Dizzyontheweb
11-30-2003, 04:34 PM
The idiot (30 yrs old, though only recently on his own) was dating a psycho who was living with another man. (an ex con on parole). They broke up last year and she caused a lot of trouble, threatening him at his job, etc. He had gotten a car that was in his name, but she had possession of it. My dh and bil helped him get it back. Then she got a loan and the car was signed over to her. He started seeing her again, knowing our family wanted nothing to do with her. THey broke up again after he would not call the other guy's parole officer and tell her he was back on drugs.
She threatened him, beating on his door at 6am. cops called 2 times. With my help he got an order of protection against her. She had also went to his work. and threatened me cause I had a phone in her name that db had given me to mail back (she and only her could sign for it) to her so she did not have reason to see him.
My parents got a letter from the court addressed to db and they opened it cause he had told them to open his mail and throw it away if not important. It said he had cancelled the OP on the 20th.
We had warned him, if he went back to her we would not help him if he needed it. We are furious. This B#### is a psycho. She runs an escort service. she called filling up his phone msg box, one time crying she loves him, 2 minutes later cussing him out. This was just a part of it. He also bought a comp and she has it, suppose to pay for it, threatened to destroy it and leave on doorstep.
We do not know how to handle this, but she will not be allowed in any of our houses. Mom has cried so much and my dad is furious. I hate the lying about it all. when asked directly if he was seeing her he said no. I had told everyone I was sure he meant it when he said he would not go back to her so I feel like a liar too.
Any advice? good to get off chest.
She threatened him, beating on his door at 6am. cops called 2 times. With my help he got an order of protection against her. She had also went to his work. and threatened me cause I had a phone in her name that db had given me to mail back (she and only her could sign for it) to her so she did not have reason to see him.
My parents got a letter from the court addressed to db and they opened it cause he had told them to open his mail and throw it away if not important. It said he had cancelled the OP on the 20th.
We had warned him, if he went back to her we would not help him if he needed it. We are furious. This B#### is a psycho. She runs an escort service. she called filling up his phone msg box, one time crying she loves him, 2 minutes later cussing him out. This was just a part of it. He also bought a comp and she has it, suppose to pay for it, threatened to destroy it and leave on doorstep.
We do not know how to handle this, but she will not be allowed in any of our houses. Mom has cried so much and my dad is furious. I hate the lying about it all. when asked directly if he was seeing her he said no. I had told everyone I was sure he meant it when he said he would not go back to her so I feel like a liar too.
Any advice? good to get off chest.