Update on DH

[Safire]

The tumor is inoperatable. It has grown into his pelvic bone and is tangled up in the veins going down into his legs plus his right kidney has now failed.
Things are looking pretty grim :(
The doctors are telling me to pray for a miracle.
Right now he is still in the hospital, will be for a few more days.
Then 5 weeks to recover from this surgery before they do both chemo & radiation. After 3 months of that another CT Scan.
If the chemo & radiation is working then that will be great, if there is no change or it has grown then he will be pronounced terminal and he will have maybe 6 months to 2 years.
He has wasted away to almost nothing already.
He needs all the prayers he can get.
BBS Prayer Team.....I NEED YOU !!!
TIA

[justinenycole26]

I am so sorry. I will be praying for your family.

[Unicornmom77]

Oh lord!! I am praying praying praying for you and your family Safire

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~Wendy

[jonette5]

Sending you and your hubby big hugs, lots of prayers and cancer fighting vibes!

[YankeeMary]

I will pray for strength for you and recovery for him. I am so sorry that you are going through this...God Bless.

[Jaxx]

prayers being said for your family

{{{Safire}}}

[tsquared]

I will keep your family in my prayers

[DivineMsDi]

Keeping you in our prayers...I am sorry for your DH.....seems like our family has had our share and more of illness this year as well. Try to take care of yourself at this time. Keep posting. We're here for you.

[Angel Lips]

IU am sorry you and your hubby have to go through this. sending you good vibes and prayers. (((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))

[JKATHERINE]

My thoughts are with you and your family!

[woleys]

you and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers. {{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}

[bribella]

Oh , I'm so sorry and I will include your family in my prayers.

[sahmsfreeb]

sending prayers his way.........

[mesue]

You and your husband are in my prayers. Just a suggestion, there is a lot of research on green teas and soy being great cancer fighters, do some research on it but if you would like me too I will be glad to look for and post some threads. I mention this because it helps to feel empowered during these times and if it can help and not do harm then its worth a try. Try to not neglect yourself. Take good care of yourself too, its important for you to get rest and eat well during this time so that you will be strong enough to be there for him. Let your friends and family help during this time, its important for them to be able to and it helps you out as well.

I went ahead a and searched and got back a ton of websites, I went to http://www.msn.com/ and used the search on their page and typed in, soy a cancer fighter, and got back a lot of websites from colleges and medical places choose which one you see as being the most reliable.
Also there is a tea called Jason Winters tea. It is one of the green ones with the most healing power from what I have read, you can find it at health food stores and also buy it online. It is said to filter out the toxins in the blood thus building up the immune system thus making the body stronger to fight. You can buy soy in tablets and a lot of foods are bing made with it today, from cheese, note the cheese is sold in produce aisle, to milk, to all kind of other products and it also comes in capsule form too. I don't know if this info would be of interest to you since some people believe in it and others don't, but thought I would list it just in case.

[catdance]

<sigh>..I am so sorry for you and your DH..I am sure this the worst news possible, I send you lots of prayers, and big ((HUGS)), I will think and pray for you and your family alot..

[Tasha405]

You and your hubby are in my thoughts and prayers. {{{{{Hugs}}}}}

[~Roxy~]

(((((((Hugs&Prayers)))))))))))))

[schsa]

Whatever decisions you make, be sure that you keep in mind what your husband wants and needs. Make plans for the worst and for the best. It is going to be very hard on everyone. I hope whatever happens it is what is best for your family.

[MommyG3]

My prayers are with you. You are NOT alone. I have a dear friend who also has an inoperable tumor. She has 3 girls, ages 13, 11, and 8. The dr.s tell her she MAY see her oldest graduate, but doubtful. ((((((((hugs)))))))))

[Dolly<3]

(((((Safire & Family))))) I'm sorry. I wish there was something I could do.

[nanajoanie]

I lost Tice, dear hubby and soulmate, to non-operable lung cancer last Dec. I understand what you are going thru. My family and closest friends and hospice helped me get thru it all. Even the BBS family helped me. Open up to your family and close friends and let them surround you both with love. My heart goes out to you and your dear hubby along with many prayers and huggles cancer fighting gremlins.........

[bell_peaches]

I am so sorry to hear about DH I am saying my prayers for the both of you. Please keep us posted. If you need anything pm me. PRAYERS

[MsLynn]

prayers goin up

[queenangie]

(((((((Hugs&Prayers)))))))))))))

[kriskay]

So sorry to hear that. Will keep you, your hubby and family in my thoughts and prayers.

[Angel_Wings]

You and your husband will be in my prayers.

[mimi37]

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

[kelly12569]

big huge tight squeezin hugs hun

[jcw]

I am so sorry. I will be praying for your family