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Kitcat
04-08-2004, 08:29 AM
Please pray for my brother and his girlfriend. Our entire family if you could please. We are all devistated. :(

He went into to kiss her goodbye as he left for work. She was gone. My heart is broken. How could this happen. Will forever love and miss you Sydney.




Sydney Raven
3/08/04 - 4/08/04

JazzMama
04-08-2004, 08:31 AM
((HUGS)) for your whole family. Prayers are going up for them. I am truly sorry for their loss.

sharinbo
04-08-2004, 08:31 AM
OMG! I am SO sorry. Big hugs and tears for you and your family.

MamaFairal
04-08-2004, 08:34 AM
OMG i am so sorry for your brother and g/f
{{Prayers}}

{{Syndey}} another angel with wings for heaven above

hmkejma
04-08-2004, 08:34 AM
My heart is breaking for you and our family . I am truly sorry for their loss.prayers will be said for all of you in this time of saddness.
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MrsSpeed
04-08-2004, 08:34 AM
I'm so sorry to hear about your niece. :( I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers. ((((HUGS))))

nightrider127
04-08-2004, 08:40 AM
That is so sad. May God comfort you and your family at this terrible time. Prayers going up for all of you.

NINK
04-08-2004, 08:41 AM
this happened to my parents. my brother was born in december and died in january. i was not born yet but i still feel the loss as it deaply afected every member of my family. i will pray for your family. and please try and get your brother and his girlfriend to go to a grief councelor, my mother refused to get help and has never been able tp properly handle life in general ever since.:(

ShelleyG
04-08-2004, 08:44 AM
omg sweetie, I am so sorry can we send a card maybe? please email me (in my sig line)

Momof2totsand1teen
04-08-2004, 08:48 AM
So sorry:( As a parent, I can not think of anything more devastating:( Prayers and hugs to your family:(

Whitequeen39
04-08-2004, 08:58 AM
I am so sorry, my heart just breaks to hear such news. There is nothing more devastating than the loss of a child...I will keep you all in my prayers...

mimi37
04-08-2004, 09:09 AM
I'm so sorry :( I will keep your family in my prayers.

Safire
04-08-2004, 09:10 AM
So very sorry to hear this. Sending prayers and hugs.

MsLynn
04-08-2004, 09:21 AM
OMG!!!! I'm just speechless, i hate not knowing what to say, other than this brings me to tears and i'm praying for you and your family.. i dont' think i could go on if something happened to one of my kids

AngelGrim
04-08-2004, 09:26 AM
That is so sad, I will pray for them too, I also pray your family will be able to cope and stay close and strong through this.

Jaxx
04-08-2004, 09:30 AM
Oh no! i am so sorry :( my prayers go out to your family

{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

~Roxy~
04-08-2004, 09:33 AM
I am so sorry(((((((hugs)))))))))) :(

peaceluver
04-08-2004, 09:54 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. ((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))). Look around and see if there is a support group in your area called ILAC( I lost a child). These are people just like you that have been through it and can help you deal with your pain and sorrow. God bless you all and I will keep you in my prayers.

Lost my angle Kyle on 12-19-88

dlwt
04-08-2004, 10:00 AM
Oh gosh I am so very very sorry. Huggs to you and your family. will keep you all in my prayers

woleys
04-08-2004, 10:05 AM
I am so so sorry. You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers.

{{{{{{{HUGZ}}}}}}}}}}

catssass
04-08-2004, 10:07 AM
You have my heartfelt sympathy, I am so sorry for your loss...I'll keep you and your family in my prayers....

ezmoney163
04-08-2004, 10:12 AM
OMG!!! I am sooo sorry!!! What a sad thing!!! I donno what else to say except I will say a prayer for your family!!

JKATHERINE
04-08-2004, 10:12 AM
I am so so sorry! My heart is truly breaking for you and your family. I'm sending lots of hugs to you. If you need ANYTHING, be sure to let us all know!!!

THEpouty1
04-08-2004, 10:30 AM
:( I don't know what to say. I cannot imagine the pain you and your family are going through. Prayers, thoughts and hugs are being sent your way.

Dolly<3
04-08-2004, 10:51 AM
((((Kitcat & family)))))
(((((Sidney))))) Rest in peace baby girl.

Angeleyes03
04-08-2004, 10:56 AM
:( I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy go out to your brother and your whole family. I will keep your whole family in my thoughts and prayers. (((((Hugz))))

buttrfli
04-08-2004, 10:59 AM
OMG! :( :( :(

I am so sorry! {{{HUGS}}} and prayers going out to you and your family :(

magicwoman19
04-08-2004, 11:05 AM
I am so sorry for your families loss. This just breaks my heart. I will be praying for you all. So sorry this happened. {{{{{HUGS}}}}} Lisa

PS. this is a really great site that helped me out a lot when I had my miscarriage, it is also for people who have lost there children. www.angels4ever.com

nanajoanie
04-08-2004, 11:29 AM
I'm stunned and saddened. So sorry for all of you. God will take care of little Sydney for all of you. Prayers and huggles for all of you.

Taegus
04-08-2004, 11:43 AM
:( how terrible! sending positive energy your way!

okie
04-08-2004, 11:46 AM
I'm sorry for you and your families loss.

cole70
04-08-2004, 11:54 AM
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family!

Cole

YankeeMary
04-08-2004, 12:21 PM
I am so sorry for this tragic loss...I couldn't even imagine...You are all in my prayers...God Bless.

jcw
04-08-2004, 01:29 PM
I am so sorry. Those poor parents.

texasgander
04-08-2004, 01:37 PM
I'm so sorry....we lost my nephew at 10 months...he would have turned 6 this month. He had Down's and had had heart surgery.......I understand what you are going through.

Lora_1994
04-08-2004, 02:30 PM
Oh hun, I am sooo terribly sorry for your family's loss. That just breaks my heart and brings me to tears to hear that. My prayers are with you guys. If you need to talk, your more than welcome to pm me. (((((( hugs )))))))

laughsalot
04-08-2004, 02:54 PM
I am so sorry. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. This is such a horrible thing to read. I am truly sorry. I wish I could say or do more. :(

Tracy'sMom
04-08-2004, 03:01 PM
Sending prayers Your way. I'm so sorry your loss.

Azriel_LittleHawk
04-08-2004, 06:32 PM
*HUGS* Goddess Bless her and your family. (( or whatever Deity comforts your souls))

monii222
04-08-2004, 08:34 PM
I am so sorry for your families loss. You and your entire famliy will be in my prayers.

tsquared
04-08-2004, 08:39 PM
Sorry for your loss...........i will keep you and your family in my prayers

Urban Cowgirl
04-08-2004, 09:15 PM
I read this thread earlier and I did not post because I could not seem to find the right words. Well I had to come back because I just could not get this out of my mind. Being a Mom this is one of my greatest fears. Wish I knew the words that would help pain.....you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. ((((hugs))))

jonette5
04-08-2004, 09:17 PM
So sorry for your family's loss. You have my hugs and prayers.

DezaRay24
04-08-2004, 09:39 PM
Truly, truly sorry for your loss. I don't know what I would ever do withoout my son. My cousin lost her baby due to a birth defect and I seen how hard that was for her and our family so I can only imagine your family's pain.

Vikki13
04-08-2004, 09:45 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your families loss...You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers...

twinkiesmom
04-08-2004, 10:41 PM
how devistating. :( (((hugs to all your family)))

hollymarie
04-08-2004, 11:42 PM
My prayers are with you and the entire family :o

Angelseyes28
04-09-2004, 04:46 AM
OMG I am so very sorry:(

Tasha405
04-09-2004, 04:55 AM
OMG!!!! I'm just speechless, i hate not knowing what to say, other than this brings me to tears and i'm praying for you and your family.. i dont' think i could go on if something happened to one of my kids Same here. I am so sorry. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. :( {{{Hugs}}}

VALENA-)45
04-09-2004, 06:22 AM
I Am Very Sorry For Your Familes Loss, I Will Keep Yall In My Prayers.

ajksmom
04-09-2004, 09:28 AM
I am so very sorry, I will keep you all in my prayers.

latestdish
04-09-2004, 09:32 AM
;( Really, really sorry. Peace be with you. I once lost a 4 day old son. He died in August 1998 of complications from severe prematurity.

Kitcat
04-09-2004, 11:09 AM
We thank you all very much for your support and prayers. It's a very difficult time for all of us. No one expects to lose someone so young. It makes me very angry to hear she had an appointment on weds. to see a doctor and the doctors office canceled it, something about insurance.

I hate having people ask how you feel. My mom keeps calling and asking. Stop already. I feel sick to my stomach, hurt, very angry, shocked and numb. I am numb because I don't know WTH else to feel. She was robbed ,stolen from us by god of all (people or things). Why her? :confused:

I would not wish this on anyone. :(

moe265
04-09-2004, 11:37 AM
You and your family have my deepest sympathy. :(

DivineMsDi
04-09-2004, 11:51 AM
I'm sorry your angel is in heaven. God bless you all.

karefree
04-09-2004, 03:39 PM
Praying for your family. This is such a sad time for all of you and I am so sorry that this has happened. May you gain the strength you will all need to make it through this tragedy.

babymaniac
04-09-2004, 04:08 PM
Hugs and tears for all of you. :( So sorry...

dcut4
04-09-2004, 04:20 PM
I am so sorry.

robinA
04-09-2004, 05:53 PM
So sorry :(

bcjjhh
04-11-2004, 12:51 PM
I am very sorry to hear of this loss for your family. Please know that all are in our prayers.

PrncsNYC
04-11-2004, 03:02 PM
like others, I'm speechless. (hugs)

Unicornmom77
04-11-2004, 07:32 PM
I read this thread earlier and I did not post because I could not seem to find the right words. Well I had to come back because I just could not get this out of my mind. Being a Mom this is one of my greatest fears. Wish I knew the words that would help pain.....you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. ((((hugs))))
:( :( :( Me also


I will continue to pray

evrita
04-11-2004, 08:01 PM
Quote

We thank you all very much for your support and prayers. It's a very difficult time for all of us. No one expects to lose someone so young. It makes me very angry to hear she had an appointment on weds. to see a doctor and the doctors office canceled it, something about insurance.

I hate having people ask how you feel. My mom keeps calling and asking. Stop already. I feel sick to my stomach, hurt, very angry, shocked and numb. I am numb because I don't know WTH else to feel. She was robbed ,stolen from us by god of all (people or things). Why her?



Oh please dont do that I know you are angry at god and everyone but dont play the what if game it will eat you alive and it isnt good for you or anyone. Poeple are asking you how you are feeling maybe to hope to help you. Most dont know what to say or do a loss of a child is very hard. Just know that you have a special angel now. It is hard to know why it happened or to even think you will survive it hurts to even breathe all you want to do is cry and the ache in the heart will be there for a while. It gets easier but will always be with you. I will say a prayer for you and you can PM me or email me anything if you need to talk. I am glad to see you have reached the angry stage.{{{HUGS}}}}}

evrita
04-11-2004, 08:03 PM
:o opps i messed up

queenangie
04-11-2004, 08:06 PM
So sorry to hear about your little 1 month old niece.
Babies are so precious and
your whole family must be in a deep shock.

Sending a warm hug and
prayers.

God Bless you all!



In The Morning Light
by Yanni
I wake up to see you Standing in the morning light.
I reach out to touch you,
But all that I get Is a memory, and yet, I feel you are near
But my vision's not clear.

Yet I have your image always in view,
I'm forever thinking of you.
I feel you watching me Quietly in the morning light.
I try to find some peace of mind
In knowing you're where You don't have a care.
I take comfort that You no longer have

To keep living in a world full of pain,
But I ache to see you again.
On rainy days I sit and think of our lost years,
The times we spent apart just fill my eyes with tears,
But fields of wild flowers and yellow butterflies
Remind me of you and make me smile.

I walk in to your room And stand there in the morning light.
I cherish the memories:
Your robe on a hook,
The pictures you took.
I can smell your perfume
On the clothes in your room.

Everything I see makes your loss hard to bear,
I see you everywhere.
I live now in a still world Listening in the morning light.
I strain to hear a familiar voice
But all that I hear Is the sound of my tears.
Then from a far place
Comes the slightest trace
Of your voice saying, "I'm all right, you see,
and I always will be."

FrEEbiZ4Me
04-12-2004, 08:34 PM
I am at a loss of words.... I am so sorry for your loss.... (HUGSS)

BabyDolla
04-13-2004, 07:47 PM
I am very sorry to hear of your family's loss. May the Lord give you peace and comfort. I know there really isn't anything to say at a time like this. I will pray for you and your family.

CatrinaF25
04-16-2004, 01:44 AM
Here is a Poem I wrote.
I told God I hated him for taking you away.
I told him it was unfair for you to leave that way.
I told God I was mad you could not stay.
I told him he didnt love me any way.
I told God I wanted you here today.
I told God I wanted you here to stay.
I told God I didnt understand why he had to be that way.
I told God he was unfair when he judged our life that day.
I told God he made it hell for us everyday.
I told God he didnt have a right to keep youaway.
I told God I hated him everyday.
I told God I wanted to hear your precious words you had to say.
I told God I wanted to see you play and run everyday.
I told God i wanted to see you smile in that speical way.
I told God I wanted to Hold you everday.

God Answered me the other day.
He told me it was time for you to go away.
God told me he looked over you everyday.
God told me he was sorry you could not stay.
God told me you looked over us everyday.
God told me you laughed and smiled when you watched Andrianna and Dallas play.
God told me you are with Alexis and you and her play everyday.
God told me you both look like mommmy in every way.
God told me i could talk to you everyday.


God told me not to be angry he took you away.
God told me I can see you everyday.
To look in my heart and see you play.
God told me you know we love you.
God told me you wanted me to be ok.
God told me we are going to see you someday.
God told me he was sorry he took you away.
God told me you had a smile that would take any heartache away.
God told me he loved me today
God told me he was sorry you could not stay

Love Mommy

Whitequeen39
04-16-2004, 09:01 AM
{{{{{{{{{{CatrinaF25}}}}}}}}} Thanks for sharing your poem...now I am bawling my eyes out....I have 4 angels in heaven and I remember the day I lost my little girl I said those same words. I am sorry for your pain and know how you feel. I am sorry for all those who have to suffer the loss of a child, it is devastating but God had a plan, even if we don't understand, they are in a better place and someday we will be reunited...

hotdoglove
04-16-2004, 09:20 AM
sorry to hear of your loss and catrina that is beautiful

CatrinaF25
04-16-2004, 09:43 AM
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