify for respit :( or state help :( so kinda out of luck there. if we want to pay a babysitter is it 10 a hour!! plus andrianna's fee. its because he is special need so price goes up!!:( i JUST HOPE AND PRAY I AM A GOOD MOMMY TO DALLAS!:( I WORRY ABOUT THAT ALL THE TIME! :(
you are! if you take the time with him like you say you do and post to get help then you are. it is very rough but he is worth it isn't he...lol.

AND THAT BOY DOES NOT LOOK WEIRED OR EVIL TO ME! he looks just like any other roudy lil boy!

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[cinnamonch]

Well Catrina,

If i were closer (i'm in tulsa), i would be more than happy to help you out. I just pray that people become more open minded and realize we all have limitations, some are just more visable than others.

by the way, love that shirt he has on :)

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[tracyb]

my goodness he is a handsome little man......dot let anybody tell you anything different.....yes he might be alittle different but thank God we are not all alike or this would be a boring world..God gave you a very special son because he knew that you would love an cherish him....lovely daughter also....but jsut to say it again HE IS HANDSOME.....no i am not just saying that to make you feel better he looks alot like june72's nephew when he was younger
MAY GOD STRENGTHEN YOUR ARMS TO CARRY THE LOAD AND TO HUG AND CHERISH YOUR 2 BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN...MANY BLESSING TO YOUR FAMILY

[jcw]

You have 2 beautiful children. I wish there was something I could do to make things easier for you. God gave Dallas to you because you are a special lady with lots of love and patience and he knew you could handle anything.Sounds like you two really have a special bond. He's a lucky little guy to have you.Hugs to you and your son.

[june72]

they are both adorable. dallas looks like his big sissy.

dont worry about what people say god made him perfect! this world is what is messed up not your baby.
It takes a special person to take care of a child with special needs. keep up the good work mom. Hold your head up high and be proud (as i know you are) to be called dallas's mom. you are doing a wonderful job.
i thank god for people like you! you truely are a remarkable woman!!!!!!!!!
thank you for sharing your pictures of your precious children, they truely are BOTH beautiful.

god bless you and your family! i will be praying for strength for your whole family. many prayers and hugs coming your way!

[tarasdream]

your children are beautiful! your son is so handsome! i wished you lived in florida i would help you with him, just remember god gave him to you, and im sure he has a real purpose in this world, and he is going to touch a lot of peoples hearts.

[DreamWarrior]

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[joni1269]

(((((HUGS)))))

You sound like a wonderful mother! Your kids are fortunate they have you in their lives. You just keep on keeping on girl!

[llbriteyes]

thats all just a hug. Just wishing dallas could understand me and respond to me. wish he could play with he could enjoy life and not have to suffer daily in pain :( I love him more then life its self . He is who he is and he is perfect in my eyes. but sometimes ppl can be very cruel and that makes me so very sad :( i wish when i showed his picture ppl would not say. whats wrong with your child! nothing he is perfect whats wrong with you!? They are not asking nicely either they say it RUDELY like he is a freak! he is NOT!! He is MY SON! I love him no matter what! he is my SUNSHINE! and i am VERY sick of people saying oh it cant be that hard! uh ok! he is 5 and cant tell us what he wants or NEEDS when he cries. he is still a baby* yeah litterly* and it is not easy at all . it is frustrating and draining. and the hardest thing i have ever done. we dont get time off we dont get to go to dinner alone . or just out. we have NOONE to help us. Now i love him to death and would not change being his mommy for the world but once in a while would be nice to go out with hubby.Andrianna does understand why bubba is like a baby but size of a 3/4 yr old. She dont understand why she wont respond to her :( she is so good with him though she is such a good big sister!!! I dont even understand my self so how do i explain it to a 7 yr old?? I hug him hold him and love him 24 hours a day and i love it that way. I just wish he would respond to me when he cries or needs something. I wish he would eat. I wish he could see. I wish he was not autistic I wish i wish i wish. But in the end he is my perfect sunshine and i am so glad and HONORED He is mine.
Catrina

((((((( Catrina )))))

Linda

[Kelsey1224]

Precious boy. Here are hugs to you. I wish people were more sensitive and understanding...but let's face it...some people are just jerks.

[Tasha405]

Your kids are adorable! My favorite pic is the one of them together, back to back. Its very cute. :)

(((Hugs)))

[queenangie]

Your children are precious!

Sending Hugs your direction!

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[CatrinaF25]

Your kids are adorable! My favorite pic is the one of them together, back to back. Its very cute. :)

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thankyou! that is my fav pic also!!