do people EVER grow up ?

[gonnascream]

** warning ** this may be long !

Dh has this buddy from high school he has kept in touch with, who has this GF "taylor". Everything is all hunky dory, they keep in touch by email.I personally have never spoken to them at all, just glanced over the emails they would send every once in awhile. Well his buddy let one of dh's ex gf move in as a roomate (they dated in high school, nothing big, just a fling), anyway her name is "carla" .so taylor is not real bright in the head, she lets this broad move in knowing that basically carla is the town bicycle :rolleyes:

Well taylor emails dh, telling her she has some really big news, and that she is "buggin" (wtf does that mean ?)I tell dh's he tells me to just reply back that he is working 12 hour shifts and he'll talk to them when he can. well she reply back, wanting DH to call her. I tell her again that we don't have long distance on this phone. Well she replys again telling DH how carla moved in with them and now carla is telling taylor that she slept with her BF and all this blah blah blah. I email her back, telling her that I didn't like carla anyway cause she had tried to cause some drama between me & dh at his parents house and I told her where to stick it, and so on :cool: so if she didn't want carla causing her problems then she just needed to kick her out, plain and simple.

she emailed me back wanting to know if I would come to her town and kick carla's butt for her !!! :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: Im like holy crap you need to grow up and take care of your own business (keep in mind I have NEVER met this girl at all )and leave us out of it. then she sat there and said that since DH is a friend I should "have her back" girl I don't know you.
I told her that I was not getting arrested over the fact you let a tramp move in your house. Nows she is emailing DH telling him what a b*tch I am, and how Im not helping her out.

Dh is just rolling his eyes at it all. I mean, we live like 2 hours away. WTH do they expect us to do ? it's completly moronic, and this girl is my age.

I just had to get this out, I didn't know to either pull my hair or laugh at this.

[hotwire]

besides the fact that the other guy is a friend of your hubby...what does any of it have to do with him or you?? i would send back one final email to her and tell her you dont want to hear about it...then block her email address. no sense in dragging it on, and creating more problems.

LMAO @ 'town bicycle'......i have never heard that phrase! i'll have to remember it.

[Quaker_Parrots]

I would have your DH email her and tell her he is the BF's friend first and formost, and it is not his responsibility to keep her bf's pants zipped, period. Especially when she was the one who opened the door to the town bicycle. Didn't she know when the girl moved in, that everyone has had a spin? (#1 rule in relationships, no matter how much you trust your guy, NEVER let another woman move into your home unless they are immediate family of the guy---ie mom, sister, aunt, cousin would be stretching it.)

[MamaFairal]

Drive the 2 hours to this town
Kick "TAYLORS" butt......(instead for involving you guys)

and smile and wave as ya drive away............
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block their email :D

[gonnascream]

thats exactly my feelings on it, I am like "what does it have to do with us ?" and really , it does nothing.

I do know one thing if we did get involved, carla would probably turn around and start drama by saying she is sleeping with DH. she tried it once, and I caught her lying. I asked her where his tattoo was, she told me a dragon on his left hip. he was like "really I got a tattoo ???" cause he dropped his pants in front of everyone and showed them he didn't have one (dh is not real subtle).

drama, drama, drama

[hotwire]

thats exactly my feelings on it, I am like "what does it have to do with us ?" and really , it does nothing.

I do know one thing if we did get involved, carla would probably turn around and start drama by saying she is sleeping with DH. she tried it once, and I caught her lying. I asked her where his tattoo was, she told me a dragon on his left hip. he was like "really I got a tattoo ???" cause he dropped his pants in front of everyone and showed them he didn't have one (dh is not real subtle).

drama, drama, drama

see......you already know she is going to start crap. why even put yourself through it. just block her emails. your hubby doesnt sound too interested in it either. (which is a good thing)

[gonnascream]

he dosen't want to block the emails cause he is friends with the guy. And apparently the BF dosen't know that she is using his account to email us. Thats the only thing that he see's as not wanting to dump his friend.

[hotwire]

too bad you cant send her emails back to hubbys friend to let him know whats going on, and let him deal with it. if he is any kind of friend, he will put a stop to it.

[Angel Lips]

Drive the 2 hours to this town
Kick "TAYLORS" butt......(instead for involving you guys)

and smile and wave as ya drive away............
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I agree, just kick taylors butt for being a scardy cat and not sticking up for herself

[Chiizii]

...is the town bicycle :rolleyes:

Goodness! What a phrase! I laughed so hard my sides hurt! May I use this phrase? :p

[gonnascream]

go for it. there's also

like a racecar
like a doorknob
like a vacume cleaner
like a 7-11.........................

the rest are too raunchy

[1tiredmom]

too bad you cant send her emails back to hubbys friend to let him know whats going on, and let him deal with it. if he is any kind of friend, he will put a stop to it.


whenever you get an email from her just send it back to by pressing reply only you haven't replied anything like return to sender w/snail mail

[amysusi]

I say play a childish game on them. Tell Taylor Carla is talking trash about here and thell Carla Taylor is doing the same. Let them beat the crap out of each other.

[Shann]

Why not be nice and have your hubby talk to his best friend and see what's going on and letting him know that taylor has emailed you and is upset over this situation. I know that you don't know her and it's a bit out of the ordinary, but maybe she is a really great person and doesn't know what to do. Maybe this way hubby's friend can talk to taylor who will in turn will stop emailing you and maybe the drama will be over with... (although if the whole accusations are true, your hubby's friend is a dog!)

[iluvmybaby]

:rolleyes: My response to her email would be five words

Grow up and get a life

And can anyone tell me what buggin means :eek: LOL I am 21 and I dont know that phrase. How old is she, 12??? Shes acting like it. I would forward the emails to ur mutual friend and get it over with, then she woulld have something to be buggin over :)

[queenangie]

I don't think that Buddy just wants a bicycle....he wants the tandom --bicycle built for 2!

[joey74]

From what I understand "buggin" means something like freaking out. At least that is what I have gathered from television, its not exacally a staple word in my vocabulary.

[hotwire]

From what I understand "buggin" means something like freaking out. At least that is what I have gathered from television, its not exacally a staple word in my vocabulary.

yes, thats what it means.........at least thats what it meant back in the early 90's when i first heard it! lol....i cant believe people still say it!

[gonnascream]

:rolleyes: My response to her email would be five words

Grow up and get a life

And can anyone tell me what buggin means :eek: LOL I am 21 and I dont know that phrase. How old is she, 12??? Shes acting like it. I would forward the emails to ur mutual friend and get it over with, then she woulld have something to be buggin over :)

ok, I talked this out with an old girlfriend of mine. She read all the emails, and decided that "taylor" who is white, grew up in a little town of 50 in ky, no where near any ghetto, is speaking in a language called "EBONICS" apparently it's slang. I told her she sounded so ignorant when she writes out these emails. I mean, for crying out loud, if you passed 8th grade english, then please, humor me and act like it. I know Im sounding like a snob, but this just gets on my nerves.

she sent another one last night, asking me to 'plzzz' not keep dh from her, that he's a good friend and to 'plzzz' let her talk to him. I have told her 1000 times that if he wants to talk to her then he will. I just reminded her that she pulled him into some drama before and he dosen't want any part of it, and not to be accusing me of anything, friend or not, he is my hubby, and really I didn't care for him being around a girl thats BUGGIN'.

so far, no email today :)

[hotwire]

Quote:
ok, I talked this out with an old girlfriend of mine. She read all the emails, and decided that "taylor" who is white, grew up in a little town of 50 in ky, no where near any ghetto, is speaking in a language called "EBONICS" apparently it's slang. I told her she sounded so ignorant when she writes out these emails. I mean, for crying out loud, if you passed 8th grade english, then please, humor me and act like it. I know Im sounding like a snob, but this just gets on my nerves.



no, your not a snob. i feel the same way as you. i cant stand that kind of stuff........but thats a TOTALLY DIFFERENT VENT/WHINE that i could go on for, for hours! lol
I do hope you get it taken care of. has hubby done or said anything lately to them?

[gonnascream]

nope. he's been working 12 hour straight shifts at the plant. He dosen't have much time for me, and even less for his friends. His business right now is : work - food -shower -sleep. and it goes like that. He said when he goes up there this weekend he is going to talk to his buddy, and let his GF know face to face that we don't want to be involved.

[texasgander]

Why even respond to the emails? Just ignore them......delete, delete, delete.....