SouthOSane
07-13-2004, 11:14 AM
This morning I get up, go downstairs, my iguana, that I've had for years (I made hubby buy him for me years ago, thought he was so cute, the iguana that is), was laying on his back on the bottom of his cage. Vet doesn't think he'll make it thru the day. He's there now, in a warmer, trying to get his temp. up. I'm signing the release for him to stay and the desk girl says to the vet "Is this even necessary?" ..I know it's bad, I didn't need that..
While I'm there work calls, did I do this, did I do that. I tell them no I didn't because I didn't have "approval" like the owner says I need & I didn't feel like being yelled at again. I caught crap Saturday because suddenly it's my job to take care of so many things but I"M JUST A DRINK JOCKEY, no where am I anything but, but no now I'm in charge of so many things, like going in on my days off to take care of bookings & getting the people set up (bands, musicians, DJ's).
Last night a former "friend" (seems I'm dropping them better then bad habits lately) comes in to gripe at me. Saturday he shows up at the bar, slides something *illegal* to a customer he doesn't know. She tells me about it & says well I thought you guys were friends. I said "we were till I needed a true friend & he wasn't". I gave him crap for doing what he did in my bar & he got pissed at me for doing so, saying it's not my business what he does. I told him it is my business when it happens in my bar. (jerk is lucky I didn't just call the police). Then tells me he didn't appriciate me saying about us not being friends. Do what you want with your life, just don't bring it to MY JOB, and think nothing of it.
Last week, I just needed someone to sit with. My so called friend shows up & acts like a jerk to me over nothing & leaves. I called a real friend who left work, was planning on just going home, but came to sit with me.
Thursday, got the news from the doctor of I can try one more time to see if birth control pills help me, finally ok a hysterectomy (I've been refusing for two years) or have my uterus cauterized & more of my cervix removed & hope that fixes it.
Where's hubby? Too busy..for everything he tells me he's too busy..
Vet called, my iguana died..
While I'm there work calls, did I do this, did I do that. I tell them no I didn't because I didn't have "approval" like the owner says I need & I didn't feel like being yelled at again. I caught crap Saturday because suddenly it's my job to take care of so many things but I"M JUST A DRINK JOCKEY, no where am I anything but, but no now I'm in charge of so many things, like going in on my days off to take care of bookings & getting the people set up (bands, musicians, DJ's).
Last night a former "friend" (seems I'm dropping them better then bad habits lately) comes in to gripe at me. Saturday he shows up at the bar, slides something *illegal* to a customer he doesn't know. She tells me about it & says well I thought you guys were friends. I said "we were till I needed a true friend & he wasn't". I gave him crap for doing what he did in my bar & he got pissed at me for doing so, saying it's not my business what he does. I told him it is my business when it happens in my bar. (jerk is lucky I didn't just call the police). Then tells me he didn't appriciate me saying about us not being friends. Do what you want with your life, just don't bring it to MY JOB, and think nothing of it.
Last week, I just needed someone to sit with. My so called friend shows up & acts like a jerk to me over nothing & leaves. I called a real friend who left work, was planning on just going home, but came to sit with me.
Thursday, got the news from the doctor of I can try one more time to see if birth control pills help me, finally ok a hysterectomy (I've been refusing for two years) or have my uterus cauterized & more of my cervix removed & hope that fixes it.
Where's hubby? Too busy..for everything he tells me he's too busy..
Vet called, my iguana died..