islandgirl
02-08-2004, 12:46 PM
She has 2 kids that are both older than me and they have kids of their own, well she doesn't have anything to do with her daughter & her kids, but everything to do with her son & his kids. Almost, like she's a 2nd mom to them. It's like when we bought our house, it was bigger than her son & DIL's so they stopped talking to us or coming around. I guess they got jealous or whatever.
My Dad told my Granny that I'm pregnant and she therefore called my aunt. Well, I hadn't told my aunt my news by this time, and you would think that she would just call and congratulate me once she heard. Nooooooo - she called her daughter and strated talking crap about me & said in a snotty way, well, I thought Missy's periods were all messed up and she was having problems getting pregnant {Like we're not aloud to have kids, or something}. Then she had the nerve to say, I guess Missy's unemployment has ran out, so now she has another reason to stay at home. (uhhh, the nerve) If she had any inclination as to what's going on in our life, she would know that I've been without a car since August and have no way to a job. Even though I have a job in the works right now, it's none of her business either way.
It sounded like she was jealous. I mean she doesn't ever call or come around for me to even tell her the good news, and I didn't tell anyone IRL till my Dad & my Mom knew first.
She's mad cuz I didn't calll and tell her. Why does she think everything is about her? Why can't she just be happy for us?
She still hasn't called and congratulated us and she probably won't unless I cave and call her to tell her. But I don't feel as though I should have to tell her something she already knows. She's supposed to be an adult, she's someone I looked to as a mother figure growing up, but now she treats me like I'm not even part of her family.
If I have to call her, it will take all I got not to say, "well I know you already know my news, and you haven't called to congratulate me, but just to confirm your suspicions, yes, I am pregnant!"
Thanks for listening if you got this far.
My Dad told my Granny that I'm pregnant and she therefore called my aunt. Well, I hadn't told my aunt my news by this time, and you would think that she would just call and congratulate me once she heard. Nooooooo - she called her daughter and strated talking crap about me & said in a snotty way, well, I thought Missy's periods were all messed up and she was having problems getting pregnant {Like we're not aloud to have kids, or something}. Then she had the nerve to say, I guess Missy's unemployment has ran out, so now she has another reason to stay at home. (uhhh, the nerve) If she had any inclination as to what's going on in our life, she would know that I've been without a car since August and have no way to a job. Even though I have a job in the works right now, it's none of her business either way.
It sounded like she was jealous. I mean she doesn't ever call or come around for me to even tell her the good news, and I didn't tell anyone IRL till my Dad & my Mom knew first.
She's mad cuz I didn't calll and tell her. Why does she think everything is about her? Why can't she just be happy for us?
She still hasn't called and congratulated us and she probably won't unless I cave and call her to tell her. But I don't feel as though I should have to tell her something she already knows. She's supposed to be an adult, she's someone I looked to as a mother figure growing up, but now she treats me like I'm not even part of her family.
If I have to call her, it will take all I got not to say, "well I know you already know my news, and you haven't called to congratulate me, but just to confirm your suspicions, yes, I am pregnant!"
Thanks for listening if you got this far.