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KATinKY
04-12-2004, 09:22 AM
I wished they would send our troops home. So many of them are getting killed, and It breaks my heart!

http://www.cnn.com/2004/US/Northeast/04/12/sister.soldiers.ap/index.html
http://i.a.cnn.net/cnn/2004/US/Northeast/04/12/sister.soldiers.ap/story.witmers.ap.jpg

Family of slain soldier pleads for sisters
Monday, April 12, 2004 Posted: 9:23 AM EDT (1323 GMT)



The Witmer family shares a hug on December 7. Michelle, right, was killed


NEW BERLIN, Wisconsin (AP) -- With three daughters serving in Iraq, John and Lori Witmer had a family Web site with photos from Baghdad, notes to home and messages of encouragement.

"Keep praying! They're almost home!" a recent entry says.

But the top notice, dated Sunday, carried grim news: "We regret to inform you that Michelle Witmer was killed in action April 9th. ..."

The 20-year-old private died when her Humvee was ambushed in Baghdad, making her the first woman in the Wisconsin National Guard to die in combat.

Her family is asking the military to stop her sisters from being sent back to Iraq after this week's funeral.

"I can't live another year like I've lived this one," John Witmer told The Associated Press. "The sacrifice that this family's made can never be understood by someone who hasn't gone through it... It's a burden I can't bear. My family can't bear it."

Michelle's 24-year-old sister, Rachel, served in the same unit, the 32nd Military Police Company, which was expected to leave Iraq shortly but just had its duty extended 120 days.

Charity Witmer, Michelle's twin, was sent to Iraq late last year as a medic with Company B of the Wisconsin Guard's 118th Medical Battalion.

The surviving sisters were expected home Monday, two days before Michelle's funeral. The Witmers also have two sons.

The family said state National Guard leaders agreed to take their appeal to the Pentagon on Monday. Relatives also were seeking help from Sen. Russ Feingold, and Rep. F. James Sensenbrenner Jr.

John Witmer acknowledged the final decision of whether to return will be up to his daughters. But he said they would have to understand "how terribly we need to know they're not going back."

Witmer said he worried about his daughters joining the military but felt at the time that duty with the National Guard would be relatively safe, especially with a military police unit.

"My daughters wanted the freedom of being able to call their shots with their education," he said. "They were using that to go to school."

Jan Pretzel, the sisters' grandmother, told the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel that by February, Michelle had an inkling her unit might soon ship out of Iraq because members were told to tell their families to stop shipping packages.

"This is a REALLY GOOD SIGN!!" she wrote in an e-mail. "The redeployment process (though it may be long) is finally beginning! There is finally a light at the end of the tunnel!"

shellayne
04-12-2004, 09:49 AM
THis is so sad and it is happening every day. Pray for this family!!

kelly12569
04-12-2004, 10:19 AM
How sad. my thoughts and prayers with this family to get thru this horrible time. :(

KATinKY
04-12-2004, 10:26 AM
they did have where you could post a message on thier web site, but they must have fixed it to where you can't visit their site now, maybe for security reasons, huh?
either way this is sad, and I hope they let her sisters stay home, and not send them back to Iraq, I couldnt even imagine what this family is going through. My heart goes out to them.

schsa
04-12-2004, 11:12 AM
It's going to get much worse. I heard one of the political comments programs discussing how this could end up as another Vietnam. All I can say is that as long as people are willing to give up their lives and fight our troops for trying to pull their country back together again, our children are going to die.

I feel so sorry for this family. But they are not alone and there will be more and more families burying their children. He said that they joined because it would be safe and they could get a college education. Things don't always turn out the way you think they will.

D2230
04-12-2004, 11:50 AM
I just wanted to say something here, I am the wife of a US Army Soldier (of 16 yrs), I am very sad about what is happening. I am very sorry for the family of this young woman, and I will keep them in my prayers. As I will keep prayers in my heart for the 23 soldiers who died this past week, and the hundreds since this war began.

That being said, I also have to say that the fact is, when these young people join the Army, this is a very real possibility. Our country is at war and our troops are there. Women (in general) asked to be at the front lines, they demanded equality in combat. And they are now there, and most of them don't like it. If all she wanted was a college education, there are a number of grants, loans, and scholarships.

I am probably going to catch alot of heck for this, but it's true. I will pray for her family and I will pray that if her sister has to go back she returns safe, just as I pray for every soldier fighting for his/her country. I have been there, praying for my husband to come home to me. Praying for him to stay safe. And I have been there for families of those who didn't make it home safe.

There are many stories that never make it to CNN or the front page of the paper, about soldiers who are brothers/sisters fighting together in Afgan/Iraq.... it is not something limited to this family. I hope she doesn't have to go back, I wish none of the soldiers had to be there, but the Army is loseing soldiers left and right who say, I didn't want to do this, I just wanted some money for college.


JMHO,
Michelle
Wife of a Soldier.

LuvBigRip
04-12-2004, 12:18 PM
I just wanted to say something here, I am the wife of a US Army Soldier (of 16 yrs), I am very sad about what is happening. I am very sorry for the family of this young woman, and I will keep them in my prayers. As I will keep prayers in my heart for the 23 soldiers who died this past week, and the hundreds since this war began.

That being said, I also have to say that the fact is, when these young people join the Army, this is a very real possibility. Our country is at war and our troops are there. Women (in general) asked to be at the front lines, they demanded equality in combat. And they are now there, and most of them don't like it. If all she wanted was a college education, there are a number of grants, loans, and scholarships.

I am probably going to catch alot of heck for this, but it's true. I will pray for her family and I will pray that if her sister has to go back she returns safe, just as I pray for every soldier fighting for his/her country. I have been there, praying for my husband to come home to me. Praying for him to stay safe. And I have been there for families of those who didn't make it home safe.

There are many stories that never make it to CNN or the front page of the paper, about soldiers who are brothers/sisters fighting together in Afgan/Iraq.... it is not something limited to this family. I hope she doesn't have to go back, I wish none of the soldiers had to be there, but the Army is loseing soldiers left and right who say, I didn't want to do this, I just wanted some money for college.


JMHO,
Michelle
Wife of a Soldier.
I couldn't agree more. We are at war with terrorism, like it or not. They declared this war. They bombed our embassies, ships, and towers. As a member of the armed forces, you have to be prepared to go to war. I too will keep her family, as well as all other families affected by this in my prayers.

Air Force Wife

stresseater
04-12-2004, 09:40 PM
I agree as well. It's sad anytime someone young dies, but that is the hazzard they willingly signed up for. If these people were firefighters and died in a blaze it would be sad but it is a real risk that comes with the job.