ezmoney163
10-13-2004, 11:42 AM
I am having some trouble in school ( panic sets in when I sit down to take a test) so I got a tutor, she is so nice. We are having some financial problems so I am cutting back on different optional things, (not a big deal there), I am having times my hubby and I are st each other, just from all the stress from our new adjustment.
Now the big thing, we got a call on Sunday and we have to move by March 1st. Our landlord has decided to sell the house we live in. Yes he gave us first opportunity to buy it for $90,000. There is no way we are going to do that it is not worth it and houses like this do not sell for that much around here. Needless to say I am now in the process of looking for another place to live here in our area, at least just till I graduate. I am comfortable with my sitter and my DD is settled in school. Also there is no way I am going to move in the middle of winter, that would be awful. Anyway, my hubby says the reason it is said March is so the house will have heat in it all winter at no cost to Landlord. Mind you our gas bill is $241 a month on a budget plan, it is something he just doesn't want to pay for.
Also there is a snot nose girl in my class, who is talking crap behind my back, so yes, I confronted her. I said if you wanna say something about me, then tell me, not anyone else. She was just in shock that I knew. So anyway, I said ya know I talk to everyone in this class so no matter what is said or who says it, you can guarantee it is going to get back to me. I also said maybe you don't notice but everyone talks to me, and pretty much the only ones who talk with you is the people who have to, because they all know you talk about them to anyone who will listen. She didn't know what to say. then she said well people think you’re nosey. I am like what?? Who and what am I nosey about?? I don't ask anyone anything that I have not heard about?? She says well when we are sitting there at lunch and you say "So what are you making for dinner?" I about flipped, I was like you are so ignorant, grow the heck up, no one says that, that is not being nosey, that is a way to converse. I told her she was ignorant and basically let her stand there as I went back to class. Later I was talking to a teacher about a class assignment and we were discussing developmental stages. I asked here what is adolescent, child and juvenile. So she answered adolescent = teen, child = elementary age. I said well what about juvenile, she said well as you already know there are juveniles in this class room, ;) and she winked at me and smiled.
Also there is another situation going on in our class, there is this guy who thinks he has to have a relationship going on with in the class. He has been trying really hard to get attention for any girl, well he went for one end of the class room to the next ( needless to say weather you are married or not he will try to be "friendly", to get him to leave me alone I told him "Hey I am married and I don't need this, I am married and have no interest in anyone else, I don't mind talking with you during class about class stuff but that is where it ends. " It still took a few days for it to sink in but he now knows that I have no interest that way. TG!!!) Anyway, he finally after 3 months has found someone in the class who will pay him that kind of attention, guess what!! she sits right beside me. Oh and how annoying. All they do is pass notes all day long!! It is so distracting. It went from one extreme to the next, he was sleeping in class and it was distracting well now all the note passing is because there are not discrete, he throws it over his head and where ever it lands it lands, which includes in front of me. :rolleyes: The teachers see it going on but will not say anything because they say "It is their money paying for it so if they don’t want to pay attention that is up to them." Well really it isn't their money, 2 different programs are paying for them to sit there (OVR and SPOK) :mad: Then there are people like me who are paying for it and can not pay attention due to all the activity beside me. Oh and no I can not move seats till we get our new assignments. :confused:
Oh and to top things off, notice the time..... I should be at clinical but both boys are sick, one is fussy, the other is feverish, throwing up ,and headache, and I have a headache too. :( :o
Well if you got this far thanks for listening!! I really just needed to get that out!
Now the big thing, we got a call on Sunday and we have to move by March 1st. Our landlord has decided to sell the house we live in. Yes he gave us first opportunity to buy it for $90,000. There is no way we are going to do that it is not worth it and houses like this do not sell for that much around here. Needless to say I am now in the process of looking for another place to live here in our area, at least just till I graduate. I am comfortable with my sitter and my DD is settled in school. Also there is no way I am going to move in the middle of winter, that would be awful. Anyway, my hubby says the reason it is said March is so the house will have heat in it all winter at no cost to Landlord. Mind you our gas bill is $241 a month on a budget plan, it is something he just doesn't want to pay for.
Also there is a snot nose girl in my class, who is talking crap behind my back, so yes, I confronted her. I said if you wanna say something about me, then tell me, not anyone else. She was just in shock that I knew. So anyway, I said ya know I talk to everyone in this class so no matter what is said or who says it, you can guarantee it is going to get back to me. I also said maybe you don't notice but everyone talks to me, and pretty much the only ones who talk with you is the people who have to, because they all know you talk about them to anyone who will listen. She didn't know what to say. then she said well people think you’re nosey. I am like what?? Who and what am I nosey about?? I don't ask anyone anything that I have not heard about?? She says well when we are sitting there at lunch and you say "So what are you making for dinner?" I about flipped, I was like you are so ignorant, grow the heck up, no one says that, that is not being nosey, that is a way to converse. I told her she was ignorant and basically let her stand there as I went back to class. Later I was talking to a teacher about a class assignment and we were discussing developmental stages. I asked here what is adolescent, child and juvenile. So she answered adolescent = teen, child = elementary age. I said well what about juvenile, she said well as you already know there are juveniles in this class room, ;) and she winked at me and smiled.
Also there is another situation going on in our class, there is this guy who thinks he has to have a relationship going on with in the class. He has been trying really hard to get attention for any girl, well he went for one end of the class room to the next ( needless to say weather you are married or not he will try to be "friendly", to get him to leave me alone I told him "Hey I am married and I don't need this, I am married and have no interest in anyone else, I don't mind talking with you during class about class stuff but that is where it ends. " It still took a few days for it to sink in but he now knows that I have no interest that way. TG!!!) Anyway, he finally after 3 months has found someone in the class who will pay him that kind of attention, guess what!! she sits right beside me. Oh and how annoying. All they do is pass notes all day long!! It is so distracting. It went from one extreme to the next, he was sleeping in class and it was distracting well now all the note passing is because there are not discrete, he throws it over his head and where ever it lands it lands, which includes in front of me. :rolleyes: The teachers see it going on but will not say anything because they say "It is their money paying for it so if they don’t want to pay attention that is up to them." Well really it isn't their money, 2 different programs are paying for them to sit there (OVR and SPOK) :mad: Then there are people like me who are paying for it and can not pay attention due to all the activity beside me. Oh and no I can not move seats till we get our new assignments. :confused:
Oh and to top things off, notice the time..... I should be at clinical but both boys are sick, one is fussy, the other is feverish, throwing up ,and headache, and I have a headache too. :( :o
Well if you got this far thanks for listening!! I really just needed to get that out!