Part 2 of Sis

[NoFoolPrice]

In case anyone thinks I am a total sucker, I put security alerts on all credit card transactions, filed stolen identity with the DMV (if anyone is stopped and gives my name, they must produce two pieces of positive identification and the police have permission to take them (or me) to jail to prove identification. Before I let my sister come to my home I put a lock on my bedroom door and lock it whenever I leave and she is here. All checkbooks, credit cards, jewelry, etc. is locked away.
Oddly enough, he main complaint on the camera is "it's been two years!" What, because I haven't seen her and let her hurt me for two years this is considered to be evidence of trustworthiness? I don't get it, see, she is unreasonable. I'm gonna give up this bandwith now, I certainly took more than my share but I had to let it out. Big thanks and bless you, kind members and mods of BBS.

[VALENA-)45]

If You A Have Cable, Phone, And Other Bills In Your Name, Call The Companies, And Make A Pin Number, That Only You Know. In Case She Decides To Be Mean And Nasty And Start Cutting Off Your Lights Phone Or Cable. The Company, Will Ask For The Pin Number Everytime You Call. I Did It, And It Works. Good Luck.

[MamaFairal]

TRUST ME........she wont be able to do that to other people if she does end up serving time....the prisoners will straighten her up quick!

WTG on all YOU"VE done tho :)

[silvermist]

I think it's time to disown her for good. It seems like all the "kindness" you've bestowed on her after all you've done have done NOTHING for her except feed her more. Let her out the door and never let her back in since it seems really nothing will change her from what you've said. Let her go to prison and let her find her own way out. Might seem tough but it seems like you've done everything in your power to show her love and she's done nothing back. SHe has serious mental problems and needs to see a psyc. Best of luck to you. And congrats on allyour achievements! :) Don't focus your energy on her and do the best with you're own life.

[stachowiak]

"She has serious mental problems and needs to see a psyc. Best of luck to you. And congrats on all your achievements! Don't focus your energy on her and do the best with you're own life."

I have to agree! My Mother was like this. (My sister & I were raised by my Grandparents Thank G-d!) I finally quit talking to her when she teamed up with my Ex-Husband and tried to take my daughter away from me just cause she wanted her and felt I was unfit to raise her! :rolleyes: What a laugh this from someone who didn't even raise her own kids! Any how I know how you must feel. I tried to be nice to my mother over & over again just like you have tried with your sister but unfortunately with people like this it is impossible to be nice because they take it for weakness and just try to get more crap over on you. The day my mother died I breathed a sigh of relief and was finally able to live my life because before that no matter where I went or what I did somehow some way she always found me and made my life a living hell. People like this are only in it for themselves and no one else. It is mental illness but, it is also evil.

[Unicornmom77]

I will say a prayer for her, and hugs to you hun